This Is So Funny, But True!!!Have You Experience This?
By rberon1985
@rberon1985 (5359)
Philippines
November 29, 2009 8:25pm CST
Just the other day, I think that was saturday,my girlfriend got mad at me because I did not let her use the computer because I am here in mylot.I told her that I have to post as many posts as I can so I can reach pay out next month. She got mad, she is like a tiger.She prepared all her things and will leave me alone together with my computer.That time I have a fever, and the next day, I have to attend to office. I talk to her and please her. I really can't control her, according to her she is already pissed of because I am always here in mylot.To make the story short, i was able to please her but she sleep in the couch and sleep in a bed since I high fever. Till the morning came,she is not talking to me and I prepared my things and clothes for office. When i was already in the office, i am still texting her to forgive me, anyway it is just a small thing. Yesterday, when I went home, the light is close, then I get inside and then I a very simple but elegant Christmas tree with series lights, then she told me " surprise!advance merry christmas".I am just being confuse if this normally happens to girls.Get mad, then after a day, already okay. Isn't it funny?
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25 responses
@kaylachan (57596)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
30 Nov 09
Its not uncommon for girls and guys a like to misunderstand especially if they feel as they are being negelected. I have the same type of argument almost every day with my man. By the next day its like the conversation never happened. And, sometimes its also not uncommon for girls to be easily and overly emotional. Not to say all girls are this way, but it does happen.
Just hang in there and do the best that you can.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
You are correct, maybe she felt that she is being neglected. With me, i am just doing this so that it can add up to our earnings. Some earnings that I got here really helps every time we had an emergency situation. But I cannot blame her, maybe she just love and sometimes we came to a point that she is jealous with the friends that i add here in the site.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Nov 09
hi rberon1985 why dont you marry this girl who just gave you a pretty christmas tree? sounds like she is really sweet after
all and would make a great mate.all us women get moody thats
one of the things that makes us different from you guys ,we
blow hot and cold when we get angry but bear with us we will
come around. happy loving and good luck.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
We have plans to get married, but not this time.We are in the middle of crisis now.We have to save first for our future.I know the importance of marriage. I know how sacred it is. But for our own goodness, we have to put first ourself in a better place.We will establish first a business,once okay, that will be the time we can do it.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
30 Nov 09
I experience it all the time. Well, I do not have a girlfriend. But there is my mother and my cousins(all of them are girls 
) and my friends who are girls.
I never understood why a girl does, what she does. I mean it seems like their tradition. They will say 'yes' when they mean 'no'. They will say 'no' when they mean 'yes'. They just cannot do something straight. They will have to complicate things all the time.
) and my friends who are girls.
I never understood why a girl does, what she does. I mean it seems like their tradition. They will say 'yes' when they mean 'no'. They will say 'no' when they mean 'yes'. They just cannot do something straight. They will have to complicate things all the time.2 people like this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Girls has no fix decision. Their mind change from time to time.We should not depend on them.We should understand them because it is their nature. Sometimes you will really get mad, but you cannot do somehing but keep quite so the conversation won't take so long.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
30 Nov 09
Hi Rberon,
While reading your discussion, what i have in mind is you girlfriend i deeply jealous with mylot. Mylot is taking your time that is supposedly hers. Mylot is taking your time for yourself to rest especially that you are sick with high fever. But as i went further reading your discussion-- the jealousy turned into sweetness. Yes, girls can really drive you crazy with the way they think, feel and act. Funny for you but it she made out her way to show how much she loves you despite her jealousy to mylot!
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
I have to admit to myself that sometimes, i was not able to give her time because I am very busy with mylot. You are correct, she is really jealous with mylot.If she can only remove this site to our computer, she will, so that I can focus to her.I understand her.She is just doing it because she loves me and I appreciate it.
@beckysue12121 (37)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Maybe she feels like the computer gets more attention than she does.
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
That is exactly what she felt. She felt that she is being neglected. I understand her. I know she loves me that is why she is doing it.
@madie8008 (209)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 09
That is one of good side being a girl. They are willing to give forgiveness. If they are not your world could be disarray. I don't think that break up for a silly computer sharing is a good solution after all. Maybe you could spare or share buying another computer for her to avoid arguing about using one so that she can mylot here too.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Actually, before,both of us has its own computer.It just so happen that her computer is no longer working because it was attack by a virus that is why we are just sharing in one computer. Most of the girls are moody, so all I have to do is to understand of course.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
30 Nov 09
rberon1985,
Aw! That's awfully sweet of her and I hope that you are not overdoing on your part with myLot or any other online activity. I mean frankly, how much can one alone really earn here? No offense taken but lest you have a network of active referrals, I just do not see any lone serious effort would have any effect on earnings as far as myLot is concern.
