Do U Think Women have more topics to Discuss More than men

Todays Women - Women have more topics to discuss about when compared to men
@sunnycool (12714)
India
November 24, 2009 5:29am CST
I'm pretty sure that women have more topics to discuss on when compared to men.They have a wide range of topice to discuss starting with their daily chores,the products they use for their children,about their cooking,about shopping house hold items,clothes,the food,the tv shows they follow,various dishes they can cook,their personal matters,Gossips and Bla Bla Bla. So what do you think am I right?
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22 responses
@mysdianait (66011)
• Italy
24 Nov 09
I feel that both could find lots of topics to talk about but that men tend to hesitate and are more wary about what others might think of them for having started a certain topic. Let me clarify: men are more worried (concerned even) about how they come across to others than women are (at least on here). Women will talk about any type of personal problem whereas most men would think twice about opening their cupboard full of inner thoughts to an open forum. Therefore I feel that both could have the same amount of topics to talk about, just that men are more hesitant and weigh everything up before posting.
@mysdianait (66011)
• Italy
25 Nov 09
So great thinkers also become chatter-boxes?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
hey MSD,may be you are right coz may be our topics are more of amatuer ones so they feel shy to discuss in public.but i am not hesitant to bring any topic. But one thing is for sure women are chatter boxes and they have an unending topics to discuss about and hours just pass on. one can easily say that women keep on thinking by an live example --which can be seen from your profile pic.haha. gud day.Happy mylotting.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
27 Nov 09
so you call it to be great thinking, i name it as lack of ideas coz your brains have dried up and you keep on looking for some topic to start about hence u end up with many discussions.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
Probably yes, i always see them talking and talking with each other, And when i ask them " ohh its nothing" 15 minutes and they talk about nothing, So the next day, you asked them again, "ohh its nothing" till next next day.... so who is NOTHING? i dont know anybody named NOTHING, do you?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
oh well i never knew that they can talk for hours about nothing.may be we guyz need to help them in providing some thing to discuss.haha.gud day.how is your "Quit Smoking Campaign" going on?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
you may be having a hard time to avoid it.well you came up with the profile pic of santa claus.still there some time for him to arrive you came much earlier man.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
I did the Santa Pic for a discussion i started, i was deleted, so i reviewed the guidelines again, I have posted it in the wrong section.
@stephon8 (300)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
I agree, men have limited range when it comes to topic to discuss. Its always sports, politics, cars, bit of music, i think thats it. What men can do best is barging in conversation. Most women dont do that, only guys. Everytime i look at discussions about sports it is mostly guys who reply. I know women like to talk maybe thats why they have all this kind of topic, we men only listen.
@mysdianait (66011)
• Italy
24 Nov 09
'we men only listen' ... and complain!
• United States
25 Nov 09
"men listen and complain" lolz 100% correct:)
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
yes we men listen and enjoy ourselves which is not the same with them. msd we dont complain may be your deeds make us complain haha.
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Nov 09
You are very observant Sunny. Well, i think both are good in starting a discussion. Actually you are one of those males who have lots of ideas and topics in mind so it depends. I personally seldom make my own and sometimes it's weird because i don't know the gender of my mylot friends so from time to time i check on their profile so i can relate properly.
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Nov 09
Hi V, that's a good point V. that's what i am doing right now. i am involved in the reproductive health program and one of our advocacies is making family planning services available to the people--all kinds of methods from natural, to temporary and permanent. People needs to be empowered about their reproductive rights and choices to make population management effective.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
As Usual Kudos for my observance haha.Another diplomatic answer.i dont think both are really equal in starting discussions coz men are mostly into money making stuff and some gadgets and they cant start a discussion related to some house holds ones and some child related stuff hence they are related MSF. i find your discussions getting responses from both.hope you come up with a lot of discussions in the coming days and i am waiting for yours.gud day.
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Nov 09
sunny friend sorry, that message for Vandana is supposed to be in your discussions on discomfort in traveling. anyway i will just repost it. sorry for the worng post.
• United Kingdom
24 Nov 09
Yup,I agree completely.Women are blessed with excellent communication power and it seems they enjoy chatting.A study on human behavior revealed that women were the more expressive of the two genders and they actually got stressed out if they were made to stay quiet for long.Men on the other hand prefer being reticent and talk only when it is required.Socializing comes naturally to most women whereas a lot of men struggle doing it.Summing it up,I think the book "Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus" is absolutely justified.They complement each other perfectly and despite such large behavioral differences they remain incomplete without each other!!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
hi nitin,welcome to mylot and to my surprise you have already started responding well.women are known for their speaking skills and they surpass us in terms of this in every stream.it is pretty hard to find a non expressive women.thank you for responding.gud day.
