I am feeling bad now

@akangirl (2436)
India
December 19, 2008 9:24pm CST
Yesterday i shouted at my mom just because my mood was off and i unleashed someone else anger on my mom. After that i went to my bed, i didn't had the guts to say sorry and i pulled over the blanket and cried eventually when i slept i don't remember. i woke up at 4 am and at 5:30 my mom made me a tea as if nothing happened and started chatting her usual way and started playing with kitten. I think she knows i am sorry because i never done that before.Anything like this happened to you?
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• United States
20 Dec 08
I think that this happens to everyone at some point. They say that we take our anger and frustrations out on the ones we love most. Im sure your mom didn't hold it against you and she understands. I have done it before, and my husband has done it to me several times. We all understand!!! Shihtzumama
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
20 Dec 08
I also think so as everything was just normal in morning. Me and my mom share a very strong bond.
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• United States
20 Dec 08
Yes, I would not worry about it. She knows that you didn't mean it, and that is what us moms are for!!!! Its great that your close with your mom!!!
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
20 Dec 08
I'm sorry that it happened to you and your mom. I think it has happened to all of us at one time or another. I hope you can apologise to your mom. It will make you both feel better.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
20 Dec 08
Thanks i have apologized today.
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20 Dec 08
The best things about moms is how easily they will forget. Of Course she knows you are sorry, but still she should hear the words form you so she can heal the hurt it still caused her. Moms always forgive, thats why they are one of the two most important people in our lives.
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@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
20 Dec 08
Even though your mother tends to ignore it I would advise you to apologise to her. My mother and I sometime have our differences because you know that we are not perfect but I never done it in a disrespectful way. I will apologies whenever it happen though and when I do a burden always lifted.
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
20 Dec 08
i think you have a great mom. if you can't actually say sorry to your mom, you just have to tell her that you didn't mean to shout at her. and that it was something that you didn't plan or really liked to do. and so in that you are saying that you are wrong and sorry without actually saying those words.
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@wjcp2008 (106)
• China
20 Dec 08
We will always be children in front of our parents,so they can accept what we did and understand us well.Last year,I did such rude thing to my mother.I knew I hurt her deeply and I was very miserable,too.But the next day,she treated me as nothing happened.Then I apologized for what I did,my mother was deeply moved.I will never do that thing to my parents.
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• India
21 Dec 08
Yeah this has happned to me several times, and the guilty feeling i have after that is enormous and i really feel at that point of time, i should never even speak to some1 i love especially my mom.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 08
You should never go against your mom or lose your temper in front of her. Think of those people without mothers love and you should be lucky to still have a mother to love and care for you. Remember that temper is not one of those things without reasons and warning, even though you may like to believe it does. For to believe that gives you your excuse that you are not to blame. It gives you chance to excuse yourself by saying "I don't know what happened. I just lost my temper." So stay cool no matter how difficult it may take especially to the person who has given you life. Without her you are not here in this world. Love and cherish your mother. All you can do now is to swallow your pride and give her a peck on the cheek. You will be appreciated and the bad blood created by your outburst may soon subside.
@akangirl (2436)
• India
20 Dec 08
Thanks buddy i have apologized to her.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 08
i can feel that your mom really loves you and she has a forgiving heart for being as she is after what you have done to her the previous night. it would be best that even if your mom acts the way she usually does you have to tell her that you are sorry for what you have done. that would make you feel better. hope this helps. happy mylotting!!!
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
20 Dec 08
This happens all the time in my home, the roles are reversed thoigh1 i get shouted at my daughter and i do my bit of shouting too LOL and then we go and stay in our rooms and by the next morning or sometime within a couple of hours it is as if nothing has happened ! we are back to normal until the next time - so dont worry, carry on venting out your pent up feelings, but give your mother some chance as well to do her bit ! that way it is equal
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
I can't remember anything like that. All I know is that I never said sorry to my mom when we have a little misunderstanding. But I always show her that I was really very sorry through my actions..
• India
20 Dec 08
This happens to everybody but the best thing was you apologized.. i think this will make ur bond even stronger ! u r a gr8 daughter !
• India
20 Dec 08
Hi again akan, It does happen buddy!!! But do go over and say SORRY It would make you feel much better As for your Mother, I don't think she would need a SORRY to take it in her stride !!! Cheer up mate !!!
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• India
20 Dec 08
Sometime when we are angry we tend to shout without any reason it happens to many of us . So if you are facing a problem you can just tell the truth to the person and soon you may solve the problem.