Which verbal abuse have you got from a friend that you will never forget

My boss said some hurtful things to me. I'll get out of that situation soon.

This is funny now but I was pretty upset. I had a girl friend back in high school and I wasn't in the best shape. Me and my best friend were double dating with two hot chicks. (= . But during the dinner date, the whole time, my friend kept insulting me to try and look cool and sly. "You're so fat, or Why you eating so fast, You ordered a large? no surprise.... " Etc... It was really irritating and the two chicks were laughing at me. I tried to just ignore it and lasted the whole night. My best friend didn't even notice so therefore, didn't apoligize. I lost trust in him, and he wasn't really my best friend anymore. Lesson learned, don't bring a double date! haha.

I have an ex-friend who was very verbally abusive and unfortunately babysat for me also. During the few years we were friends I saw her alienate quite a few people before I finally gave up on her. During one incident, when I was watching her kids and dared to discipline her daughter (NOT physically!) she said I was the worst f-ing babysitter she'd ever had. Yet you wouldn't believe how she verbally abused my daughter until I finally managed to make other arrangements for her (I worked evening shift, which in our town meant "take what you can get" for child care.) Once, in response to an incident between my daughter and hers at school, she (the woman, not her daughter!) told my daughter (in front of me) that she was going to break her glasses. She was smirking when she said it which I took to mean she had no intention of actually doing it, she was yanking my daughter's chain because they were new glasses, quite cute, and she really liked them as opposed to hating the fact that she had to wear them. This woman was in our lives for about 2 1/2 years, which was probably about 2 years too long. We can act civil if we run into each other, but I would never trust her enough to actually socialize with her ever again.

Before my ex-boyfriend and I broke up we had a lot of arguments. I had had a depression for a while and my ex-boyfriend was very tired of situation. One day he was especially angry at me, and he said to me: "You ought to shoot yourself or jump from a bridge. It would be a relief for everyone if you just killed yourself, because there are so many problems with you" We were both angry and I have said some bad things myself, but I would never say something like that to another person, and I think that he was way out of line.

Hi staraevp, I am glad u brought this up. I wanted to know whether I have done something right. I had a friend who unfortunately had to go thru a bad patch. I was with her off and on for that period. Subsequently I was unfortunate enough to be caught in a situation where I could not escape telling some truths as my defense - which were not about her. After that, she has been calling me a.s.s., and b****. Should I be forgiving her and letting go of the slight considering what she has been thru, and the fact that I am much older? Or should I let go of this friendship because she should have at least known how to speak to an elder, if not for the help rendered? This has been my dilemma. Please let me know what u think.

my friend was very jealous of me AND my boyfriend so9 she say you are so ugly lol

A few months ago, I was with my best friend and we were talking about how I was going to come home after I go to college. She said that I wasn't very friendly and probably not going to meet anyone in my college. I was upset she thought of me like that but she was a little sad she has to stay home and go to a junior college so I let it pass. I don't think I could forget it though. I've never been verbally abused by a man. Maybe guys are just nicer or not as skilled with hateful words..

unfortunately mine is from my own relatives.first,i was called a pimp by my own grandmother.because i accompanied my teener male cousin to his date with his girl friend.yes girl friend not girlfriend.since i came from a family with conservative elders dating at young age is like a taboo.but that was just a friendly date.and besides i was just asked to go with them.i never thought it would cause me a lifetime pain.second,a bad influence.since my another female cousin was caught drunk one of our aunt scolded me and called me a bad influence to her since they know that I am drinking too.though i was not with her when she went out with her friends.I just don't understand why they had to look for a scape goat for my cousins actions.they were not saints anyway. those remarks was spoken to me for almost a decade now but I could still feel the pain when remembering it.just like right this moment.