What Would you Grab

@dorannmwin (36392)
United States
February 12, 2010 11:22am CST
Imagine that your house is on fire and you were only able to take one thing out of the house with you. What would that item be for you? This is something that I have thought about occasionally throughout my life because I know that fire is something that could happen to anyone's house. However, I never came up with a solid thought of it. One of the girls that I know through my playgroup just had a workmate's house catch on fire and her son chose to grab his XBox but now is looking for any game that someone can donate for him to play. This got me really curious about what the one item would be that you would grab if your house was on fire. When stating your item, assume that all people and animals were able to get out safely.
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@kar295rocks (2116)
• India
12 Feb 10
Dear dorannmwin, I am quite amused at the presence of the mind of the child who atleast thought of saving 200$ for his parents when his house was on fire! If my house was on fire, I would grab everyone in the house and run! The article I would choose is my iTouch!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Very interesting in thinking to save some money for one's parents. I think that I wouldn't choose the fire extingusisher because I imagine it would be too late for that to be of any help.
• India
12 Feb 10
Hey wait, I would choose the Fire Extinguisher rather than the iTouch!
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• United States
12 Feb 10
I live in an old farm house dating back to the 1800's and I always worry about a fire. It would go up quick in flames! So, a couple of years ago I thought about this and decided to make up a fire emergency bag. I thought about things that I would want to go with me if there ever was a fire in my house. The bag only holds a couple small things. That way it is not heavy and bulky when I am trying to carry it out of the house trying to escape the fire. In the bag I have put my very first stuffed animal from when I was born, a picture of my family and one of my boyfriend, a set of clothes, and the last thing I have put in is some valuable jewlery that has been pasted down through my family to me. If over the years something else could go in my fire bag I have still some room to put a couple more things. This way I don't have to battle with myself when there is a fire in my house, on what I am going to grab on my way out. I can just grab this bag out of my room and get out. The only bad thing would be is if I couldn't get to my bedroom to grab my fire bag. I guess I would just hope that the fire will be put out before it gets to my bedroom.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
That is a very interesting idea and way of being prepared for a fire. I don't think that I would be able to do this myself because I would feel like I was waiting for a disaster to happen.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
13 Feb 10
Hi dorannmwin, I've had so many incidents with fire that I think of these things. As a kid, I used to go to bed at night with my clothes by my bed as well as my library books. As I got older, I always think about what I'd grab on my way out if a fire broke out in the night. I do go to bed with clothes nearby. My first priority would be to get my daughter out and myself of course
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
16 Feb 10
I first think of survival. beyond my daughter, I'd grab my purse...we'd really need it...i'd grab some blankets. I've lost things that can't be replaced so many times that I don't hold much sentimental value to those things anymore. I do understand what you are saying tho.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Yes, the first priority would definitely be those that we love. Beyond that, I would try to take the things that aren't replaceable with me.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
I'm sorry to hear that you've lost things that couldn't be replaced in the past. I imagine this is a difficult thing to go through.
@agrant10 (1476)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Hi Dorannmwin, Thanks for letting all people and animals out safely. That would have been my first choice. (My Family). I think I would grab my purse first. because I have my keys and other items in there that I would need. I would grab a few clothes and most of all my pictures. I have a lot of pictures and I know that I could replace the items, but the pictures could not be replaced.
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@agrant10 (1476)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Well, for me I would be able to move forward but I would feel like I lost a big part of me. But I would have my family so we would make new.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
16 Feb 10
Yes, you would be able to make new memories as long as you still had your family.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
For me as well, it would be of utmost importance for me to have my pictures in order to move forward with my life.
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• Bangladesh
15 Feb 10
Well, my friend. In this situation I'd like to grab my cell phone and PC. I'll choose cell phone because it helps me contact with the people who love stay connected with me. I'll choose my PC because it is my working tool which I use to earn my livelihood and contact different people via internet. Have a nice day.
• Bangladesh
16 Feb 10
Hey friend. Thank you very much for supporting my response. Have a nice day.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
There is nothing not to support about what you've said. We are all entitled to our own personal opinion and I know from my own life just how important our computers are to our lives.
