Allergy Alert, fabric softener aisle, sneeze, wheeze, kerchoo!!

@Hatley (163781)
Garden Grove, California
September 27, 2009 11:00am CST
I am wondering if I am the only human being that cannot use most fabric softeners in my wash as I am too allergic to the scents that are in them? Any ideas? now I have my washed for me, and alas they use no softeners, but if there were a nonallerginic one I would ask them to use'it.
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@AmbiePam (85975)
• United States
27 Sep 09
I totally understand what you mean. I am the same way. The thing that worked for me was using fabric softener in one of those little balls, and adding it to the items in the washing machine, not adding fabrice softener in the dryer. But I guess that doesn't work for you. Have you looked online?
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Besides being sneezy, I think fabric softeners are a waste of money. I use dryer balls in my dryer, which accomplish the same think without adding an artificial scent to my clothing, and a waxy buildup to the inside of my dryer. Did you know that using fabric softener shortens the lifespan of your dryer? It does that by restricting airflow. Take this test. Take your lint screen out. Clean it like you normally do. Does it look clean? Now, take it to your kitchen sink and pour a glass of water into it. Does the water flow through? If it doesn't, it's because of that waxy buildup. Wash it gently with soap and water, then repeat the water test. Water will probably run right through. It's the buildup that blocks the water flow that also blocks airflow...which shortens the dryers life.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi catdla1 thats what a maytag repair man was telling me while I waited for him to finish repairing a dryer in our washroom in the apartment complex where we used to live hje showed me the lint traps.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
2 Oct 09
Well, I know I am also allergic to a lot of the smells of Soaps, etc. out there as well, and there for a while I used some Laundry Soap, etc. from a wellness company that really helped solve a lot of these issues, but since you have to be a member of their company and order quite a bit a month I no longer am able to get from them anymore as well. So now when I go down that aisle or the soap aisle I do sneeze a lot of the time, but just have found products I can work with and hurry down and get those items and head off again as well.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Oct 09
hi krausehome I did the same thing,grabbed the nonscented Cheer and got the heck out of there. whew.
• United States
28 Sep 09
I am allergic to a lot of things, and I know that I do sneeze from the scent of certain fabric softeners, some of them make me itch. I have to be so careful with what fabric softeners and detergents I use.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi rogue seems a lot of us suffer from the stuff in these things, and detergents too can be upsetting so I always used unscented cheer as I liked the way it got my clothes clean and it did not have any perfume in it. I have to be careful of what perfumes I use too.
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• United States
29 Sep 09
I use Tide: Total Care and Downey Fabric Softner. I do not seem to have any problems with those two. As for perfume, most perfumes make my skin break out, or I turn redder than a tomato. I am also allergic to smoke, tumble weed, olive trees (this one is stranges because I have eaten olives all of my life), and cats (which is strange because I have four of them). The allergies that I am also finding more common now are nut allergies. Allergies to peanuts, coconuts, and just nuts in general. My youngest nephew is allergic to peanuts.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Nov 09
oh rougue those with peanut allergies are the worst.I was in a cubicle next to a child who was having a allergic reaction to peanuts from candy that had been manufactured in the same place that peanut butter was, and had traces of peanut flavor in it,and just enough to send the child into anaphylactic shock.They ran an anti allergic medication into him by IV and also has him on oxygen. Me I was there to find out what the blisters on my tummy were and I did find out. I had shingles,itchy nerve zapping shingles,took me all of the summer a year ago to get rid of them.
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@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
1 Oct 09
I'm allergic to something in detergent so I have to use the super boring hypoallergenic kind. I don't think fabric softener bothers me too much though. You could try those reusable fabric softening balls if you can find them. I think the idea behind them is that they keep separating the clothes so the static electricity doesn't build up. They are totally hypoallergenic and leave no scent behind.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Oct 09
thanks jesssp I will keep those in mind and maybe get 'our caretakers to use them in my laundry
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Oct 09
hi jesssp I will tell the caregivers about the fabric softening balls.