Still, it is your choice to make, but I'd rather hold on to something more precious than something frivolous or karmic. So, did you give her a kiss under the mistletoe?
Anyway, all the best and compliments of the season.
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
After the quarrel I came to realize that I am already loosing time to her because I am always here in mylot.I came to think that I have to cope up with all the times that i was out and she needs me. I understand that she is moody.We have been together for 8 years. And I have to accept what she have and what she do not have.
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@doryvien (2284)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Hi rberon,
Ever heard the reason why typhoons (in our country) used to be given female names only? It's because girls change their minds and moods just like typhoons change their speed and direction 
- very unpredictable indeed! But she gave you a really nice surprise, and I'm sure she got you there. I bet that's one of the reasons that endears her to you more even when as you say, she is like a tiger
. I look forward to your discussion announcing your wedding.
- very unpredictable indeed! But she gave you a really nice surprise, and I'm sure she got you there. I bet that's one of the reasons that endears her to you more even when as you say, she is like a tiger. I look forward to your discussion announcing your wedding. @rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
you made me laugh with your response. can you name some name of the typhoon that is named after a girl. annoucing a wedding, it would take sometime before i post it, we have a lot of plans, we are planning to have a bussiness first before we get married.
. annoucing a wedding, it would take sometime before i post it, we have a lot of plans, we are planning to have a bussiness first before we get married.@doryvien (2284)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Hi rberon,
I'm not really sure if this is true, but when I was a kid everytime I ask my parents why typhoons always bear a female name, my father would always be the one to answer, giving the reason I mentioned, never forgetting to add the phrase, "just like your mother, she changes her mood faster than a strong wind, more like typhoon", with a loving note there.
I remember Rosing(1995), I was stranded in my office because all the streets were flooded. There's also Loleng(1998), Trining 1991), Sisang(1987) and Undang(1984)-this last one toppled almost all the electric posts in my hometown, leaving it without electricity for 2 months...I think the comparison(between typhoon and female moods) is not baseless
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I remember Rosing(1995), I was stranded in my office because all the streets were flooded. There's also Loleng(1998), Trining 1991), Sisang(1987) and Undang(1984)-this last one toppled almost all the electric posts in my hometown, leaving it without electricity for 2 months...I think the comparison(between typhoon and female moods) is not baseless 
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
hello Rberon, I was supposed to laugh but knowing that you didn't let your wifey do computer can start trouble with the relationship. I mean, Come on, you got a job, and other online money making opportunities are only optional. not only that you gotta wife too
. you know, i have attended a mass last sunday, and i couldn't forget what was the point told iby the priest in his last sermon : always reorganized your priorities in life. My advice since am single, DON't make it a habit, and buy a laptop if you feel that you are consuming too much of your time here. I lost a computer, but thanks to my bro i can mylot here again. hey, why don't you try to having an internet in your phone, so that you can mylot there instead
. your GF surprising you with a Xmas tree is a BIG deal already, you gotta make it up to her even more.1 person likes this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Actually before we have two computers. It is just so happen that her computer was attacked by unknown virus and we can no longer use it. After our quarrel, i came to realize that i should reorganized my priorities. I should put her on top since we have been together for 8 years now.Thanks for reminding mer, i should make it up to her.What about you,when do you plan to have a girlfriend?
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
You're not gonna believe it but it's not exactly on my head right now. i just lucky i got my computer back now, i might limit my time even though i am here. i learned a good lesson the hard way and i hope my pc doesn't get screwed. besides, if i feel like the person for more than a month, that i can tell that am in-love, usually feelings tend to fade away after a few days
@vandana7 (98787)
• India
30 Nov 09
Hi rberon, you are lucky boy. :) You have a very nice girlfriend. :) Hope you two will be very happy and your relationship will last forever. :) And I will tell you a secret, we girls are like that. We like the guys pleading, and feeling insecure in the relationship. :)
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Thanks for the wonderful response.yes, your secret is really true. It has been proven since we started our relationship.Since I love her, every time that we are going to quarrel, i will always please her. Maybe the last time, she came to realize that it is really her fault that is why she tried to cope up.
@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Wow! I got teary eyed. That's so sweet of her (Now I wish I had special someone too, Gee!). Hmm... I believe girls are cruel sometimes but base on your story, I think she made that all up. She set everything like that and it appeared sweeter! Err! I salute your girl!
