How does it feel to be a bride/groom?

wedding day - A special!wedding day!
@cloud31 (5809)
April 16, 2010 8:55am CST
A very straight question to all married couples.I don't have any further example.When you're about to walk down the aisle or you are about to get marry,just assumed in few months what do you really feel about? being a bride/groom,knowing that you will leave the days of being single?Happy that you can have your dream partner in life? Excited,nervous,scare,a lot of unexplainable emotions and feelings, and hope you will share it with me. How does it feel to be a bride/groom? Your thoughts/feelings are very much appreciated! Thank you and Good day everyone..
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@dawnald (84852)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
If it's right, it's the happiest feeling in the world. And a teensy bit scary too!
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@dawnald (84852)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
Feels good walking down the aisle, doesn't mean it lasts...
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@dawnald (84852)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Apr 10
I think you need to go live with the nuts and the squirrels.
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@cloud31 (5809)
16 Apr 10
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@dpk262006 (58720)
• Delhi, India
16 Apr 10
Cloud hello! Taste of pudding is in the eating, this is all I can say. When you will get married and would be in the role of a bride, you will automatically understand,what kind of special feelings and emotions keep traveling in one's mind. All types of emotions ranging from nervousness to scary keep coming in one's mind, on the marriage day. All the best to you and when you get married, please remember this discussion and share your experiences with us.
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@dpk262006 (58720)
• Delhi, India
20 Apr 10
Indeed I was wishing for you and I hope that whenever you get married, you will remember this discussions and our comments and will share how you felt on your D'Day. Congratulations Cloud on touching 1000 mark.
@cloud31 (5809)
16 Apr 10
dpk friend are you wishing for me? I'm just curious about it as I have seen a newly -wed couple a while ago and I came up with this topic.But friend, if I'm going to get marry, I will surely of course share my experience being a bride of my groomlol..Thank you friend,Have a nice day ahead!
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@cloud31 (5809)
20 Apr 10
Thank you friend, of course I will share how would it be felt to be a bride.lol.. Ah yah my 1000 mark I noticed just after a fellow myLotters congratulate me too. Thank you friend.Good day!
@dpk262006 (58720)
• Delhi, India
16 Apr 10
Cloud hello! Taste of pudding is in the eating, this is all I can say. When you will get married and would be in the role of a bride, you will automatically understand,what kind of special feelings and emotions keep traveling in one's mind. All types of emotions ranging from nervousness to scary keep coming in one's mind, on the marriage day. All the best to you and when you get married, please remember this discussion and share your experiences with us.
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Hi cloudie! I'm not yet a married guy but I already have a girlfriend right now. If we are going to be married in a few months, I would really be very excited because I love her to the fullest. I really love my girlfriend and I'm very faithful and loyal to her. Actually even at this moment thinking of our wedding, I'm already shedding tears. I'm having tears of joy. That will be the happiest, greatest and the most special moment in my life, the day that I will marry the most important person in my life. As of now, I know that I have the best girl in the world, and that's my girlfriend. If we can really push our relationship to marriage, I will be the happiest and luckiest guy in the world. She is really my dream girl and nothing can really stop me for loving her. For me, I am not afraid to give up my single life, I am very willing and excited to welcome and embrace the married life with her. What I am feeling is an overwhelming excitement, even at this moment, I'm already very happy. And I am thanking God for He will let it happen. He already gave me the greatest blessing that I have ever had in my life, that was started when I have known my girlfriend. If we will be married, we will make sure that God will remain the center of our relationship. We will promise that we will live together forever. Well, you have a very nice topic IJ! Have a nice day and congratulations in advance to your future husband. Lol! God bless you IJ! Take care of yourself always. Happy myLotting!
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@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
16 Apr 10
Hi miss cloud! i don't know what is gonna be the feeling but I think it will be excited to be a groom of the one I love... Have a nice day and Happy Mylotting!!
@cloud31 (5809)
16 Apr 10
Hello sky! Well I think it will exciting anyhow! To be in togetherness with the one we love is such a very moment of our lives. Thank you for sharing and Happy myLotting!
@pandaeyes (2065)
16 Apr 10
For me it was quite an exciting feeling but also a relief to be finally getting it over with. We didn't do walking down the aisle as our wedding was a different kind where we were all already in the meeting house but the feeling was still quite tense as we hoped all would go well and it did.
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@cloud31 (5809)
16 Apr 10
Hi pandaeyes, That's nice,the excitement being a bride was still there and I guess it made you tensed a bit lol. Thank you for sharing and Good day ahead!
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• Philippines
15 May 10
Oh no! I really don't know why I am in this discussion. Okay I will just share my friend's experiences. Late last year a dear friend of mine got married her ultimate crush since college. When her husband proposed, according to her since then can't have a complete hours of sleep. She was very inlove. There were wedding jitters too. She felt her husband do not deserve her and she had an idea to back out. We just managed to explain everything to her. According to her, it was a mixture of happiness and fear. But it was the most happiest part of her life.
