JayShay82

@JayShay82 (78)

United States • Age 42

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Do you believe in SOUL MATES?

happynin @happynin (87) • United States 17 Nov 09

in your own definitions.. what is soulmate? do you believe that theres such thing as soulmates? ok then, how do you know if he/she is your soulmate? im just curious about it.. honestly, any idea?

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JayShay82 Yes, I believe in soulmates. I believe a soulmate is someone you just click with. You feel like you have known them your entire life. Your feelings for them come on quickly and they are your bestfriend. It was that way with my husband. Even though we have a...

18 Nov 09

If you were ask for a Choice, which one would you be CHEATER or CHEATED?

happynin @happynin (87) • United States 18 Nov 09

i was just wondering.. if theres two choices given and ask to you? what would you choose? to be a cheater or to be cheated? can you explain? which life would you like to choose.. to cheat someone or to be cheated?

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JayShay82 I would probably pick to be cheated. I could never do that to somebody. I believe in karma and it always ends up being true. I would rather complain about being cheated than have the guilt from cheating someone on my shoulders.

18 Nov 09

Much to my chagrin...

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 24 Sep 09

So, I'm driving along, singing to the radio, enjoying the drive home from picking my children up from school. My daughter asks me "who sings that"? I proudly say "Prince" or "Guns n Roses" or "Van Halen", while I smile at...

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JayShay82 My kids have picked up on my phrases I say while I'm in traffic. My daughter's favorite one is "what color green are we waiting for". My son's is "it's green people". Like you said, other parents would probably not find that as funny, but I know they picked it...

18 Nov 09

Dreams become reality if you belive in them

smartjack @smartjack (520) • India 18 Nov 09

I recently read a book called 'THE SECRET'. Its an amazing book that talks about 'thoughts'. I was shocked when I first read the book. It is actually true what it says. Whatever you think and believe, it actually happens in your...

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JayShay82 I haven't read it but I will give it a try. I can think of plenty things that I need to work out in my life. But how can someone control what they dream about so they can get what they want or need?

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What's the relationship between you and your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?

Fishy0109 @Fishy0109 (140) • China 18 Nov 09

I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago.I can't figure out the right relationship between us now.To be friends,strangers,or just ordinary classmates?That is a problem for me.Actually,we both wouldn't like to be strangers.After...

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JayShay82 If the breakup wasn't nasty, the weirdness will go away after a while and things will seem normal. Just because you guys didn't work out as a couple, doesn't mean you can't work out as friends. Now if after a while has passed and it is still weird for the both...

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if your bed partner is having a nightmare do you wake them?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 18 Nov 09

if you share a bed (with whomever) and the person is prone to nightmares and freaks out and cries out while jerking around do you wake them? i know there was an old saying about sleepwalkers and not waking them but i think that...

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JayShay82 I have also heard that it is very bad to wake a sleepwalker and I wouldn't. Imagine laying down to go to bed at night and then opening your eyes and being in the livingroom. Your initial reaction would be to freak out. So, someone could end up getting...

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difficult to leave my old home

sarikam @sarikam (25) • India 17 Nov 09

Hi, Next month we are going to shift in our new home. current home is rented one. But its really difficult for me to leave this home. Reason is special. Two year back i got married and and we take home on rent. So, my new life...

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JayShay82 You will be able to have so many new memories in your new place together. I'm really sentimental and things like that are hard for me too. But think of all the firsts you and your hubby will have in your new home. Plus there is always the fun for new couples...

18 Nov 09

On being a new mom...

alyssa_c @alyssa_c (440) • Philippines 18 Nov 09

It's been months since I last visited myLot, much less posted a discussion here. Oh, a little ad lib to all my myLot friends: Sorry, I wasn't much of a help to you guys You see, I'm new mom. Okay, so I gave...

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JayShay82 Congrats!!! It is great being a mom! I have two of my own and a step-son. We are in talks about one more. I can't imagine my life without them and don't really know how my life had any meaning before them. The sleeping gets better as they grow. Ane the weight...

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Beauty Pageants

onlinemoneyjourney @onlinemoneyjourney (235) • Australia 18 Nov 09

This is a huge market, specifically in the US, where young girls are subjected to beauty pageants. They look like miniature dolls all dressed up, make-up and hair perfect, strutting their stuff on the stage. However, behind every...

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JayShay82 I totally agree. My ex's niece is a pageant girl. She is only 6 but looks in her teens when her mom is done "making her up". That little girl has to take 4 hours out of her day for hair and make up. My daughter is 6 and I would rather she run around, play, get...

