Our cat Arthur

@mcat19 (1357)
United States
August 25, 2009 1:09pm CST
As some of you may know, Arthur was very very sick. We had been giving him subqs and syringe feedings all weekend. Monday morning he had a seizure and passed away. We are very very sad. We waiting in our vet's parking lot for 45 minutes until they opened. They were very sad, too. We were told that his liver just gave out. Losing a beloved pet is a heart crushing experience. It's not a new one, but each time is like a first, totally devastating.
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16 responses
25 Aug 09
please accept my most sincere sympathetic thoughts. Like you , i am a cat owner. i have owned many cats during my 40 years of marriage and each of them is precious and it still hurts when they have to go to that rainbow bridge and cross over to that big cattery in the sky. As you say , its not a new experience , but still hurts every single time. You did your best in caring for your beloved cat in his final days. and i am sure he was aware you loved and cared for him. big hugs from me to you xx
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@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Thank you. As they say, time is a great healer. One day we will be together again and he will be strong and healthy again.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Aug 09
:-( My condolences...
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@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Thank you. It's going to take a long time to be able to handle this loss.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
2 Sep 09
I am so sorry to hear that. It is never easy to lose a pet. We lost our beloved hamster about a month ago. We got so attached to him. We have lost other pets too and it is never easy to go through. Our dog is old too and could pass at any time. I am dreading it too.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
2 Sep 09
Thank you. I'm sorry about your hamster. My granddaughter has one and I know how lovable they are. My prayers for your doggie, too.
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
30 Aug 09
[b]My condolences, mcat. I really feel for you. I know it's cliche to say Arthur's in a better place & out of pain, now, but it's still true. It will get better, just give it time. I'm going to go hug my kitty, right now. Maggiepie "WHERE'S THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE?"[/b]
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
30 Aug 09
Thank you so much. It is getting better, a little each day.
@ekimflow (121)
• United States
27 Aug 09
so sorry to hear of the loss of your pet.it's always hard to lose them because they bring so much to our lives but if you keep them in your mind then their never really gone.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Thank you. I know he will always live in my heart and never leave again.
• Pamplona, Spain
30 Aug 09
Hi mcat, Sending you lots of sympathy for the loss of your Cat Arthur. Losing a cat can be a very distressing experience or any other kind of pet for that matter. Loss of a pet takes time a lot of time to get over.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
30 Aug 09
We're feeling a bit better with every day that passes. He will be forever missed.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I'm so sorry to hear about Arthur. A beloved pet is like a child, at least for me. At least you know that he's not in pain any more. If the Rainbow Bridge is a comfort then great, my faith says that animals have animal souls and they never fell, so they go straight to heaven. Now, they don't pass Go and pick up the halo, but they don't have to worry about not making it either.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I find the Rainbow Bridge a great comfort. The thought of him happy, painfree and healthy eases the pain of his loss a tiny bit. He was so much loved.
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• United States
26 Aug 09
aww:( my condolences. i lost 2 within 2 days of each other a couple of years ago,i know how heartbreaking it can be.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
I really thought he would get well. Thank you for your condolences.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
26 Aug 09
Aww--mcat19 I'm so sorry to hear about Arthur...at least he's no longer in pain and now frolicking and playing with my own furbabies that have passed on to Rainbow Bridge. From what you mentioned before you were doing everything possible to help him...I've done that myself in the past and unfortunately things didn't work out either and a furbaby would pass on And yes, I've had cats since I was five...it's never easy to lose a "baby"
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
There's not one of them who isn't special. Each cat is such an individual. There is an Arthur-shaped hole in my heart.
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@Fortunata (1135)
• United States
26 Aug 09
I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your kitty. I lost a cat not too long ago, so I know how you feel. Condolensces to you, and God Bless.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
Thank you. It's very hard, as you do know so well.
• United States
26 Aug 09
I'm very sorry that happened to you.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
Thank you. We are trying to handle it.
@qtquiggs (50)
• United States
26 Aug 09
sorry to hear of your furry-baby's passing. make sure you stop at rainbowsbridge.com you can set a page up for him so you can visit him and give him updates of your life. my beau's cat passed last year and we had a memorial service for him on that. it was very touching and many tears were shed. you can talk to other furrybabies' parents and can get comfort.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
What a wonderful idea. Thank you so much.
@sehlers (163)
• United States
26 Aug 09
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been through it a few times and it doesn't get any easier.
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
You got that right; it sure doesn't get easier. Thanks so much.
@san_683 (88)
• India
26 Aug 09
Hi mcat19 I am sorry for your loss, hope you cheer up soon, that is wat Arthur would also want, if he had been with you, all of us would have heard about a cat having 9 lives, so am sure he ll come back to you using his second life.....
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
26 Aug 09
Usually the cats we've had who have gone on send us another as soon as they can. Our Sweet Baffy sent us Josie; Claire sent Paisley; Divot sent Peaches. It keeps the circle unbroken.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
8 Sep 09
So very sorry to hear about Arthur's passing. Least now he's no longer suffering and is playing again over at Rainbow Bridge, waiting to be reunited with you again. I'm sure Lightning is giving him a lashing for whatever reason he sees fit, which could be nothing since he never was predictable cept for being mean to anyone.
@Loverbear (4918)
• United States
25 Aug 09
I am so sorry for your loss! It isn't like loosing an animal, it is losing a member of the family who has gained the recognition of being a fellow human. No matter what member it is, the hurt and pain is always more painful because it's a beloved individual that has shown a special personality and a special form of love for the family. I recently lost Groucho, there was nothing that could be done and he is now laying in rest beneath the Mullberry tree in my front yard. (He was an orange and white cat with an orange mustache) A few days later Harpo, his litter mate and constant companion passed away out of loneliness. I cried like a baby because Groucho passed the day before I went in for knee replacement surgery and Harpo passed when I got home four days later. Harpo is beside his brother under the mullberry tree. While there will be others that enter our lives, they never will replace the love or memories that the ones who passed have blessed us with. Arthur, like Groucho and Harpo, will always be at our sides because we remember them with enormous love. I send you condolences, love and hugs- as well as my herd (four cats and four dogs) send their condolences and hugs and kisses to maybe make the pain a little less. I personally wish I could be there to hug you in person and try to ease the pain a bit...
@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
25 Aug 09
Thank you so so much. Arthur was family. We have only 3 cats now. It's not at all the same.