• Bangladesh
20 Feb 10
Hey dear friend. Thank you again for your valued comment. Have a nice day.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Really, it truly depends on where I am in the house when the fire starts. After all, going from one end of the house to another to grab something when a fire is happening just would not be a good idea. If I was in my room, I would make an honest attempt to grab my DVD player. I was thinking about saying computer but that would just be too much to grab in a situation. Elsewhere, I may grab any number of things. Perhaps photo albums would be another one depending on what part of the house I am in. That would be of course if I could get my wits about me long enough to grab something quickly before getting out of there. I do think that if there was really a fire, I would be more concerned about saving myself than I would be saving my belongs. It just seems like a situation where my own welfare would be the most important. Then again, it is difficult to say unless I am actually in that situation and I hope I never am.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
You are probably right in a certain sense. If our homes were to catch on fire we would be far more interested in saving ourselves than saving our things.
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Having lived through my Dad's house getting hit by lightning and burning to the ground, I am answering this with the perspective I have from personal experience. When this happened, I was married and lived a few miles away. All his important paperwork was in one of those fireproof security boxes, and it was well worth the money spent on keeping stuff in there. As luck would have it, I had all the archives of family pictures, complete with ancestors photos, and stuff like that, at my house. Of all the items lost, this was the one thing that was most important that got saved from destruction. So, I would definitely say besides people and my animals, I'd grab those photo albums. As we found, almost anything and everything in a house can be replaced, but those precious family pictures are irreplaceable and roots of where we came from in our ancestery line.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
You are exactly right. Our "things" can be replaced but there are certain intangible types of objects that can't be saved. That is also one of the reasons that it is important to have a fire proof safe and also one of the reasons that it is important to make sure to keep a copy of your pictures and stuff at a friend or relative's house.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
13 Feb 10
Well I would first check to see if all of the living beings in my house had made it out okay before I started to think about any of my material possessions. I would probably just take my whole drawer out of my nightstand next to my bed with all of the journals of mine that I could fit. I would hate to lose all of my lyrics and research that I've been doing to a fire but it would be worse to lose one of our animals or one of my family members.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
That is a very interesting thing to want to carry forward with you, but I can completely see why it would be the item that you would choose.
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• Estonia
13 Feb 10
I hope that I will never have to encounter such situation. Anyway, if I really had to leave my burning home fast, I would grab the box with my own "archive". I have stored some pictures, collectibles (like cards or stickers) and some of my interviews that were made in a kindergarten, when I was a kid, in that box. I would choose to save that box because it contains many important things, that bring back the old memories and every item inside it is associated with some good memory from my childhood.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
I certainly hope that this situation never falls on any of us either. I think that the box that you've chosen to carry forward in your life is a great choice if it ever does happen.
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@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Well, my computer is a bit heavy, so I wouldn't grab that, but I would grab my phone, because I would want to call for help or anything like that. I wouldn't grab my computer because it has insurance on it any way and I'd be able to get another one. I don't even think I'd be able to get it unplugged anyway.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
The fact that the computer is so heavy is the reason that I would only choose to save my external hard drives and not my entire computer.
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@amijor (234)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
I'd grab the important documents (birth certificate, diplomas, lot title, insurance policy, etc.). It's good to take this with you if ever a fir happens because you can use these to look for a job, which would bring back the burned down possessions.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Wonderful point about the important documents that we have in our lives. They would indeed be something that would be important for us to be able to move forward in our lives.
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@clipox (51)
• Philippines
12 Feb 10
as long as other people on our house were saved, i'm going to exert effort on carrying out my beloved pc..^^, that is if i can only carry one thing... otherwise, i'll break my window, trow all my dress outside, and others except my pc^^,..
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
In today's day and age, computers are definitely important to individuals so I can see why this would be the thing that you would want to save from your house if it was on fire.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
knock on wood, dorannmwin. i am not superstitious, but oftentimes it's a knee-jerk reaction to situations that result in despair and tragic forebodings... but should that happen, and i hope it wont, the first thing that i will grab, if there is still time, are my family's personal records, including important documents...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
You are right, adrenaline does make us do some things that we would either never expect to do or that we would never imagine that we would be able to do.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Like you, I certainly don't hope for this to happen to anyone. That said, I do think that your important documents would be something that you would have to save from your life.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
certainly, dorannmwin. the assumption is you already can save your life, and also that of the other members of your family, otherwise there's no need to grab anything. anyway, the hypothetical topic only tests how we react without our adrenalin pumping. when the adrenalin pumps, we'll probably have a different reaction. it's like crossing the bridge when it's already there.
