I need a little help my friends.
By kitty42
@kitty42 (3923)
United States
October 30, 2009 8:02pm CST
[b]Sorry I have not been around much, I have no been feeling well and had so much on my mind mylotting kind of took a backseat, sorry about this.
I had a horrible day today, my daughter is really sick, she was pregnant and unfortunately the pregnancy almost took her from me, my daughter had 3 seizers thank god she was not at home, but in the hospital where they were able to help her, they took the baby, she had a little girl who is 3lbs but a real fighter, my daughter has to get through the next 24 hours to be out of danger, I ask that you all say a little prayer for kittys heart/soul I love my daughter with every beat of my heart I am so scared, I know in my heart she will be o.k she has to be, but please say a little prayer for her for me, its been a hard day, this pregnancy was poisoning my daughters body she was swollen and unfortunately I did not think this was something dangerous I just thought she was having a rough pregnancy, there is a name for this but I can't begin to spell it out, right now she is fine, I am all alone and my mind is racing felt the need to do something or say something, god knows I have faith, but its so hard.
Please help me to help her and her child, not sure how I will be able to sleep, just wish someone was here with me so I can talk, please my friends just say a prayer for my daughter and her child.
Thank you so much.
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25 responses
@jellymonty (2352)
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31 Oct 09
Kitty my dear friend I am very sorry for what you are going through. I pray for you everyday and I pray for you now and I know God will get you through this. I am happy that your daughter is doing well. I know how she feels as I too went through this when I lost my baby girl through a horrible miscarriage. You take care and am here if you need a chat. Don't worry much though, they'll both be fine in no time
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@jellymonty (2352)
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31 Oct 09
Drink loads of hot fluids especially lemon tea... that usually gets rid of cold faster
I'm happy that your grand baby is doing fine.. have you chosen a name yet for her?
I'm happy that your grand baby is doing fine.. have you chosen a name yet for her?1 person likes this
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Hello my wonderful friend, thanks for sharing this with me, sorry for your lose.
My grandbaby is really strong, they said she will be moved tomorrow because she is doing so well, I have a bad cold which really sucks, my daughter is unable to see her baby right now so I would like to spend time with her, but I don't want her to catch my cold so hopefully I can get pass this really soon, she needs to feel my touch and hear my voice, her dad is there but I want her to hear me and feel my touch until her mom is able to get to her.
Thanks for the prayers my friend, keep them coming I will inturn keep you in my prayers as well.
Smoochesssss
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
I was trying to get the right spelling of the name, its something I never heard before not a long name, no one likes it but its my daughters choice and I am o.k with that, my sister and mom wants her to name the baby something like Miracle or grace but my daughter picked this name and she is stinking with it, if she likes it I love it.I will get the right spelling and share it with you for sure,I know its Lacen, or Lason something to that affect, I like the name Unique so she will make that her middle name, after all she is unique in her own right.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Oct 09
hi kitty42 wow this is really bad, toxemia they call it,and I will send a lot of prayers for you and your daughter and the baby too, sorry you are having to go through this as its so hard to see a loved one suffering and you feel helpless as you cannot really do anything to help her. I do wish we lived closer as I
would come and stay with you dear kitty,but I am sending all my best wishes and all my prayers. if my fellow mylotters all send their prayers we will have all the prayer power we need, and she will come through with flying colors. and her baby and you too Kitty.hugs to you from Hatley.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
My friend that means the world to me, just reading your response makes me feel so much better, you all mean so much to me, when this is over I will be able to come back and enjoy responding to all my wonderful friends and other mylotters.
I did not see the baby today due to the fact I am still sick, but hopefully tomorrow I will be able to wear a mask just to let her hear my voice and maybe touch her for a few minutes.
Thanks my friend, I love you all so much, words can not express how much you all mean to me.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
31 Oct 09
Hello Kitty, I am so sorry to read this and I will keep both your Daughter and the Baby in my deep thoughts
It is even harder, when you are on your own and not have anyone with you, I wish you would at least have a Friend there to support you
I really hope it all goes ok for them both please let us know as soon as you can
Here is a big warm Hug for you to comfort you a bit
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
4 Nov 09
Hello my friend
I agree and I did sleep really good last night, my daughter did as well, she called the hospital the baby is doing so good, they are giving her 20cc now she started with 10 but she is greedy lol all will be great, I can't wait for things to get back to normal, my grandson is at my moms its hard for us not being together but I will pick him up today.
I am resting my friend, thanks for the concern, god knows I needed you all and so glad I found a new friend in the process, I will never forget how good you all have been to me, god bless you all.
Thanks again my friend, no worries kitty will rest and in time you will hear so much more from me.