• United Kingdom
25 Nov 09
Thank you Sunny!!..:)
@zamurai (47)
• India
24 Nov 09
Yes you are so correct. The women have got a great lot of topics to discuss. If to women are meeting there will be a lot of noise and if its two men they will talk gently and go.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
yeah you are right women create a mess around by laughing nd all. so from this you got to learn from men to be gentle and calm and finish your work quickly haha and which can never be expected from women.we get attracted to their beautiful faces so we need to bare them with talkativeness.LOL. thank you for responding.gud day.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
Well its been 3 days now, i just had a stick earlier but i can puff anymore, i makes me cough.
• Malaysia
25 Nov 09
I think it is our nature as women to share everything we know with others so that we don't feel lonely. As a woman I like sharing my ideas in mylot because by doing this I feel happy knowing that I am accepted by others and that there are others who are interested to know about my stories and ideas. I also like to read others' discussions because they give me new information and I learn new experiences even though I have never gone through the exact thing myself. For men, personally I think there are a lot of things going on in their minds, but because of their nature of not liking to share, they keep all those things inside. I don't understand why they are doing this, I know people keep saying it is because of the ego thing, but still I can't grasp why they are ego in the first place. Lol. I am not being sexist though, just voicing out my opinion.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
hi ladysurvivor,this is the first time i have come accross you coz your name specifies that you have survived these many days from me haha. I want to make one thing clear that we men are not egoists but we try to keep it ourselves rather tha sharing every thing so that we can surprise you with something you have unexpected or unusual.I dont mean that all do the same but we dont personally i dont want to share every thing i work on nd all the business stuff rather i would love to spend time with my family indulging in daily activities or spending time happily rather than explaining all those stuff we go on entire day. As we do work hard so we are against bringing those issues or tensions at our workplace to home.I didnt mean tat women dont work hard. So i pity you coz you misunderstand us to be egoists. thank you for responding and hope we come accross more often.gud day.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
I don't really think we have more topics to discuss than you men, but rather women are really born more talkative then men! And we enjoyed being that way actually. It is so boring to just stay in the corner sitting beside a friend and not talking with each other at all. Well I know the topics we women would love to deal with are many but men do also have topics to share and a lot of them actually if only they will find time to really exchange views. I've seen groups of men who enjoy talking too and they are enjoying. I am in a company of friends who love to share so many things about day to day life and we really do enjoy. It's fun to talk with people actually because from conversations we can learn and share innovative ideas. One thing we avoid is gossiping about other people's lives anyway. That is not a good issue for us.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Nov 09
Men would love to share things with their friends mostly though they are men or women and a strict hesistance when it comes to public while discussing general routines we do in our life which is not with the women. Thank you for responding.gud day.
@zeethegr8 (785)
• India
25 Nov 09
Not necessarily its all about intellectual factor. Some people are more intellectual than others and hence they may have many topics to discuss about. And even talkative people have a lot to say. Well yes I do agree that women are generally talkative, that is one thing we can't deny can we!!!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Nov 09
No one can really that women have more talkative compared to men and they unending topics to discuss about. Thank you for responding.gud day.
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
25 Nov 09
Yes, I guess women have more to talk about. Relatively speaking, men would rather go straight to the target, and can focus on only a few things when conducting a mission, while women care about more factors and details, which could unfortunitely miss the focus. Anyway, we see in common life, women like to talk more than men, hence, easier getting relieved from tension or depression, why not?
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Nov 09
haha so wat do you meant to say that women aren't focused when it comes to work.no way.we men are being surpased by women these days coz they have some patience when it comes to complete a work.thank you for responding.gud day.
@KMaroon (266)
• India
25 Nov 09
hi sunnycool You are right women have more topics to discuss more than men. They have many topics to discuss like husband, children, cooking, jewellery, shopping new items or new dresses and many more topics to chit chat. whereas men too discuss many topics but they are less than women.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
29 Nov 09
HI kmaroon.women have a bigger world in their lives when compared us hence they come up more topics to discuss.thank you for responding.gud day.
