How to become a very cool person?

@vine88 (1031)
India
April 12, 2010 4:56am CST
every one like to be handsome, beautiful, smart. cool person really enjoys life..Do you have any ideas to become cool and smart.
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25 responses
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
The term cool is very categorical. Its definition varies from person to person but If you'll ask me the cool ones are the calm, composed, smart, confident, funny and flexible... always gets along with others.
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@eyeris02 (26)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
hi vine88 just be yourself, i think that's the most important thing for a person to be cool..be polite and kind..give sum love dude!lol.. you can be smart in many ways like knowing when to say the right words in a conversation, the key is to reflect your interactions to people know what is good things to say or do..just be yourself and be a good person..that's being cool and smart, you don't need good looks just nice attitude.. have a nice day!
@vine88 (1031)
• India
12 Apr 10
Thanks
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
14 Apr 10
IN order to be cool, dun be too hot!! lol =D Dun be as hot as robert pattinson, and u will be cool enough!! lol =D Being cool or hot, depends aloof on our own personalities.. IF that's the way we are, we will not be able to change much.. IF we dun look good by looking cool, we will only be giving the impression of being arrogant or aloof.. haha =D Stick to what suits us best, and not blending in to the crowd.. haha =D Confidence is the key!!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Apr 10
One of the most important things to keep in mind about being cool is that you need to have all of the aspects of your life put together. You need to feel like you know where your life is at the given point in time and you also have to know where you want to go with your life. Of course, there are the people that think that looks and such are important to being a cool person, but I don't think that these things are important because those kinds of things are nothing but superficial.
@libramie (562)
• Philippines
15 Apr 10
Not stressing habit make us cool and calm. Appreciate what we have even a single thing and being humble shows smartness.
• India
15 Apr 10
hello vine one should talk politely, not interfere in personal matter of others, help the needy if not with money, just kind words, i think this helps... Thanks for this nice post, cheers God bless you. Prof
@HADDOWZ (1469)
13 Apr 10
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@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
12 Apr 10
Be yourself and you will attract people just like you. Pursue things that you interest and don't act a certain way to become friends with certain people. If you aren't happy with yourself because your acting a certain way to impress people then you need to take the time to find yourself. You need to choose your friends wisely because they will help you with your life so much.
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
13 Apr 10
Listen twice as much as you talk. Listen with out passing judgement, and with your whole being. With appreciation.
• United States
12 Apr 10
Just be yourself. Never try to become something you are not. Everyone's idea of beauty is different. Appearances should not matter, so long as you practice good hygiene. If you want to be smart, then educate yourself. Just be yourself. Never try to change who you are to please anyone else.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
14 Apr 10
you don't become a cool person or a smart person. You just are one, and behave as one.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
12 Apr 10
The number one qualities in a "cool person," I think, are confidence and being completely comfortable with yourself. Having good fashion/style, etc. is just a bonus. ^o^
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
12 Apr 10
be yourself. being cool is not about projecting an image other than your real self. also, putting a lot of add ons to improve one's image makes one more unnatural, thus not cool. so, if you really want to be be cool, just be yourself and nothing else...
@newtalent (1112)
• United States
12 Apr 10
Yes, be yourself and do not pretend to be something you are not. I cannot be your therefore you can not be me, we are two different people so be yourself and people will respond to you because you are being genuine, not acting.
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
12 Apr 10
You are born that way. It is in your genes. You cannot learn to become something you are not. You can for a short time. But you would be a fraud, and eventually you would be caught out, because you could not keep the act going over a long period of time.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
12 Apr 10
to me looks isnt about being cool, but how to treat others is one way to be cool, because someone can be good looking and not cool. for me being cool is being honest, treat others good, and just being real and not someone who is fake about who they are
• Boston, Massachusetts
12 Apr 10
just think positive and fill your hearts with happy thoughts and you will be a coolo person. don't deal on problems and difficulties...look at learnings, insights and opportunities where you will learn as a person. it's cool to always do our best to become a better person from all the experiences that we've gone through!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
12 Apr 10
There is no guidelines in life to become cool. Just be yourself. People tend to like that more. It is normally your personally and views of life that make you what you are. TATA.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
12 Apr 10
what is cool to one is not to another. being cool to me is to be friendly. i'm basically a quiet person and is easily perceived as not being too friendly. but when i'm with my circle of friends, being friendly and that's cool to me, i get to enjoy an honest, rewarding friendship. i think certain attributes are inborn while others are nurtured.
@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
12 Apr 10
I personally just take my leatherjacket, maybe brush my hair a little and NOT TAKE Apple casket