I agree and I did sleep really good last night, my daughter did as well, she called the hospital the baby is doing so good, they are giving her 20cc now she started with 10 but she is greedy lol all will be great, I can't wait for things to get back to normal, my grandson is at my moms its hard for us not being together but I will pick him up today.
I am resting my friend, thanks for the concern, god knows I needed you all and so glad I found a new friend in the process, I will never forget how good you all have been to me, god bless you all.
Thanks again my friend, no worries kitty will rest and in time you will hear so much more from me.1 person likes this
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Thank you so much, things are a little better so I am happy about that, I stayed with her last night just wish I was able to be there tonight, they gave her this strong medication so I am worried, I told her to ring the bell and ask for help whenever she has to use the bathroom,I know she will be fine I have to sleep and take care of myself, if I get sick then I will be of no use to my loved ones, thanks for the prayers.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Yes my friend, being sick right now really stinks, I also need to think of my daughters health as well, will try not to get to close to her, just kept kissing her last night after she came out of surgery,
My grandbaby will be here with me for sure, but she will not be home for a few weeks so hopefully by then I will be much better and we will be so happy when we are all together under the same roof.
Thanks my friend, hope I feel better soon.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Hi my friend, it was hard, but I believe the worst is over, she sounds so good this morning which made me really happy, now if I can get pass this cold so I can spend time with my grandbaby, that would really make my day, hopefully I will be able to go see her for a few minutes today if not I will not push it, I don't want to make her or any of the other babies sick, I feel much better its the cough that needs to go away.
Thanks my friend, I will keep you all posted.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
31 Oct 09
Here's a power hug for you my dear friend. I just paused for a while and prayed for you and your daughter. I just hope that while you're reading my post your daughter is fine already.
What happened? Is it an ectopic pregnancy? I could not say more my dear friend but to assure you of my continuous prayer. I will appreciate receiving updates from you regarding this. God is powerful-- He will give your daughter His healing power just give your full trust in Him.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
1 Nov 09
I praise and thank God for the power of healing. Everything happens because you never give up and you always believe. You have so many friends praying for you. Let's rejoice for this development!
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Yes my friend, while reading your post I talked to my daughter and she sounds so good this morning, thanks for the prayers you all made me feel so good, I really needed to read from my friends.
My daughter has/had Toxemia yesterday was a horrible day my friend, the baby is 3 ilbs but she is so strong, I believe it was the baby that made it so my daughter had to be taken to the hospital, she was moving around and causing her so much pain, my daughter was screaming, I didn't think for a second things were this bad, but thank god she was in the hospital when things became worse, they said if she had the seizers at home there would have been nothing they could do, oh my friend, god is so good, and so is this wonderful bundle of joy, she saved herself and her mom.
I will keep you all poster my wonderful friend, once this is over I will catch up with you all and kitty will be around more often I promise.
I love you all, thank you so much for caring so much for me, I will always remember how wonderful you all are to me and my loved ones,
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I thank you all so much, I stayed with my daughter last night but she is doing so much better, she slept good the baby was moved to another room, so she is doing good as well, she is something else the baby that is, the faces she put on makes you wonder what the heck is she thinking about lol, I will share a pic as soon as I can, right now I have to get my grandson ready for school tomorrow.
I just talked to my daughter and they gave her this strong medication for pain, I told them last night to give her motrin now she is out of it because this other medicine is too strong, I told her to ring the bell whenever she has to go to the bathroom this way she will have help, I don't like that all though she had a c-section she is not having much pain why give her something so strong when motrin works just as good, oh well can't afford to get myself all worked up nothing I can do right now, grrrrrr
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
hi kitty friend^^;;
i have read your post a few hours back but i only have time to offer the prayer just now before i wrote this response. i hope my words would be a help to your daughter to become well as soon as possible. you are strong kitty and that's what making your daughter strong too. she and your granddaughter will be both fine and healthy soon.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Oh my wonderful friend, thank you so much.
I have faith and I do know they will be o.k, I am not feeling well myself which really stinks because I can't go see the baby, but they should be moving my daughter today and she will be able to spend time with her daughter, you know a baby needs to hear the voice of their loved ones at a time like this.
I need to go to the hospital I will let you all know how everything is when I return.
Smoochessss my friend.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Hello my friend
How are you, hope all is well, I miss you as well, hopefully things will be back to normal really soon, I have so many notifications, I will enjoy taking my time answering each and every one of them 
Hope to chat soon my friend.
Smoochesss
How are you, hope all is well, I miss you as well, hopefully things will be back to normal really soon, I have so many notifications, I will enjoy taking my time answering each and every one of them
Hope to chat soon my friend.