• Philippines
17 May 10
Actually Annavi23, he is our ultimate crush and my friend was so lucky to have him. . Anyway, I already moved on from the feelings, but I got jealous a little during the wedding ceremony. I cried because I am happy with my friend.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
15 May 10
hi grecy, your friend must be in the unbelievable stage of her life that time. and i think if i'm in her position i'd also have the same feeling... well,it's really hard to believe that your long time crush will be married to you at any minute,and share your whole life ahead together. feels really exciting and at the same time fear of other things like we may not last long or he'll be soon tired of me. well, it's always a part of everyone to be happy and worry at some things at the same time. but it really feels exciting to be married to your ultimate crush,right? how i wish i could be the same as your friend...
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 May 10
When my husband and I were getting married, I think the most nervous thing was the day before, when we practiced (this was mine and hubby's second practice but the first and only practice for everyone else) and then just standing up there. I know I was nervous, and I know my husband was as well. Other then that, everything else went smoother. We just had fun after the wedding, during the reception. Getting prepared for the wedding, we were a little nervous but after it was all over, we were happy, excited, and married lol.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
16 Apr 10
As far as I am concerned, I think it will be the happiest moment for being a bride or groom in the world. I think there is nothing can stop him happy. For me, I have not got married yet. I just can guess the happiness from those who have got married in the reality life. From the expression that they give us, I think they are so happy to be a bride or a groom in the life. For me, I think I hope I can be a groom sooon in my life.
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
I dont exactly remember how it felt when I was a bride. During my wedding day, I felt like it was just ordinary day but something special is gonna happen. I dont know why I cant remember the feeling but I was sure of one thing, I was thinking about so many things.
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@tilldawn (64)
16 Apr 10
Are you serious? you will get marry soon? How could it be? Anyway if you will get marry don't forget me will you promise me? If you will be happy then I will be happy for you too.But I don't believe this.All the best!
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• Philippines
16 Apr 10
Actually, there were a lot of stress I and my husband went through, until the very last day before our wedding. Not for the wedding receptions or other wedding preparations, because we didn't have those, it was a very simple civil wedding, but because of the problems with our papers the city hall had bugged us. Yet, it was very relieving when finally we got over the papers few hours before the wedding. So I didn't have the chance to feel excitements at all, as all our energies were consumed by the all the stress. However I still felt that joy to be finally legally united with the best man of my life. No typical feelings before wedding itself, but the happiness I felt was more than anything else in this world, and that happiness is lingering on, long lasting.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
15 May 10
hi cloud, how about you? what do you think you're emotion will be at this time? well, i have this long time crush back in high school days but seems like til now,eversince we've met,he really don't have feelings for me. yeah,i don't like the saying that [b]"who you love don't love you,and you don't love the one who loves you" [/b] life is just so unfair! you can't always get what you want... but i'm hoping i could meet the love of my life who'll stay with me and accept me for who and what i am and understand me,treat me like a princess and do stuffs with me the rest of our lives. i guess i'll be the happiest person in the world when i get to marry him...
@sweet_pea (3323)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
Before the wedding, I said to myself I am not going to cry just like what other brides do on their wedding day. I really am curious why they do that. Well, I found the answers when I became the bride. When I was doing the march down the aisle, I was overwhelmed by what I saw. All my friends were there and where all looking at me; my groom was waiting for me at the end of the aisle. The music was great and the venue was beautifully decorated. I was just so happy at that moment that I just cried.
@cream97 (29088)
• United States
17 Apr 10
I was very nervous and excited on this day. I was very happy inside of my heart. And I wanted to cry when my husband had put his ring on my fingers. I was so emotional. I could feel my face grow hot and red. This was a very special day that I will never forget. And, I was so happy to know that I was going to be with my husband. And we was going to be forever in love with each other.
@celticeagle (142248)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Apr 10
I recall my first marriage and how excited I was. I barrowed my girlfriend's pantsuit that looked so nice. I was so happy and inlove. The judge was very nice and all went well. Ended up spending my first night married alone while he was down in the casino playing poker.
@indahfth (11163)
• Indonesia
17 Apr 10
when it became a bride, I was so happy. other than pleasure, I also feel very anxious. I worried whether I could make a good wife. but the time of marriage, I am very happy. when the wedding vows, I was very touched that shed tears. can be said, when a bride feeling happy, sad, scared, tired mixed into one.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
17 Apr 10
oh this is a good question, can't wait to read responses.
@guburcuk (12)
• Turkey
17 Apr 10
hi..I don't know the feeling being bride but it must be nice feeling.I have lots of dream about being bride but the most important one in my mind is to be happy..I hope..
@mjanakha (479)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Apr 10
Excited, Nervous all will be I thought till the time of marriage. But as soon as the marriage ceremony began everything was in hurry. I did not get time to think or excite or for some other nice feelings. We were left alone at late midnight. When I I just rewind the whole day Oh God It was really a very tiresome day. Dreaming is good but practical is very hard.