Have you ever stalked someone?

United States
October 17, 2009 9:29am CST
I have never stalked anyone in my life. I have been stalked before and it was the scariest thing ever to happen to me. The guy would call me all the time. Leave me voicemail messages and enven found my myspace and was messaging me on there. He show up at my work and called my friends. Always wanted to know where I was. It was very disturbing. This lasted for a couple of months. I finally got a order of protection and he finally left me alone. I even found him peeking through my windows. If that doesn't scare you I don't know what would. I would never stalk anyone it can ruin a persons life. It can make them scared to go anywhere. When someone is being stalked it almost like the stalker is controling you in some form of a way. I am careful about my friends now and very cautious about who I meet and hang out with.
4 responses
@shirlyne (48)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
yes, back in high school, i have this big crush on our star player, i followed him around...but when he noticed me i stopped stalking
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
18 Oct 09
I have never stalked anyone before either. I would be so scared if something liek that ever happened to me also. You never know what these stalkers are up to or what they want from you either. It is very scary.
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
17 Oct 09
How did you even meet the person??? Hmmm... I was never stalked before, neither had my friends i think stalking is a very personal way to hurt a person's image, feelings and secruity This is my personal opinion
@GaryJoule (211)
• China
17 Oct 09
Very sorry for your horrible experience. I know being stalked must be nightware. Nodody like being watched all the time, and it's just like you said, it almost like the stalker the freak is controlling you in some form of a way. If that keeps going, it'll drive you crazy sooner or later. you were wise to take actions and got protection. Hope anyone else bumps into this bad luck can take actions just like you did.