is it possible not to get angry ?

[b]huh? anybody here dont like you? is that posible? i mean is is there anybody dont like you at all. theres no way someone dont like you cuz your so friendly and open minded person so why anybody will make angry at you.[/b]

H[i]i bombshell, In my case, I will say not possible for me..LOL! I am happy and contented but will be more happier if my family is with me, you know! but overall, I am thankful to God for all the blessings and hopefully also I will be always in a nice mood since I know I have a "maldita side" ! LOL![/i]

always happy and contented

Alot of us go through alot of things and it will make us angry from time to time. I think people who know how to hold their emotions handle anger alot better.

happy new years. 2008 i had one of my biggest changlle as far being angery, i guess in away i passed and then i still got totally mad. but i knew it was time for me to leave where i was and who made me that way. often when somethings or people makes us angery we can just look at it as screw it.. they are just stuipd. it's not wrong if we get angery, it's how we deal with it and the sititaution we are in when we get angery.

Nobody is happy all the time. We are humans and we as humans can get angry. It's part of our emotions. What I believe is that it is not possible not to get angry, but it is possible to control our anger when we get angry. We just have to remind ourselves and think twice before to go on with our anger. Once we are able to re-think before getting angry, the chances is that we will cool down and not get anger after all.

hey you.you been very articulate in ur presentation.i really am happy over dis.you could leave without been angry.

yeah its possible to have control on angry.... only u have to be in happy mood always ..not have to worry anything and be careless

Hi Bombshell, Now 2008 is over I am now peaceful and yes content. I have put a lot behind me but we all know life is a rollercoaster and unless Socrates or someone of that naure I guess at some stage this year I will feel anger, it is a negative emotion but we all need to get the balance right anyhow and these emotions do tend to surface from time to time. I am looing forward to 2009 though and feel good about it. Huggles. Ellie :D

i'm also somewhat happy right now because a new year is opening before me. that means, new opportunities and blessings to come. but regarding your question of being happy all year round, i think that's not possible XD. unless you conspire to the people around you to never ever make you angry, or you isolate yourself and make sure no man will ever be able to come in contact with you, maybe there's a little chance. since in that situation, you might only feel loneliness, sadness, or boredom. hehe :D well, the bottom line is, we are humans and we feel different emotions. oftentimes, we are caught unaware in a situation and before we know it, we are already out of control of ourselves. however, positive thinking does help and i believe you are doing that. i might as well do that also.

oh yes i am. despite certain things not going my way.. i have brain-washed myself that it's the new year & it's for me to not maintain that good mood. even when my parents rubbed a little shoulders with each other, my mum maintained her good humour because it was the New Year. But other than that, i'm pretty happy with hte New Year...

hmm i think it would be impossible since crap happens in life but heck its worth a try right??

I hope you will be in happy mood for the whole year. Restrain your anger.Try to be jolly every day ,every time.My suggestion is put a ice bag on your head for all the time.You will be very cool headed person.

Well, I believe the defense to anger depends on the strength of your happy memories. If you have a strong happy memory in your mind and in your mood always, you have less chance getting ignited into fury. You have good weapons: happiness and being content. Keep them in your mind and your heart, when something isn't working out or when something is turning out bad, remember the things you have in your life and don't grieve so much on what you "should" have.

With New Year we all start off with a blank piece of paper, start, as we mean to go on, if we start the new year contented, happy and positive it will set the precedence for the year ahead, however things to do change, things alter our way of thinking, people, life, events change us and our emotions, as we are human are tested in every way, the little mishap, the crossed word, the disappointment, the disaster all these can change our contentment into frustration, frustration leads to anger as does disappointment. It's the way we cope with everything that hits us and if we can deal with the anger and continue to be content, then we can live happy and fulfilling lives.

I must say that my new year has brought me such happiness seeing how 2008 was just plain yuck and bad for me. I was estatic to have 2009 come and I welcomed it with open arms gladly. Now the question you had is it possible for it to stay this way and remain happy well I am hopeing and praying that it does for that would be awesome. I am going to try with every day to think positive and not let things get the best of me and ruin what I have now which is happiness ruin anything for me. Happy New Year