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
2 Oct 09
Another plus is that they're cost effective and environmentally friendly because you just use them over and over. Thanks for BR :)
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Hello my friend So glad I don't have this problem, they smell so good love fabric softener just the though makes me want to go wash some cloths lol. I never had allergies but I do find my eyes itching and throat getting scratchy whenever I hold my kitty, oh well I will deal with it, if this is what it is, I will be one itchy scratchy person Thank you my friend, so sorry you don't like fabric softener, ummmm so good.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi again kitty I love cats but when myfirst roommate went to the hospital I had to care for her cat ,well the cat scratched me , poor thing had been abused by my very odd roomate, the cat had knobs along his back and sides where'something or someone had hit him. so when you would pet him about so long,he would scratch and bite at you.well he scratched me and somehow I got cat scratch fever, and was ill for two days, ran a fever and my arms were swollen and ' had a heavy red rash all over them. they gave me an iv of antihistamine and a prescription for more antihistamine pills that poor mistreated cat,he so wanted to be loved but when you cuddled him he would only tolerate it so long and turn wild on you. I had never had a cat do that before, I felt like he had been really mistreated.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Oct 09
i really felt so sorry for that poor cat as I could tell he really wanted to be cuddled but did not really trust me enough to stay very long then he would fight with me. scary he looked so big all of a sudden but I knew he saw me as a baddie. sad.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Hello my friend Wow that would scare me, thats really sad my friend, unfortunate that things like this happen, my kitty is so sweet can't imagine him acting like that, he loves to be held and rubbed more so from me, my daughter and grandson entertains him and play crazy games with him, I hold him and rub him its funny, its like he knows who does what lol, so I think you may be right cats are so warm and need to be loved for him to do this he felt the need to protect himself from us bad human beings really sad, sorry that happened to you. Thanks for sharing my friend.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
28 Sep 09
I am not so allergic that I cannot use them, but I have an awful time in the isles, when I go to buy them. It literally takes my breath away.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi thoroughrob no I really cannot use them as they literally make me ill, my throat will even swell when I am around clothes that have been washed and used 'fabric softeners on them.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Hello Hatley. I too share your curse of not being able to use fabric softener. I noticed this when I first used them that I had a rash on my back and arms (those that were covered by sleeves) that would not go away no matter how many times I changed clothes, showered, changed bath soaps and even bed clothes. Then I tried removing the fabric conditioner and now my back and arms are now rash free.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi anne25penn I am so glad you found out what caused your rash. those fabric conditioners are so strongly scented it just really causes people who are allergic real misery, real illness.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Wow. I am sorry to hear that. I think they do have unscented fabric softener out in stores now. I am almost sure of it. I really like the scent in the fabric softener though. Sorry you are allergic to it.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi stephcjh yes I am really allergic to most fabic softeners'and have to bypass them even though they make your towels so soft' and fluffy. have to live without fluffy towels unless I can buy some unscented softener and give to the care givers.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
28 Sep 09
i am not sure what it has been but a couple of weeks ago, i had a sinus infection and since then i have had this smokey smell in my nose (not constantly but some of the time and its really annoying!) anyways, i looked it up and some people actually mentioned that it was from fabric softener! so i dont use one either.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi cher well it very well could be a some of the fabric softeners are really strong scented and the scent really lingers for awhile. I just cannot use them any more , I am just too allergic to them.
@littleowl (7157)
29 Sep 09
Hi Hatley, I am not allergic to fabric softners but am to different washing powders, that can be a pain so have to stick to just one cos if I change it then I start itching all over and it looks like I have fleas when all it is is the change in washing powder, the worst one for me is called Fairy..it is meant to be a really lovely washing powder but I use it I have hell to pay..LoLo
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi little owl Ihate most of those washing powders'as I find I am anywhere from a little allergic to them to horribly allergic. I used to use fragrant free Cheer and it really did a great job cleaning and' had no odor at all.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
28 Sep 09
I stopped using fabric softener when my technician explained to me how much damage it can do to top loading washing machines. Apparently the softener forms a gum like paste that sticks to the machine and will not wash away; I stopped using it because it’s also quite expensive. I hang my towels out and bring them in when they are still slightly damp and throw them in the drier for a short time; my towels come out beautiful and soft. For delicate things I hand wash them or machine wash them with wool wash.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi paula good thing that I stopped using it whenI did as the Mayflower repair man said the same thing,it gums'up ' the dryers and then it costs the apartment complex owners a lot to keep the machines repaired. I was not sure at the time'but since then I have learned more about it. I did know that sometimes other residents would use so much that I got sick when I was in there doing my wash. yuck.,
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@gnase99 (172)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
i am not allergic to fabric softeners but we hardly use it here. its an extra expenses anyway so if your allergic to it i say stay away from it.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Oct 09
hi gnase99 yes indeed they are really an unnecessary' expense and I just dont use them as I dont need to feel so miserable and sick just from some silly chemicals.
