What Do You IMMEDIATELY Do if You Fail?

@mjmlagat (3170)
Philippines
May 11, 2009 3:25am CST
Life is just like a wheel, whether you agree with me or not. There are times when we get what we want but many times also we encounter the least than we expected. In times like these, what do you immediately do if you fail in some aspects or event in life? Do you sulk..blame others..blame yourself or what? Thanks in advance for posting your answers.
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16 responses
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
11 May 09
I would like to keep quite and analyze what really happens. I would pray that I will be enlighten and would remain strong for the failure that I have encountered. I will remain positive - I will learned my mistakes from failing and will face life struggles optimistically.
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
11 May 09
That's a very good disposition you have there! I'm sure you'll be more successful in life! Thanks for the response and Godbless!
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Usually i just keep the pain to myself.. I go to the place where I usually stay whether I feel happy or not.. that place is silent..I'll only here the sound of the river ,the air...that place for me is so nice...
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
All of us know that failure is part of our life. Some times I blame my self but mostly when I failed I pray and tell my self that, that is just part of life.
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
hi:: for me life is also a wheel sometimes we get down or up ,, So it means if we are in down we encountered trials and this trials are not the reason to give up.Cause we know sometimes we fail so just be yourself and have trust to god and be optimistic in life like me;;;
15 Sep 10
When i fail, I immediately look back and try to figure out what had gone wrong. Then after realizing what had failed me, i try to go back from the start and do it again.I also slap myself especially when i fail for no good or perhaps because of carelessness.^^,.In addition, i don't blame others nor myself of the failure i've encountered. Failures are always there on our path blocking towards the crossroads. So why then blame if you, yourself, also commits failures?
2 Oct 10
first thing i do if i fail is to get calm and pray so i can get an positive energy and guidance from GOD so i can still move on for another day, another challenges that i can encounter in my life.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
12 May 09
i did experience when i failed in one of th medical subjects,i was so depressed that i ran to my friends house as i know she supports me unconditionally and i did rally around my parents also for their unconditional love.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
11 May 09
I have no problem in blaming myself for alot of things. I cannot do anything right to make my life better. I blame others too when it is their fault.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
11 May 09
When I fail, I try again. I look at what I did and figure out what I did wrong then correct it. Sometimes this can be done, sometimes you just have to accept failure, especially in personal relationships. Failure is not a bad thing, you learn from your mistakes so that you can do it better the next time.
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
14 May 09
Usually, when I fail at something at first I'm a little upset about it and at the same time I figure it just wasn't meant to be. That God has other plans for me. I try to keep my faith going at times like that. Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@gxyywhyzy (450)
• China
14 May 09
nothing can struck me.there still have many chance to try if you failed.
• China
11 May 09
This question firstly reminds me of my failure in playing basketball.I'm the kind of person that don't want to lose,so if I wrongly pass the ball or have some other kinds of faults,I will try my hard to cover!But normally there's no use of covering,then I will pay all my attention to play!When it turns out to be that we lose at last,I feel very depressed and won't have any other mood to do things until something very interesting have attracted my attention!
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
I sulk. It's like I cry over it or just sulk over it for like a day or more depending on the intensity and then after all the tension is released I move on. I sometimes blame myself for other things or others if they are involved but most of the time I just grieve about it and then move on. Life is full of failures, heartaches etc... but we are still breathing so we should keep going. If we think about it or dwell about it for a long time you are just making yourself buried to your problems more than looking for a solution.
@ADMaroC (76)
1 Sep 10
In my own opinion if I fail in any obstacles/circumstances that I've encountered in my life, it may not be what I want, but it just happened and I should probably do next is to figure it out and prevent it from happening again.
@galileo2008 (1141)
• Philippines
11 May 09
I pray. That's the best solution for every problem.. I also share my feelings to my friends and significant others.
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
11 May 09
If i fail i will immediately rescheduling my plan B. I always prepare a plan B for any work. But sometimes my plan B also fails. In such situation, i won't plan anything more since i have push my best effort. All i have to do on such situation is praying. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.