some nasty people

Hi, saphrina. I agree! My star rating went down to one point. And I am trying to figure out what did I do??? I don't understand why people have to be so mean to others. It is not fair. Sometimes, it makes me just want to quit myLot altogether, but I am not going to give the trolls no satisfaction! We all are here to enjoy ourselves and not to tear each others star rating down. We should come here to express ourselves whether or not we are on the same page as others. This kind of attitude should stop. I hope that the webmaster will tackle this problem. Because what was done to Hatley, was wrong and mean. Get on them saphrina!! Let them trolls know that they picked the wrong person to mess with. They are up creek now!

Why on earth you would get bothered by those Ninja's SB they do not even dare to get into light---in other words they're really comfortable doing all the mischief in disguise---so leave them to their concern

yep they do exist but we have to be nice to others thatz it.......

Hi saphrina, I wish I could tell you to just ignore "them", but I know when they attack a "well respected senior member" it is difficult to do. I try hard to get along with everyone, but if someone does something to someone that I care about I just have to say whatever I need to and if necessary get others to help! I did something yesterday that was extremely out of character for my own behavior so I know that sometimes we can get upset with what we think people are doing and maybe take them the wrong way. But, I have never gone out of my way to intentionally hurt anyone here on purpose and I never would. I love mylot and wish that others would understand that we are here to make friends and have fun and if you can't do that then as saphrina has said, find something or somewhere else to go!

Hi Saprinha , first let me say I admire your attitude to defend a friend,if you see and know he is not wronged, it should be our attitude of all. Some time ago one of my friends has been wronged here, and I don t spoke, because I was coward, and I was afraid to not make my enemies, I was leaving, and left one against all even If I knew she was right. Because it is a lady, a silent one,she ignored, and just go, even though there were numerous talks against her (no names of course), and now i am sorry that I don t say nothing I did not point. You know what is curious, as all one accused, but did not know who talk bad about, was somehow "herd mentality" where everybody throws stone that without knowing why. Sadly she was not even guilty, but refused to defend himself only reluctantly.

hi saphrina,i have experience to argue with my roommate,and we don't keep in touch with each others from then on,even though we both have the other one QQ and phone number,factually i don't want to argue with anyone around me,cause maybe one day i need help from one of them,but that time i was too angry to tolerate.but in today society, i want to say is whatever happened to you ,only one we could do is toleration,it is not weak,it just ways to live betters.

Not sure what brought this on but from a quick glance it looks like someone attacked Hatley again. I swear they do that just because she is so sweet. She's tough tho. She does hold her own ground for sure. There is no need but some just seem to get some thrill out of being mean.

I think that it is best just to ignore people like that. Its not worth dealing with people like that. There's so many people who are nasty around here, and I agree its just time to grow up truely.

I usually come here to joke around and have fun. Sometimes my sense of humor can be misunderstood, and I would never intentionally hurt anyone. When this has happened, I have apologized and explained what I meant. However, there have been topics and discussions I have read that I have really felt strongly that they were inappropriate, and I have responded to them in a rather stern manner. These discussions were not technically against the guidelines or TOS, but they dealt with some very serious and potential hurtful issues in a very careless manner. I have also defended friends when I felt that they were being attacked. Mostly, though, I would just rather not get involved in some of the drama that goes on here.

Here I am. First find me something to fight for - he he. :) But do keep me busy. :)

let them be. it s not worth it. i dont know you but i know you can forget about this cuz it s really not worth your time, nor does anybody s..

hee,well its sometimes fun to behave like akid with the others if ht others also join you but not a the expense of other person peace!

hi saphrina. well, maybe i'm just a month old here. but i see that almost everyone here is not. almost all of us here enjoys sharing of ideas and have fun. i'm not sure what i'll do if i meet one. to give him/her the same treatment would be good to make him/her feel how it tastes like. but on the other hand, if we are not down and low as them then there is no need to. i would probably weigh each and give him/her the best treatment he/she would love not to love it.

As I'm a person afraid of confrontation, I still stick up for my friends no matter how painful it's gonna be especially if they didn't even do anything to start the fight. And I support your cause. It's one thing to throw a negative comment. It's another to bully other people.

I suggest you just let them be saphrina i mean we all know whose at fault. If you know that your right then just let them be well educated people dont engage in those kinds of stuff. And i feel that your one well educated girl ;) Let those people mingle with their own kind and let them be, no matter what they tell you im sure you know who are ;)