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
if you were touch with her sweetness, how much more me. i am so much touch with her unexpected surprise. its been a long a time that she did not do that,i embrace her because of the surprise.
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
hi rberon,
Your girl is so sweet!
That is very cute! Some girls are like that, we get pissed today and be jolly tomorrow! hahaha! But i think, she has valid reason to get mad at you in the first place. I will too! hello?! lolz... Because you prioritized mylot than her! Haha!
It only shows that she truly loves you. Happy Lotting!
That is very cute! Some girls are like that, we get pissed today and be jolly tomorrow! hahaha! But i think, she has valid reason to get mad at you in the first place. I will too! hello?! lolz... Because you prioritized mylot than her! Haha! It only shows that she truly loves you. Happy Lotting!2 people like this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
yes, she is really sweet. Never expect this as well.I thought that she is really mad at me.we never talk from the time I woke up yesterday. I just came to the office. We have been together for eight years, so it is no longer new to me in the way she act.I just want to share to you guys.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
30 Nov 09
Girls are the only ones in this world who are really difficult to be under stood and i have seen many times with my class mates they come at harsh suddenly and then they calm down the next minute nd apologize for thier rude ness but in your case it took her 1 day to calm down.so she came up with an wonderful gift "Christmas Tree".
gud day.
gud day.1 person likes this
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
With this, i think i should no longer post this discussion here since I already know her because we have been together for 8 years already. Its been a long time that she did not do it to me,maybe i am just shocked, anyway, we are already fine. I am really happy for her surprise, as the advice of others,i have to make it up to her.
@carla_roa (128)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Awwwwwww, your girlfriend is really sweet. Maybe the whole pissed thing was just part of the surprise she was planning for you. And girls can't be understood sometimes because most of us are moody. It is normal if we are pissed at the moment and then became really sweet the next day. So you don't have to worry because you girlfriend was just being sweet to you
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
I am also wondering if what she did the last two nights ago is just a plan or it is really true. But I can really feel her anger. Maybe the night after that she came to realize that she has been too mad to me. I understand her, I have to admit that there are times that I was not able to talk to her since I am very busy with mylotting!I understand her.
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
1 Dec 09
I got a bit confsed here. Do you and your girlfriend take fair turns in using the computer? Msybe she thinks you are becoming obsesed with My Lot, as many of us here are I think.
You dont have to control your gilfriend. A relationship shouldnt be about control.
I think your girlfriend probably did get mad, but didnt want her madness to continue so she tried to make it up by doing something nice.
@missweety (626)
• Latvia
2 Dec 09
Advance merry Christmas??? That I hear first time in my life lol...
I am fighting with my boyfriend for computer, we have just one at home so sometimes we have to argue too but usually, I or he just politely asks or says - I need a computer...but when he gets to it, I cannot get him away from it...he doesn't speak with me, he even doesn't hear me...and when I have came home from work, all day sitting alone in the office, I really want to talk to somebody, then I just can't because my loved one doesn't hear me while playing computer games...so childish...
I think mylotting is better than playing computer games, don't you agree with me???
how about your girlfriend? She doesn't like to surf net or play some games or she's just not interested in all that and she just wants to get you off the computer??? :)
Talking about girls - we can get mad very quickly :)
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
1 Dec 09
First bit of advice, if you are going to get married, get married. Make this real, or forget about it. If you are not going to get married, then break it off while you are still on good terms, and find someone you can marry.
Second....
Buy another computer bro! Look... having a wife, isn't like having a best friend. She has to know that she's FIRST in your life. If you keep going that way, she is going to figure out that you love Mylot or the computer, more than her, and she's gone.
You can't have that special relationship, and have it play second to other things you want to do. You either put the women first, or she'll disappear on you.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Dec 09
How sweet of her to prepare the Christmas tree for the two of you after being so mad at you the day before. I take it that the two of you have made up and I'm very glad to hear that. As far as whether or not this is true for all women, I really think that it is. As I think back on my prior relationships I remember times that I was so mad at my boyfriends that I couldn't even see straight and then within a few days I was trying to think of something that I could do for them that would really surprise them.
@riribhakti (136)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 09
hai, rberon
its normally i think. i am as a girl sometimes get confuse too with my self. sometimes i feel bad without know what's wrong , and just a hour i feel better and pretend there is nothing bad happend to me. LOL
@locohboi (55)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
that was so very funny,she surprising you that christmas is near and you still in your computer,i thought she want's your attention to him,make some time to your girl and to your computer,i have a question to you if who is the important computer or your girlfriend?