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
for me i will grab my cellphone first so i can call for my relatives to send me some help hehehehehe because if my cellphone get burn i cant contact them hehehehe
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@celticeagle (159032)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Feb 10
I would grab the things I know it would be hard to replace. My box of pictures, my laptop and some clothes. I have tried to have family meetings on how we would escape, meet, etc. I think it is important when you live in an apartment to have a plan incase of a fire. It is scarey.
@celticeagle (159032)
• Boise, Idaho
16 Feb 10
Ya, all other stuff can be replaces but not pictures.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
I think it is important to have a plan in case of fire regardless of where you live. I also agree that that I would make sure to have my pictures saved.
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@K46620 (1986)
• United States
14 Feb 10
Probably my Laptop; it's something I think about once in awhile.
@K46620 (1986)
• United States
15 Feb 10
As long as no one needed help getting out that's possibly the first thing I would grab since I really would not want to loose the data I store on the hard drive.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
That makes a lot of sense. Thank you very much for clarifying.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
Is there a reason that you would choose your laptop over anything else that you have in your life?
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
13 Feb 10
I always worried about that. The only thing I would really care about being safe were my cats. They don't always do what you want them to and knowing mine they would hide instead of going outside. I don't have pets anymore, so I don't have to worry about that. I am handicapped and I don't know if I'd be able to get out or what I would do with myself if I got out. In theaters when they say things like "In case of emergency..." I think to myself "In case of an emergency I am screwed, unless someone picks me up and carries me to safety."
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
It is a scary thought to think that you may not be able to save yourself in case of an emergency. I can see why you can't think about saving any one thing only to worry about your own safety.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
I would hope that there would be someone that would help you. I know that I'd be the kind of person that would help someone that was disabled.
• United States
16 Feb 10
When the towers were hit on 9/11 handicapped people were helped out of the building, so maybe someone WOULD pick me up and carry me. Other than myself and my cats, I would probably want to take my purse. It has my ID and a lot of other things including money & checkbook, that I might need.
• Philippines
13 Feb 10
i think my ability to let go makes it easy for me to not be so sentimental about things. if ALL people inside my house - my daughters, my house help - is safely out i think i grab my bag, with my id's, atms and some important documents. as to the things inside the house, maybe i just surrender it to God, what is left, will be left and would be mine, if all are burned down, well, what should i do. i cannot do anything about it. of course i'll be sad... maybe, i'll work harder again to regain what i formerly own. God bless...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
I think that it is important for us to not be sentimental about things. There are certain aspects of our lives that aren't replacable and that would be what I would want to be able to take forward in my life.
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
you are correct. but some people find it so difficult to let go of things and people close to their heart, that makes the healing process take longer. to me what is replaceable are ONLY people and memories associated with them. other than that, i don't hold much. hence, i value people i love, if they are taken away from me by an unforeseen incident, my heart will be broken, but then again, i have a deep faith in HIM, i know he has a greater purpose. painful as it may seen, it may shatter by my core, but i think i may be able to stand up again little-by-little. and reconstruct my being from what is left of me. Thanks doran...
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
i'd like to correct myself: i should say... ... what is IRREPLACEABLE... sorry (my mind runs faster than my finger ) thanks again...
@kaylayoe (293)
• United States
12 Feb 10
Okay, this may sounds really silly, especially because I'm 17 but I would bring my baby blanket. I still sleep with it and It have a difficult time sleeping without it. I love my blanket almost as much as I love my boyfriend. I reminds me of so many memories and it's something that means the world to me!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Feb 10
It doesn't sound silly at all because when I was about your age that would have been the item that I would have wanted to save as well. Even now, and I'll be thirty in a couple of months, my baby blanket is very important to me. However, it isn't as important to me as the photos that I have of my daughter's first seven years and my son's first three years.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
18 Feb 10
You do indeed have an advantage. You are lucky that you would be able to carry forward a comfort item from your childhood.
@kaylayoe (293)
• United States
16 Feb 10
I agree. If I had children I would feel the same way. My boyfriend has all of our pictures so I wouldn't think to grab those and my mom has all my baby photos but I don't live with her so all those are safe! I guess I have an advantage!
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
my house just burned a few days ago. had it not burned i would probably have said my guitar. instead... I grabbed my laptop. i guess work is more important to me than my guitar
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
25 Mar 11
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your house. I'm just glad to hear that you were able to make it out of the house safe. I couldn't imagine losing not only my home but all of my worldly possessions. I hope that you are able to put your life back together again.