Do you think the simplest gestures are the one's that are most appreciated?

I could see where this could be the case. I know I certainly appreciate it when I have my hands full and someone holds the door open for me, and I try to do these sorts of things for people when the opportunities to do so present themselves...

you are right. simple but means so deep and very helpful to others. They deserve to called a hero.

Perhaps it is those with the least that take notice and appreciate most, the smallest of kind gestures. Those who live a simple life. Perhaps to those who have everything and then some it would be meaningless because they already have so much and are absorbed with material things. If that makes sense. I am always smiling and greeting passersby. I find it is the frail elderly that appreciate a smile more than the middle aged or younger. Often I will help elderly in the grocery store. When they thank you, you can tell when you look into their eyes that they appreciate your help that otherwise no one would pay any bother. Children are often ones who do appreciate small kind gestures, such as a fresh picked flower, a push on a swing or even a puppy who stops for their pat. Children are so precious in this regard. I think for all of those with love and kindness in their hearts, no matter how well off they are, no matter how into material things that they may be, they are ones who can also appreciate a small kind gesture as well.

I absolutely agree with that! We do overlook many acts of kindness and magnanimity by people in our every day life.In our own home our family members do so many little things towards each other , automatically and without expecting anything back , it is the same with friends and even neighbors who are close to us...

Hi megamart: I agree with you. In fact these acts made by good souls make life better even if they don't received any public admiration for doing these things. I thank God for putting around me people that has helped me and also that have given me good advices, their help and presence. Thanks for sharin with us you appreciation about this subject. ALVARO.

Yes I agree with you on this. Usually those grand acts were only meant for publicity. Motives would always be put to question. But those simple and random acts of generosity is more spontaneous. Spontaneity for me is the platform of a sincere kindness.

Hi megamatt, I believe ‘Simple is always powerful’. ‘A simple language is a powerful language’. Similarly simple actions or helps is always great thing. Helping an old person for crossing the busy street is a simple act but it is a great help for the old person. In other words, if we do that kinds of gestures we never feel that we did a great thing but from the other person’s point of view it an appreciable act.

My experience is that the simplest gestures are the ones most appreciated, until someone comes along, and spends alot of money. Then that person is the kindest person they've ever met.

Hiya MM, Probably not at all. I often let People go in front of me in the Shops when they only have a couple of things to buy and there is a great big long queue. More often than not they will not say thank you or anything they just go in front and don´t return a gesture or anything. However I don´t let it affect me if it was my idea to let them go in front I don´t expect any thanks for it as I know they do not show their appreciation. Just lately I don´t do this even as People that are in the queue protest and I am really not in the mood to argue with anyone. Also have been helping a lot round here without a word of thanks from anyone things that you put up with I´m afraid at least sometimes although I do get to get fed up of helping out and no appreciation shown at all.xxx

Hi, Acttually,I'm often vibrated by the help afforded by strangers and unknow passers-by,even what they did are simple and easy as holding the door and step aside to let u go through as u refer. There are probably 2 reasons for me to be moved by those tiny actions from them. One is they are totally strangers for me,and it's also very sweet for them to be so thoughtful and deliberate on only pedestrians to them. The other is,those unsung heroes donnt request and rewards from u ,they will disappear from ur sight after u reward him/her a smile ,the whole process is so simple ,short ,so beautiful likewise

yup, i really appreciate little acts of kindness especially when you feel the sincerity and that these come from the heart. this goes for strangers and relatives/friends alike. i appreciate more those acts coming from strangers though, because you dont know each other and yet they do simple things for you or be generous and courteous. i love it too when my husband does little things to me, like protecting my head from low ceilings or from edges where i can bump into it. i also like it when i catch him staring at me and patting my head when i'm sleeping.

yes,simple gestures really do makes sense.and its very useful same as being appreciated.what can we do without people like them?it makes our things more easily. its like handing a helping hand indeed! that makes us feel better in a way! i hope many people would have that iniatiative to help others in just a simple way they can!

most of the time,i really appreciate simple and normal actions rather than those trying hard moves.

Sparing someone's life is the most appreciated above any other.

I think the small things go the longest way and most appreciated and means the most. I love the small gestures people do for me and I do alot of small things for people because i think they mean a lot to someone. I make it a point to open doors for people and let people on the highway when others don't. I know it may not mean much but I appreciate when people do it for me.

Well, many times the simple gestures are sometimes the ones that are taken for granted to where many might not even take the time to Thank others, but I know for most is the most appreciated thing someone can do. Especially when someone has their hands full needing to grab a door, or asking you if you need help and help carry some of the stuff for you. Sometimes they do not even ask, they just say let me help, or I will get that for you.

I think they can be the ones most appreciated. I know that there have been times in my life when just a smile from a stranger has give me a lift. I have also remembered people's faces that have done a simple kindness like open a door or helped me with something I've dropped. I have even thought of them from time to time. Not in a long drawn out memory manner but their face might pop in my head for a moment. It is also amazing when you think of the impact a simple kindness can have on someone else. It is beyond understanding sometimes how we might be remembered for something we never think of again. Perhaps a person has given up on others and then poof..there you are with a smile and greeting...or help them by holding the door. Maybe it gives them a fresh outlook or a renewed attitude towards others. Great discussion!

Simple gestures are appreciated by almost everyone. It is wonderful to meet people that keep that in mind nd smile and say "please" andd "thank you". Sometimes it is just a younster that picks up a paper for you, sometimes is someone who lets you pass if you have trouble walking.

Yes! I definitely agree with that!

nice point raised here, we always give credit to those who we feel that he is helping us.but in that we always forgrt the small small help which we grt in our daily life.when old lady is carrying a heavy thing and somebody help her that is big help for that lady.but people dont see this small thingz people just see what can get them parise between group of people. i love to do this kind of small deeds and i feel happy by doing so.