Every Day Above Ground is a Good Day ~ MJS

As certain anniversaries come around we are surrounded by lonely feelings or nostalgic feelings. I think they are hard to shake. Even if we are not conscious of them. In your case, with it just being a year, you are very conscious of the person you miss and all the memories. I do not think that ever quite goes away.

My heart goes out to you ElusiveButterfly. It made me think of my children and how I strive to be a better father by just being always there. I will not even try to understand how hard is it for you to lose a loved one. I know it is not my place. But, I do believe that he is in a better place. God bless you and your family.

I didn’t know your children lost their dad ElusiveButterfly, I am sorry to hear that. It is a sensitive time for you and I hope you get through this day as painlessly as possible. I guess you have missed him every day since he passed and I hope you have felt his spirit’s presence because I bet those broad shoulders are still taking care of you and your family every single day! Take care my friend.

Hi there friend I know the feeling in December my dad will have been gone for 3 years and I feel that is in the past however I also feel that I wish he was here. He was a good man and had things in his life that caused him to mean on osccasion however, I still feel that he was good to me and listen to me when I needed someone to talk to and that I miss the most. I did not always like what he had to say after I talked but I still enjoyed and still miss our talks. I know someday you and I both we see our dads and for that I am greatful as well. But for now I have more work on here to do and change things for the better on my part for others around me everyday, plus my girls need me too. Take care friend and message me anytime if you just want to vent or talk it might take me awhile to get back but I try to respond to all my messages.

I know that this sad anniversary is going to be a very difficult day for you and it will be even moreso for your children. I was fourteen years old when my father passed away and now we are 15 years later and that anniversary is still a day that I would rather not have to go through each year. As I look back through my life I realize all the milestones that I missed celebrating with my father. May the day be as pleasant as possible for your children and I hope that for them, each year gets a little bit easier than the previous.

Well,for me yes.because God gave us life and strength.God give us a chance to live in this world with our love ones and we should be very thankful for this despite of all the trials and tribulations we've suffered.Thanks and good day!

I can't believe it has been a year I still remember you telling us about it My Thoughts are with you Elusive

Monday will be a difficult time for you and your family. One thing though, is that you have many happy memories and you will remember and share these together as you give thanks for his life with you. Keep hearing the sound of his laughter. I know you will be the tower of strength for the family and that you know where to lean for your own strength. Miss him, but be happy for him.

Sorry to hear of your loss and the pain. I do know the way you feel from losing my sister 9 years ago and still missing her. I still will be out and tell myself that I have to go home and call her to tell her something. But the good things are still on my mind and will stay there.

iI'M sorry for your loss. Those big ol' shoulders do come in handy.