If you were ask for a Choice, which one would you be CHEATER or CHEATED?

United States
November 18, 2009 1:55pm CST
i was just wondering.. if theres two choices given and ask to you? what would you choose? to be a cheater or to be cheated? can you explain? which life would you like to choose.. to cheat someone or to be cheated?
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• United States
19 Nov 09
I would probably pick to be cheated. I could never do that to somebody. I believe in karma and it always ends up being true. I would rather complain about being cheated than have the guilt from cheating someone on my shoulders.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
I would rather choose to be cheated on than be the cheater. At least when you get cheated you can forgive and move on with your life and have a restful sleep at night on the other hand ones who cheated someone your conscience always have a way of reminding you of what you have done and you'll feel guilty for as long as you live. But i think there's always a point in your life where you have cheated in some way and got cheated on in other ways that's why each and everyone have their skeletons hidden in their closet so to speak. Based in experience I usually remember the things that i was the cheater that's bothering me most of the time rather than when i was the cheated. Cheers!
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
19 Nov 09
If I had to choose between those two options, I would choose to be the one who gets cheated. Of course it is not a pleasant situation, and if I got cheated I would probably get sad, hurt and angry, but I would try to learn from the experience, so that I could avoid a similar situation in the future. My reaction would depend on the situation, it would probably take a while for me to get over the situation, but I am pretty sure that I would get over it eventually. If I was the one who had been cheating another person, I would have to live with my guilty conscience, and I would have to live with the fact that I had hurt another person. It would be hard to forgive myself for that.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
18 Nov 09
It is really hard to choose between being cheated and cheating others. But if I have to make a choice between the two options, I prefer to be cheated other than cheating others. If I have been cheated by someone, then I will have to face a loss. But you see, it is just a temporary loss and I can make up for it through my own efforts. But if I have been a cheater, then I may regret to have done such a stupid thing all the time and try my best to get rid of the shadow with my whole lifetime. For the long run, being cheated is a wiser choice because we can face a temporary loss with our whole lifetime.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
As a Golden Rule follower, I should not pick any one of the two choices. But for the sake of argument, I would rather go on the cheated one than the one who cheated.
• India
18 Nov 09
oh my! this is wicked. I dunno how i can live with myself knowing that i've cheated my husband/boyfriend. I'd prefer being the miserable one crying that i'm not loved.. Yeah i'd prefer being the cheated
• Canada
18 Nov 09
To cheat someone, because I would be getting what I wanted. If someone cheated me, I would be getting hurt, and of course I want to avoid that.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Hard to choose between the two option, but i'll rather cheat than be the one who gets cheated. but dont get no wrong, i am no cheater, at least not in farmville.