• Indonesia
25 Nov 09
I'm not saying you are right, or wrong. Every person, has his own subject. Usually, that in talking about the women, more precisely, gossiping, is about a man, her date, another woman's boyfriend, activities, family problems, personal problems, child problems, relationship with in-laws, or the other. Actually, the same as women, we, men also love to gossip. I was glad to gossip, but not to speak ill of others.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
mostly women go on discussing with the gossips and they dont mine to conclude it no matter how many hours have passed LOL.but we men go straight to the point and conclude it within seconds and apart from this too women are meant to work on various issues in their daily work so obviously they come up with more topics.thank you for responding.gud day.
@tictac213 (118)
• United States
25 Nov 09
Yeah you are so right. In women company you never get bored, they keep on talking and talking on multiple topics, u'll always find variety in their discussion topics from cooking to clothing, from household to jewelry, from spouse to children, from fashion and style to soap operas, from friends to in-laws, from neighbours to landlords and on and on and on. But men have same monotonous kind of topics with stereotyped discussions (dont mind) but this is what i think.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
we are here to know each others views so i really dont mind you are free to express tictac213.wat exactly does your profile name means wat behind tictac(clock) and 213? coming to our topic women have so many topic to discuss coz they have more idle when compared to men. Men normally would live their houses in the mornings and return in the evenings and all this time they spend before a computer at their work place busy typing or trying to impress their team leads. but for women once their spouse,children have left the house they can really enjoy watching soaps,chatting with their neighbours and Bla Bla .so they get used to talk more like chatter boxes.hence we men have limited topics to discuss about compared to you women. so come up with an counter tictac i am ready to face it.gud day.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
28 Nov 09
I agree too. Men sometimes limit themselves because of being afraid that knowing about certain topics will make them look like a sissy. Women don't have that fear, so they will get interested in more stuff, and that's why they usually have more conversation topics.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Nov 09
men are always hesitant to start discussions about our daily stuff coz they fear of loosing their respect hence they end up with showing the real cool stuff to the world so they are limited in this way compare to women.Thank you for responding.gud day.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
25 Nov 09
I think men and woman have the same amount of topics to discuss but while women care to discuss them and hear about them men are not. Men just don't find as many things interesting as women do.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
I think women care to discuss coz they have some time to hang around where as men doesnt have much time to start new ones.if at all they want to start they directly go for the happening things around.thank you for responding.gud day.
• United States
24 Nov 09
Yes I totally agree3 sunnycool. Woman has more time to do activities while the mens have to go to work. Mens top discussion: AWt work today.., My boss...I have a problem at work... I am getting fired... Lets see car race.. etc... Woman will have something like music, radio, TV, friends...
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Nov 09
you are right ranger men are really serious about their work and keep on working on it until they acheive it coz they had to impress their tean leads for an promotion LOL.thank you for responding gud day.
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
24 Nov 09
I don't think so. My boyfriend talks more than I do. So in our case, I think it depends more on the personality than anything else. And the boy can talk about anything - from cars to properties and houses! He just seem to talk and talk and talk. Don't get me wrong though, I love him and I love hearing his voice. Though there were days when I ask him to just be quiet for a second.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
ha ha this is quiet different khayshenz.Majority of men are not talkative and you cant even expect a word from me LOL.hope you enjoy his company in the future too.have a nice day.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Nov 09
As far as I'm concerned, I think not. A man is so talktive ,he still can have alot of topic to discuss. Do you know some speech makers, Have you found most of them are men ,not the women. So I think Man still can have more discussion than women. happy mylot.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Nov 09
yeah you are right but i have started this discussion to discus about the people here and their interests.Thank you for responding.gud day.
• Netherlands
24 Nov 09
It could be that women have more topics to discuss simply because they always have something to say and to comment upon. Us men on the otherhand always have interesting topics and discussions such as this one. I do think that although we are more creative with these topics, women will constantly be paying attention to details and making a huge deal about small things.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
28 Nov 09
as women work on too many things in their daily routines so obviously they have an greater chance to come up with more toics to discuss.thank you for responding.gud day.
• India
24 Nov 09
yes, i think women have more topics to discuss more then male. i've both female and male friends. i did not get bored in discussion with female that i got with male.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
25 Nov 09
oh thats really an interesting fact tat you are interested with female discussions.even i find it interesting in their discussions coz we try to flirt with them unless we are gays we dont find anything interesting in men.haha. thank you for responding mithoooon and have a nice day mylotting.