@jjaywang (66)
• China
28 Sep 09
don't be afraid,i canont either.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi jjayway I do wish that they made these things without the perfumes, as its the scents that make people so allergic. they dont need those scents and it probably would make the products cheaper, too
@GardenGerty (157865)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Because most fabric softeners are made with chemicals to smell like scents, they are not good for you, even if you do not have this obvious allergic reaction. Using white vinegar in the rinse softens clothes as it removes soap residue. To fragrance your clothes, if that is what you want, try using sachets of natural herbs or of fragrances you can wear without reactions. I am sensitive to most chemical scents, myself.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi gardengerty thats right of course they are saturated' with all sorts of chemicals. mymom used to use white 'vinegar in the rinse, and bluing and she always had the best smelling clothes. also we always hung them all outside to dry. oh my they smelled so fresh.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
27 Sep 09
I do believe there are unscented ones out there - but since it is hard for you to get out and shop and find them, it would probably be hard for you to get those people who wash for you to use them I have more trouble with the dryer sheets and all the repair guys say that its best to use neither fabric softeners or dryer sheets in the machines...
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi elicbxn I was thinking of what a maytag repairman said when I was waiting for him to finish repairing' a dryer in our washroom at our old apartment complex He said the leading cause of repairs was the dryer'sheet used in the dryer, it gummed up the workings of the dryers. I doubt too if the wash people here would use' the unscented ones. and I sure cannot tolerate those that 'smell like a bottle of cheap perfume. he he he.
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27 Sep 09
Hi Hatley, Some type of softeners don't agree with me as I get all itchey but it never cause me to sneeze or wheezebut oh it does makes me itch and I'm forever sctatching, so now I don't bother useing any knid of softeners. Tamara
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi tamarafireheart yes I had to stop using any softeners as 'both myself and my son were really allergic to them. so I just used scent free cheer and let it go at that.so the towels were less fluffy, small price for being well again.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Hey Hatley! No, you are not alone! I also sneeze when I get near the fabric softeners! Damn, some detergents and soaps and cleansers make me sneeze too! I just am never quite sure what it is that I am really allergic to because so many different things make me sneeze! Like this weekend! I was changing the linens on the bed and I started sneezing like crazy! I was fine until I started to make the bed! Then I started to feel sick after that! Now I don't know half the time if it is allergies or I'm really getting sick! I still don't feel that great and am still not sure if I am coming down with a cold or it's my allergies! I do know that I have a problem with soaps and things too! How do you know for sure?
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Sep 09
hi Opal its hard sometimes to know when you are sneezing'from an allergy or a cold but when you have it most of the time I think with me it is allergies. I am allergic to' house dust and dust mites and strong perfumes and soaps'and fabric softeners too. achoo.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
27 Sep 09
Hi Hatley, I don't bother with them at all as just an extra expense but then again I don't use a dryer to dry but just the fresh air. I don't like to use anything like that though just in case, I find one brand that doesn't do any damage an stick to it. Years ago I bought the brand Persil as a soap powder and develped a red itchy rash from it which I needed to wrap in wet towels, obviously not washed in said Persil. And the clothes really did smell more of soap powder anyway.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
hi thea you know all the time I was growing up we always dried our clothes on the line and I loved that fresh clean smell so much. we lost something when we went to dryers but of course in most apartment complexes there is no room for clothes lines. I had used unscented cheer for years as it did the job and was not bothering my allergies. A lot of' the soap powders here are very irritating to to a lot of people.
• Pamplona, Spain
27 Sep 09
Hi Hatley, Every time I go around the Supermarket by the Fabric Softener and Soap Powder my nose starts getting irritated and the top part of the lungs too. It´s like someone tickles you with a feather inside your nose and you could almost sneeze. Fabric Softeners must put Perfume in that is too strong for some people to be able to tolerate. Fabric Softeners for me should be allergen free but then would the price be allergen free too? Fabric Softeners are great for hard water areas and sometimes a must for some types of clothes but I do not usually use Fabric Softeners I usually use Liquid Soap Washing Like Norit with Aloe Vera in it. Fabric Softeners also help to make the washing machine dirty and sticky and gunge up the tray that you pull out to put the dosage of Soap Powder in. Take care.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Sep 09
lovinangelsinstead21 so I haven't missed much not using' fabric softeners at all. I learned how much damage'they do to the dryers too. I really just avoid walking down the detergent aisle anymore now that I don't wash my own clothes any more.