Got a job helping an elderly couple. Survived the first week!

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I didn't know if I was going to survive the first day. They kept changing their minds and arguing with each other. Actually, he can't make up his mind and she starts arguements with him. So I stand around and wait for them to quit arguing. Actually, I stopped standing around and started dusting. Examples: On the phone: Come to work at 7. No 8. How about 9? 7 is early, but you can get more done. 8, 9 (etc. extolling the virtues of each one). Over and over again until I picked one. I said 8. Later on in the conversation, repeated all this. Told him, "8, will be there at 8." Later on, called me back and asked when I was coming. "8, definitely 8" At the house, "I'll pay you today. No, I'll pay you Friday. Today maybe, Friday definitely." I didn't even get into that. She spoke for 15 minutes about things that had nothing to do with the job. He tried to tell me what he wanted done. She growled at him, "You always interrupt me. Let me finish!" Then proceded for another 5 minutes to finish a story about neighbors that I don't know of hers and really I don't care to know. I don't even live in the same town. During that time, I could have been working. A little later, this happened again, but war broke out because he decided he would be heard! By the end of the week, I knew some things to do, so when they did this stuff, I would dust, water plants, mop a floor, anything. Eventually, they call me back and tell me what they wanted me to do. If there is a multiple choice question, I generally pick something and stick to it so the decision is made. If they argue, I go to a different part of the place and work, then come back when they're done. So I survived. At the end of the week, they said, "Well, you survived both of us, not many people can for some reason." Gee I wonder what that would be. Actually, when they aren't driving me crazy, they have a wonderful sense of humor and can be quite interesting. But if I'm not careful, we could all be telling stories and the home would never get clean. We're all storytellers. Have you ever had someone you worked for who couldn't make up his or her mind? Someone who often argued? Often didn't let anyone get a word in edgewise? Have to wait for orders while people argued (I had that in a factory once. Two supervisors called me over and then argued about what they wanted me to do in front of me and told me not to leave, just stand there while they argued, at least in this situation, I can do something else)?