Smoochesss
i have read your comments on other responses and glad to hear that your family is fine specially your daughter and the newly born baby
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
31 Oct 09
I’m kind of late in replying to this post and I must say that with so many of us here praying for your daughter and her little angel, everything has to turn out just fine. She’s in the best of medical care and so is her daughter and very soon you’ll be able to bring them back home
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Thank you so much my friend, You are right they are in good hands, god knows they are, I will be heading there soon, hopefully my daughter will be able to spend a little time with her baby today, this was so hard but I must say God is good, and so are my wonderful friends here, your words mean so much to me, for this I thank you all.
Thanks again my friend, will keep you all updated on how things are going with my two babies.
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
6 Nov 09
Hello kitty, sorry it's taken so long for a response, but I haven't had a connection for ten days. I hope the situation has improved by now, and I am thinking of you, and praying for you both.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
11 Nov 09
Hello my wonderful friend
Things are so much better now, thanks so much, my connection is acting up as well, one minute I can get on the next kicked off, not sure what is going on but hey what can we do.
I am really happy my daughter and grand are doing fine, the baby is so cute she is getting big fast, yesterday she was sleep my daughter said wake up please, after a few minutes of doing that she finally opened her eyes for her mommy,she is going to be awesome I can't wait for her to come home.
Thanks my friend, always good to hear from you.
Things are so much better now, thanks so much, my connection is acting up as well, one minute I can get on the next kicked off, not sure what is going on but hey what can we do.
I am really happy my daughter and grand are doing fine, the baby is so cute she is getting big fast, yesterday she was sleep my daughter said wake up please, after a few minutes of doing that she finally opened her eyes for her mommy,she is going to be awesome I can't wait for her to come home.
Thanks my friend, always good to hear from you.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
31 Oct 09
{{{{HUGS}}}}} You are in my prayers for sure. I have 4 daughters and I can only imagine what you are all going thru right now. I know that you can't help but worry. I'd be the same. Take comfort in knowing how far medical technology has come over the years. your daughter and the baby both have a good fighting chance. Please keep us posted. Stay strong!
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Thank you so much, you are right medical technology is awesome, they knew what the problem was and did what needed to be done, my daughter called me a few minutes ago she sounds so good, I had a few hours sleep but woke up really early, I really needed to hear her voice just to know how things went last night, so glad she called me so early now I can breath.
You all mean so much to me, I will never forgot how wonderful you all are to me, these words of encouragement made things so much easier for me, for this I will always feel blessed, I prayed for you all as well last night, I asked god to blessed my wonderful friends.
Thank you so much.
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
31 Oct 09
[b]Prayers are ascending. Don't worry, dear.
Maggiepie[/b]
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
31 Oct 09
[b]You're always entirely welcome! Now go get in bed & get some rest. It will be okay. Trust in God.
Maggiepie[/b]
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Thank you so much my friend, my daughter sounds so good this morning, I know everything is going to be fine, I really needed to read from you all when I posted this discussion, words can not describe how much this means to me and my family.
Thank you.
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@celticeagle (159221)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Oct 09
I have wondered about you!! I am sorry to hear you are having trouble. Oh my gosh! I believe in fate and that things happen for a reason. I am not real big on God although I know you do. I will send all the positive vibes I can your direction. I have felt like this too. My daughter had a miscarriage. It was a bad time anyway so sort of a good thing. Any way, you should go to a church. The energy there is wonderful. You might be able to talk to someone there. If things get real bad you send me a PM and I can give you my number. A freindly voice might be just what you need right now. Yes, I am serious. You do what you feel is best but remember the invite is there if you need it. I am up til all hours so need to worry about waking me up or our different hours. Take care and know that my thoughts are with you. PM if you feel a need.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
You know I read each response one by one before responding you all made me cry, just reading how much you all care and actually thought about me not being around means more than you will ever know.
Right now I am so tired, but I will sleep so good after reading the responses here, my daughter called and she is doing fine, I will be able to sleep and wake up early to go to the hospital with my family.
I will always remember your response my friend, your kindness will always be remembered.
Thank you so much.
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@celticeagle (159221)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Oct 09
You are extremely welcome. From the heart, my dear friend. Take care. Love them every minute for you just never know.
@rtslvtwy (1088)
• Malaysia
31 Oct 09
There's always ups and downs in life and when moments like these, we all need to feel secure, confident and strong to pull through ......
I live opposite a Catholic church although I am not a Christian but I believe in God working miracles and I have seen some as well.
I really do pray for your daughter and your grand-daughter to stay strong and live through to see the wonders of God's creations on earth .....
Take care and God Bless.
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
31 Oct 09
Sorry for what happened to your daughter, i believe she would be fine and will say a prayer for them just have faith and i will be alright.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
4 Nov 09
Hello sweety,
Things are looking up, my daughter is home and as of this morning the baby is doing great, the nurse said she is eating more she has not iv, all she has to do now is gain a little weight and she will be home with us where she belongs, I can't wait lol
Thanks for the prayers, may god bless you all.
