Judging people body? virgin or not?

Malaysia
August 22, 2009 2:20am CST
There are people in some culture who always know how to judge people especially a girl/women whether she is virgin or not by looking at their body figure. I never feel like to judge someone like that, as for me I'll never know how to see the 'body', and i don't feel like it's fair for the person that I'd judged. Is it true you can tell people virginity from the their body? or it's just a myth? totally ridiculous? Is there any of your friend who like to 'tell' about their friends? Do you believe in such thing? what do you think? Happy mylotting ..
13 responses
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
hi, i always encountered that problem with my co-workers, boy friends.. everytime a girl passes by in front of us they just whisper it directly that "oh, she's not a virgin anymore", i felt so sad with the girl not knowing that she was back-bited with my friends.. and it is really unfair to her.. it's really ridiculous angel, tha't not really true.. janebeth.
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
24 Aug 09
i am from philippines and i think it's not on the hometown, it's on the person, the personality itself..!! they are so lucky they can judge it by that only but i think they are just making fun, well for me it's not really true..
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi Janebeth, thanks for sharing. May i know where are you from, seems like this kind of judging quite common at your place. This kind of thing pretty common at my place. I have a friend who went to his boyfriend hometown for an event. His boyfriend's father have this so-called eyesight who can judge someone whether she is virgin or not, and my friend still virgin, and she passed that 'father' eyesight. lol.. This kind of stories are very common here, I don't know how people can think in that way. I'm very upset every time there is someone who judging other people, i'm not the type that insist everyone to think in the same way with me.
@Janetx3 (441)
• Singapore
22 Aug 09
Lol, didn't know that such judgment exist. It's ridiculous. No such culture in Singapore too, i think it's just a myth. happy mylotting
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Wow, you in singapore, i'm in malaysia, we are so near. You never hear such things?
@Janetx3 (441)
• Singapore
22 Aug 09
Nope, not at all. I don't even know how can people judge someone just by their size
@marvil (25)
• Philippines
23 Aug 09
its just a myth, body figures might be genetically inherited. you can't judge a woman if shes virgin or not unless you saw her --- already...
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Thanks Marvil, for posting here. Ya, i don't see how they going to judge for a plump and a skinny girl/women. lol. Happy mylotting
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 09
judging people body is behavior of the human culture, some of parts I believe because the body will change like virgin or not ? if you observe will much any different among virgin or not
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi advokatku, thank for sharing. You can tell the difference for virgin or not based on their body? Which part you can refer to? Hope to hear from you soon :)
• Singapore
23 Aug 09
dont believe and besides, i find it hard to believe that just by looking at their body figure, we can tell whether they are virgin or not
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Yeah, it just hard to believe, and it's not fair to that girl/women that have been judged. Happy mylotting.
@underdogy (700)
• Thailand
23 Aug 09
I've heard of it many times from friends and i was flabbergasted the first time i heard it. I was a bit gullible before so i believed them. Some of them boast that very few people can do it and you have to be with women in order to acquire it. I thought before, that it was a skill and dreamt of having it lol. But now, i consider it ridiculous and surely don't believe them.
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi underdogy, thanks for sharing. I heard this one very long time already. Ya, when we were still green, we kinda believe everything people said. Good to know that you think it is ridiculous. Happy mylotting =)
• Philippines
22 Aug 09
You could not tell by just looking in the body of the person you have been oogling with your eyes for days, months or even from years. I have Uncle who married a girl raise from rural villages and he think she is a virgin. The girl look modest, wear long skirts and have good manners. So, my Uncle think she is a virgin and during honeymoon he get mad. He discover the girl is no longer virgin and what really make him mad the girl have loose organs. Then, it makes us confuse of whether a girl muscles elasticity loss is no longer a virgin or she really have past relations. The girl denied it, but she lies as she later admit she got a boyfriend. So we could not really conclude by just looking in her attitudes and faces if she or he is still a virgin unless we get intimate..Some are liberated but remain conservative inside, thus maintaining her virginity while other acts like a good actress they know to cover up..Now, they have 3 children, despite the frequent quarrels. What matter is to have loving children and forget the past as humans only have natural tendency to get sin, must be forgiven as nobody is perfect..As what I remeber from Holy scriptures those who have no sin should throw stones, but you could not do it, for me everyone have sin, do not judge in order not to be judged.
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Hi neelianoscet, thanks for posting here. I totally agree with you, we never can tell by just looking in someone attitudes , or their body, but I'm not sure until get intimate. I'm a girl, i think I'll never know how to tell, and I will never want to tell. I like the scripture you quote from the bible, I do not judge people in this kind of matter, but I also not a perfect human, i commit sin. Sometimes i did judge people in other matter without really mean it, but I'll remember this scriptures and try not to it again. Have a nice day..
@maezee (41997)
• United States
23 Aug 09
Oh my gosh. That's quite silly. I don't think anyone can tell. I do think, though, that people who are more sexually experienced have a different.. "glow" to them, maybe. A different persona, almost. But that's not always the case.
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi maezee, yep, that kind of people are silly. Just don't know why and how they can think in that way.. Happy mylotting :)
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
22 Aug 09
I don't think that is possible. I do have a friend who can look at a woman and tell if she is pregnant. He told me my sister in law was pregnant long before she told everyone. I couldn't tell you how he could tell but he could.
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi bird123, thanks for posting here. I heard before someone can tell a lady is pregnant, but for me this kind of judgment is less controversial. lol.. Maybe the pregnant lady has that kind of glow. Happy mylotting..
@ricven (98)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 09
In my opinion, it's just a myth and totally ridiculous. I don't believe anything like that. This is unfair. How about someone that has body like a pregnant woman?. Ouh..
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi ricven, thanks for responding. Ya, i don't know how they still can judge when the girl is just plump or just too skinny. Happy mylotting=)
@vandana7 (98826)
• India
22 Aug 09
Scientifically, u cant, unless the girl walked out after having just lost virginity and was in unbearable pain. What a waste of time! Well, idle mind is indeed devil's workshop. And it is not nice to look at a girl/lady like that. How do u know tomorrow ur child will not be marrying her child? Would u then feel at ease to be in front of her?
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Thanks vandana for sharing here. Ya, it is never a nice thing to judge people, and it is not fair at all. Happy mylotting
• United States
22 Aug 09
It's totally ridiculous in my opinion. I've never heard of that superstition before; it's not one that we have in the States.
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Hi Laurie, thanks for sharing, I am an Asian and the culture here is different. This conversation just happened between me and my friends yesterday. A lot of people here did think like that, I definitely won't say it out loud 'it's totally ridiculous, have you ever been to school?' to my other three friends that did think so. haha.. Human is weird, someday, somewhere, they always come out with some funny theory and not scientific proven, but yet still believe in it. Have a nice day and happy mylotting =)
@skywalk (66)
• Indonesia
22 Aug 09
I think it's impossible to judging a girl's virginity just from their body shape. But if you want to judging an old maid, perhaps this method could works. I knew about such thing but i don't thing it's really accurate. Happy mylotting.
• Malaysia
24 Aug 09
Hi skywalk, thanks for sharing here. Wow, i never know what to judge with an old maid. Some more, i don't think it is good to judge people, and it totally none of our business. lol. happy mylotting