can you forgive a cheating partner?

Malaysia
December 9, 2009 4:21am CST
When we love someone we will trust that person because we believe that he or she has the same feeling, but when the person that we love and trust so dearly cheat can you still forgive and give a second chance?
3 responses
@ifa225 (11092)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
well, for me time will heal the pain. At first maybe i will get so irritable, but as the time goes, i will forgive him. he is only human, and anyone can make any fault. If i am the one who did the mistake, i would really love that i would be forgiven too..
• Malaysia
15 Dec 09
yes time will heal the pain but lets say he cheated on you and said it was unintentional? there's a very hot topic going on in the love section if you just check. I like to see your opinion there too (^_^)v
@jasmeena (850)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
I think i can forgive him but of course, it will take time...it happened to me 2 years ago,then a few months after we broke up,he contacted me,just asking how r you and so on, then he tried to defend himself that we broke up not because of another woman. then i reminded him of what he has done to me..now i am very grateful with the fact that i don`t marry him as GOD shows me that he can`t be a good husband..I forgive him whatever he has done,but of course, i can`t be with him anymore
• United States
9 Dec 09
I've never been cheated on before, but I should be able to forgive. The Lord says there is one sin that won't be forgiven and that is not adultery. (That sin is blasphemy of the holy spirit) I would however try to talk it out with my wife who cheated on me and just try to hear her side of the story. Of course I'd be hurt that she did it. But adultery is a double edged sword in the fact that if you commit it, you not only hurt your partner, but you also hurt yourself, especially if you have a good partner.