What do you say?

United States
April 3, 2009 4:49pm CST
When someone responds to your discussion, but their response has practically nothing to do with your discussion, what do you say to them? Do you ingore them and move on to the next response which actually is an answer to your question? Do you comment back to them notifying them that they have not answered your question, and perhaps they should read the discussion more carefully next time? Do you thank them for responding anyways, without letting them know that they're off topic? Do you have any cute or funny ways of letting someone know they haven't answered your question?
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21 responses
• Indonesia
3 Apr 09
I am a newbie in mylot, haven't got much response or write much topic yet, but I imagine if someone responses off topic, I still will appreciate the effort but also make some " response " on their response :-) may be it would be like this : " yes, you are right, but please let me know what do you think about ....." This is my way to make he or she read my topic one more time. About funny way to let them know, it has to be relating to what they response, and I could make a cute phrase to let them realize but not offended anyhow.
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
3 Apr 09
i like cherry cheesecake.
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• United States
3 Apr 09
So do I. Do you have any right now? I've got the munchies!!
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
3 Apr 09
Ha Ha, i wish!!! actually to REALLY answer your question.....if it's somebody that seems to maybe not have a grasp on the English language, i'll try to correct them and steer them in the right direction. if it's not what i have mentioned above, i'll usually just ignore them. if it's somebody just being a goof (kind of like i did to you) then i'll have fun and interact with them. off to find some cheesecake now!
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• United States
3 Apr 09
Send me some of that cheesecake too!!
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@phon4u (2215)
• Laos
4 Apr 09
I would say thank for dropping in or visiting to respond. I have never said any negative words in mylot, so I won't expect to get the negative feedback. Or I may tell or ask to the point.
@Andi21 (85)
• Germany
4 Apr 09
I am a newbie at Mylot, too. Such things happens, I would ignore it or read it and saw nothing about it.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I normally just skip right on by their response and act as if it is not there. I don't want to thank them for not answering the question, but I don't really want to get on their case about it either.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I have left a comment on a response to a friends discussion before cause I was in that kind of a mood. It was something like, "And what does this have to do with the discussion topic?"
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• United States
3 Apr 09
That's usually what I do too, but sometimes I'm caught in a rare mood and I just have the desire to leave some sort of wise remark about their response!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
3 Apr 09
I report the response as 'irrelevant' and move on. In the Guidelines were are told: "Please make sure you give your best effort to respond with quality responses. If you don’t know how to respond to a discussion, go on to the next one. Answers like “I don’t know” or “I don’t care” don’t help anyone and will be removed"
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• United States
3 Apr 09
Well of course I knew that much! I was just wondering if anyone had any cute comebacks really. I just came across an answer that isn't completely irrelevant, but it also doesn't answer the question, and I couldn't help but to feel irritated when I read this response. I couldn't think of anything to say that wasn't rude... so that's why I started this conversation!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
3 Apr 09
Sometimes but only sometimes I leave a smilie.... this one ---
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• United States
3 Apr 09
That's a good idea!
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@mariposaman (2959)
• Canada
4 Apr 09
Today I went to the bulk food store and got 6 squares of sem-sweet chocolate. I eat it like a chocolate bar because it tastes like the premium cocoa chocolate bars, but someone got them mixed up with the unsweetened chocolate. What was the question again? Oh yes, I would ignore it, I am not quite up to cute quips. I always think of something cute to say hours after it does not matter anymore so if nothing comes to me right away I just move on. I have been told the odd time I am funny.
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• United States
4 Apr 09
Do you mean to say you bought 6 squares of unsweetened chocolate? What are you going to do with them? I don't bother with the squares of chocolate, I buy the semi-sweet chocolate chips, because you can melt them down or do whatever you want with them.
• Canada
4 Apr 09
When someone responds to your discussion, but their response has practically nothing to do with your discussion, what do you say to them? I was giving you a response that had practically nothing to do with your discussion. I usually read the initial poster carefully so I will not do this, I deliberately replied with an irrelevant comment as my attempt at humour. I guess it did not work. By the way, yes I buy semi-sweet because it is so chocolaty and tastes very much like the premium high cocoa expensive chocolate bars but at half the price. However if they are not sweetened they are quite bitter, sort of like lemonade without the sugar. Somehow someone must have mixed them up and I bit into one and it is quite bitter.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
4 Apr 09
I just ignore it and move on. This also applies when they are trying to answer but have a hard time with the language. I don't expend very much energy on these!