@KMaroon (266)
• India
31 Oct 09
Hi Kitty,
Don't worry God is with you, your daughter will be fine, she will be out of danger.
We all the Mylotters are with you. You will be happy with your daughter and your grand daughter with in few hours. So One thing I would suggest you is that have faith in the Almighty. Have a nice day.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
I do my friend, I know he will be there for me and my family, I also said a prayer for all of you, I really needed you all last night and with the help of this wonderful community I was able to sleep well, my daughter is doing fine waiting for her to call me now.
Thank you so much.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
31 Oct 09
Hi kitty,
I am sorry to learn that you are going through a terrible situation. Please be confident dear all mylotters are praying for your daughter and granddaughter. I do hope that you will come to us with good news soon. I am sending my prayers too. God bless you dear.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Thank you so much my friend, my daughter sounds so much better today, when I heard her voice I said you sound so good, how do you feel, she said she feels good and slept well, I am so happy right now, I feel alot better, yesterday was the worst day of my life, I had friends and family with me at the hospital I really needed that support god knows.
Once i came home I needed to hear from you all, your words made my night so much easier, I thank you all.
@tdemex (3540)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Hey Kitty, so so sorry to hear this, I know what you are going thru, all I can say is you have to stay strong, and give your daughter all the love and positive emotions you can muster! I know you won't believe it but time deos heal all wounds, I went thru a few tragedies in my lifetime and although you never forget you will go on! My heart goes out to you and your family! Terry
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Oh my friend thank you so much for this, I have been through alot as well always been able to be the strongest of the rest, but this time my friend, it was really hard, seeing my daughter so sick just took me to a place that I was not sure how my day was going to end, but thank god all is well, the baby is small but she is a fighter, my daughter sounds so good this morning so I feel good as well.
I am so grateful to you all for being there for me, I really needed this.
Thanks again my friend
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Oh my friend, you know what I agree, I am truly amazing not to sound cocky but its true my friend, god took care of them and he knew I could not handle anything less than that, my daughter sounds so much better today.
You all make me feel really good, I feel so blessed to be able to have you all in my life, just because we don't actually know each other that feeling is their and sometimes that is all we need, I am grateful to each and everyone of you, I also said a prayer for you all as well.
Thanks for the kind words my friend.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
hi kitty my dear,
I am earnestly praying for your daughter that she would be safe from the danger of pregnancy and to her child. And to you Kitty, that God grant you more strength to carry out this trial and survives calmly takes away the troubles in your mind. I deeply sympathize with your feeling as my sister before also suffer the dangers of ectopic pregnancy that she is in terrible pain that she never knew she is 2 weeks pregnant that one of her fallopian tube is remove. She never knew, and then have a surgery perform in her also that need 2 bottles of blood of dextrose . Thus, during the night I could not sleep and all the members of the family pray for her safety as she would also have blood poisoning, because her fallopian tubes already burst. I do hope your daughter would be alright after this and wish you all safety in good condition. God bless..
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
So sorry to hear about your sister, I heard this can be really painful, how sad she had to go through that, I hope all is well for her.
My daughter has/had Toxemia they say 7 out of 100 woman get this, usually during your first pregnancy but my daughter already has a 7yr old with the same dad so this was really odd, she was swollen from head to toe, she was so sick I was not there when she had the seizers, not sure I could have handled that, but she was at the right place and they took care of her, she called me this morning and sounds so good thank you all for the prayers, I was so happy to hear her voice.
I am so happy things are looking up, she almost made it through the 24 hour period, after 3pm then we will know she is out of danger for sure, although I know she is, just want the time to go by just because.
Thanks for sharing this my friend.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
31 Oct 09
you are not alone kitty.you can see ur daughter as well as ur grand child really healthy nd happy in ur house in da coming days.all our prayers are with you.do not loose ur faith in god he does test people but helps them when they need help.Every thing is going to be fine.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Oh my friend, I believe your words, my daughter sounds so much better today, when I get to the hospital I will check on the baby, but I do feel everything will be o.k, yesterday was hard I never lost the faith just forgot about it for a few minutes, fear took a toll but I got over it.
Being home alone I needed you all to help me get through the night, and you did.
I love mylot and all the wonderful people here, thanks so much for your amazing words.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Thank you for this my friend, I agree and god knows my heart/soul he knows I am a good person I also come from a good family we have our bumps and bruises but we are a good family and god knows this, I knew he would not let me down but at the time my friend I must admit kitty was really scared.
Thanks for the wonderful words, you all mean so much to me, I am really grateful to all of you.
