arguing
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
United States
February 26, 2009 2:42pm CST
how often do you argue with the one you love? I say my boyfriend and I argue at least maybe 2 -3 times a week. Usually about stupid stuff. Do you feel that is too much. Let me know what you feel and how often you argue with your loved ones.
10 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 09
I have been there several times in the past. The home was a battlefield and was never a moment of peace before. But now I have tried to detach from the roots of all this problem and create an individual life myself and learn to be more at peace with myself.

@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
28 Feb 09
You know this is a great piece of advice I have been thinking about doing this too. I should and stop worrying about someone that does not want to change, I need to worry about myself and my girls and that is it! Thanks:)
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@hershiez (464)
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27 Feb 09
Hello there, mom....^_^ Me and my boyfriend always argue 'bout something, uhmmm...I don't know. Hahahaha..^_^ But, it's an ultimate test of a relationship, argue and still hold hands. ^_^ That's sweet! ^_^
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
1 May 09
Thanks I am glad to hear that I am not the only one that has arguements with my boyfriend, holding hands is a lot better. TAke care and happy mylotting to you. 

@silverjam (969)
• United States
26 Feb 09
I guess we do a lot w/ my husband and if am trying to rate in in average I guess we're arguing almost everyday. Sometimes I even consider it as normal part of our married life. We're in the period of adjustment. But we always make up very soon after that.
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
27 Feb 09
I am glad I am not the only one, thanks for giving your input!
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
we argued a lot but that's before we got married..now we have a harmonious relationship and in a ceasefire mode..lol..hope this is for forever because i'm tired with our petty quarrels..tsk3..
happy mylotting!
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
27 Feb 09
cool I am planning on gettting married soon myself, I hope we argue less than too! Thanks for your response
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
27 Feb 09
It's funny, my partner and I have rarely ever argued if ever. In the very beginning I thought it was extremely weird. When I brought it up he thought I was weird for making an issue of it, lol. I think that couples argue when they lose patience with each other and when they are worried. You two need to decide what's important and let the little stuff go. The stupid stuff is just masking bigger stuff you are not really talking about. Good luck!
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
27 Feb 09
thanks for your wise words, it seems you are a lucky one.
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
27 Feb 09
To me, that is a lot to be arguing. My husband and I have disagreements about once every 2 to 4 months. Don't let the little things come between you. If you really care for each other then the little things shouldn't be an issue.
You never know how long someone will be with you, or how they will leave you.
Make the most of your time together. Arguing is not good, someone needs to be the "bigger" person and not snap back helping an argument along it's way.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
27 Feb 09
My man and I have been together two years and in that two years we didn't even have our first arguement till about a month ago. It almost ended our relationship, but we have solved the issue and we have not argued since. I think it is normal for people to argue in a relationship, but I like it much better that we don't. I hate arguing so we always try to comprimise on things so they don't turn into an arguement.

@thungster (156)
• United States
26 Feb 09
I don't have a boyfriend currently but I argue with people in general. I think it's okay if you argue with your boyfriend as long as you both know that, at the end of the day, you love each other.
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
26 Feb 09
makes sense to me, I thank you for your feedback! :) It just seems sometimes people feel that a relationship is all fun and games it is but not everyday! thanks again, 