18 Nov 09

How to deal with it?

happynin @happynin (87) • United States 17 Nov 09

my step daughters call me "Mommy" which is quiet sweet being a step mom.. now heres the worst.. my step daughters call me my first name when their mother calls on the phone and visit them (well like once in a blue moon).. i don't...

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JayShay82 I am a step-mother and you shouldn't take offense to it. My step-son has always called me by my name. He use to call my husband and his step-father "dad". He once accidentally called me mom in his mother's presence. She said it didn't bother her, but it did....

18 Nov 09

Will you give your cell phone number to someone you meet for the first time?

CathyLee2009 @CathyLee2009 (429) • China 18 Nov 09

One of my friend told me about this: a couple of days ago she took part in a party and had a talk with someone she didn't know there.when it came to half of the conversation,the man asked my friend for her cell phone number.my...

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JayShay82 I would never give my number to a person I didn't know. And nobody at the party knew him? He could be a complete crack pot! Tell your friend to be careful. I understand her position though. I don't like to feel awkward or uncomfortable. He kind of put her in a...

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the relationship between step-son ,step-daughter and step-parents.

CathyLee2009 @CathyLee2009 (429) • China 17 Nov 09

I saw it in Desperate Housewives that Michael treats Susan's daught Julie very nice,even is willing to pay for her expensive camp by his scanty money.and Catherine is very kind to Michael and Susan's little son,making him a lot of...

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JayShay82 Thank you for your response! I was very happy to have that relationship with my step-son. I just wonder when that relationship will return.

18 Nov 09

Do you believe on some people saying they fall in love with two person?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 17 Nov 09

Have you been falling in love with two person simultaneously? Do you believe people saying they fall in love with two person at the same time? Or they are not falling in love rather they just need the person? What do you think?

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JayShay82 I don't think you can fall in love with two people at the same time. I'm in love with my husband and I care for my friends. I think that sometimes when people meet someone, find they have a lot of interests, and it is new, they may think they have fallen in...

18 Nov 09

Had enough of the Domestic Violence & we separated!

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 17 Nov 09

This is the news that I am trying to make myself speak out about. I am a victim of Domestic Violence. Four weeks ago we separated. I had enough. I was completely devastated by the whole situation. My Doctor said I should have...

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JayShay82 I'm so sorry to hear about all that you have been through. It is wonderful to hear that you are finally getting your life back. And he's a police officer?!? The ironic twist to that is, those are the kind of people who feel that they can get away with it. They...

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Do schools not realize that times are tough??

qmeyers @qmeyers (42) • United States 17 Nov 09

Ok. I expect to have to shell out for the uniforms and school supplies, but all of the extras are getting out of hand... The first week of school, my son brought home a permission slip for a field trip to a farm that cost $20 for...

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JayShay82 I know. And how do you get a 6 year old to understand what layoffs, bills, and everything else is? I once told my daughter we didn't have the money for something she wanted to do. She looked me dead in the face and asked why I didn't just go to the ATM and get...

18 Nov 09

Favourite movie Johnny Depp

seeiah @seeiah (73) • Belgium 17 Nov 09

What is your favourite movie starring Johnny Depp? Mine is certainly the Pirates of the Carribean trilogy. I loved Public enemies also a lot where Johnny Depp plays John Dillinger. At the moment I am waiting to see Alice in...

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JayShay82 Nick of Time and Secret Window. And then there is From Hell. Oh, and ....Pretty much anything with Johnny!

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is a diamond ring necessary for a proposal?

CathyLee2009 @CathyLee2009 (429) • China 17 Nov 09

I always see there are diamond rings in the hands of the heros when they are asking the heroines to marry them in western movies and Tv series. and in recent years it has become increasingly popular to take a diamond ring as one...

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JayShay82 From my opinion NO. The answer to the man's question of proposal shouldn't be decided on the ring he presents you. It should be based on your feelings for him. And if a man is proposing to a woman who scoffs at his ring or says no because it isn't a diamond...

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People that visit you with their dogs??

ilyzium @ilyzium (1197) • Canada 17 Nov 09

I wanted to bring this up because we've had an incident recently that really irritated me. Ok, well I first just want to mention that I'm one of the biggest dog lovers out there, just love animals. I have a few friends that will...

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JayShay82 If they even would have tried to apologize, I probably still wouldn't be mad. But they have never even tried. Her response to me was that I should have been a better mother and noticed the cat right away. I don't like not talking to her,but she has no regard...

17 Nov 09