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• United States
4 Apr 09
I'm with you. I'm not very understanding or patient when it comes to those not fluent in English.
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
15 Apr 09
I don't usually say anything. If they are that off topic, I tend to get suspicious of them possibly cheating their way through mylot. I've seen a few users do this before and sure enough my suspicions were correct. I will notify mylot if their is a copycat. I have even gone so far as warn others of people like this. However, it isn't really necessary to go this far. Notifying the admin is usually good enough and the cheater gets banned. When you see someone respond in this fashion it might be a good idea to peek at their profile and see how they respond to discussions on here, just in case. Hopefully it's nothing, but chances are it might be something that isn't good.
@chimrani (1426)
• India
3 Apr 09
[b]I too get many responds with out any meaning and i have no idea to give response so i just ignore and go to next response and if i think that it is good and there is chance to give response then i give response.. "It is better to ignore comments with out any meaning"[/b]
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@4ofmyown (1119)
• United States
5 Apr 09
That is funny...I think we have all had those responses. I usually just say " thanks for your response". I could say "why did you bother" or "what???" but what's the point? I know sometimes it is a response from people in another country and maybe to them they did give a good response. Your guess is as good as mine.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I start by hitting the minus button. Then I try & think of something totally irrelevant to say back. If really off the wall, I point out to them that they really need 2 read the discussion before responding. If really stupid, I give them my Mother lecture which goes on & on & on & then on some more. Sometimes I just don't feel like making the effort so I minus & go on. It's obvious they don't care enough to respond properly...so why should I care enough to comment back. It all depends on my mood & the full moon!!! Cute comebacks??? Why spin my wheels on someone who doesn't care???
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
4 Apr 09
Well if someone responds to my discussion and if there responds has nothing to do with my topic I might try to clarify what the topic is about and exactly what I meant, and sometimes I just let it go because people make mistakes, I guess it just depends on how important the topic is to me, because some topics are a little more light hearted then others.
@mathss1 (1181)
• United States
4 Apr 09
I thank them for responding but if someone tries to spam mylot it is another story Have a gr8 time Njoy
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• United States
3 Apr 09
In most cases I Ignore it. What really gets to me is when someone responds saying the same thing that I said in my discussion as though they came up with it. Not acknowledging that they agree with me. For example they say something like "A helpful way I found to clean is with baking soda". Even though I already said that in MY discussion. Another thing that gets me is when I say something like "I like strawberries" and someone says "I can't believe you like "oranges". They are on topic, but somehow misunderstood what I am saying. Sorry for my weird examples but I didn't want to get to specific. I wish I had a way to tell them that was cute, but it would probably end up coming acroos as offensive.
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• United States
4 Apr 09
Most of the time people will read the title of your discussion, and not the actual discussion. I don't know how many times I've had someone respond to the discussion answering whatever question I may have asked in the title, even though the remainder of the discussion had gone off in another direction.
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• Philippines
4 Apr 09
Hey there! I do encounter lots of responses like that. Sometimes I ignore them. When I feel like commenting back to their response, that is really off topic, I do notify them that they didn't answer what was ask. Yes, I still do thank them for adding up responses in my responses (they just add up not contribute.lol). Cute or funny ways to let them know that they haven't answered the question? I use the emoticons. . I also use the blink, ninja, whistle, and rasp emoticons. Have a nice day. Happy posting!!
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
4 Apr 09
Hi katsmeow, i have not had any such experiences so far. But if it happens i will definitely thank them for taking part in my discussion and ask them directly that i would really appreciate it if they let me what they thought of the topic and did they have anything to add?
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
Usually I just ignore them...
@leoliu39 (540)
• China
4 Apr 09
say nothing and go on your mylot activity.this is the right way to do for that kind of response.don't be bothered by them!
@kirei24 (251)
• Philippines
4 Apr 09
I am glad that i didn't encounter things like this so far. All my discussions answered correctly and no one is out of topic. But if ever someone responded to my discussion that practically has nothing to do with it, i will think of a response saying that she/he is out of topic and said it in a nice way. =)
@freerr (666)
• China
4 Apr 09
Hi kat, I will don't tell them that you have not answered my question. I think that is their freedom, I just get the useful infomation . But I don't ignore them, I always comment with a simple "Thank you for you response."