A question about money
By SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
United States
May 12, 2010 1:31pm CST
[b]This is a question you may need to read very carefully to understand what I mean.
I will try to make it as clear as possible, but the question is a little odd and
a little difficult to ask as I am trying to make it as clear as possible so as to
not make it seem like a repeat which as far as I know it is NOT[/b]
In any case, here goes :
As a shopper, and with the state of the economy worldwide, have you found that your impulse shopping as increased or decreased? That is to say, whilst out do you still buy that candy bar or purse that you really don't need, or are you more strict on yourself? With kids or just your husband, do you say no more or are you more likely to give them what they want just because you don't know if their next birthday or next big holiday you will even have the money to buy them something?
My husband and I don't really impulse buy. We think about our purchases, though there are some occasions we could not purchase things. Right now we are doing good with the little bills we have, and we are working together to try to make as much money as possible. He works out of the home while I am here on the computer trying to earn a few bucks to put in the account.
So do you impulse buy more or less now?
Explain Why.
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16 responses
@oldchem1 (8132)
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12 May 10
Hi there
At the moment money is really too tight to do any impulse buying!!
My husband and I are both retired but have a 14 year old son, so any spare money is eaten up by the things that he deeds for school and his sports.
But I am not complaining because I know that I am better off than so many other people and I have my lovely family.
I would just like a couple of weeks were I COULD impulse buy!!!
My husband and I are both retired but have a 14 year old son, so any spare money is eaten up by the things that he deeds for school and his sports.
But I am not complaining because I know that I am better off than so many other people and I have my lovely family.
I would just like a couple of weeks were I COULD impulse buy!!!
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
I know that stuff for school can be a little bit of an expense, not because we have children of our own but because it's not been too terribly long since I was in school.
Have you considered sites where you can get gift cards? You could do these sites and get a few gift cards to spend on yourself and use some on your son and husband, and it'd definitely help for holidays and birthdays.
@peavey (16936)
• United States
12 May 10
I've always been somewhat of a tightwad and haven't done much impulse shopping, but lately I've been reining in the little that I usually do. Not so much because of the economy but because I want to retire from my job and need to beef up my savings as much as possible.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
Maybe you could find some things to do online so you don't have to worry about going out to work and just relax. Any plans to travel?
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
That is understood. You say "retire from my job" so I assume you'll be seeking another job but are anticipating a long wait for new employment, a serious decrease in expected income. Well Good Luck with whatever you do, I hope you can "beef up" the savings. 


@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 May 10
I don't impulse buy much, because other than groceries, I don't go shopping much. That hasn't really changed in the last several years. If there is any impulse shopping, it is usually for the kids. But it's not out of control...
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
Wally World is where we shop for most of our groceries, that's also where a lot of the impulse buys take place, if not there then one of the game stores we have. I don't go shopping too terribly much either though, and when I do it's usually with someone or spending someone else's money.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 May 10
Dang, you know people who let you spend their money? 

@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
12 May 10
I know when I can afford to impulse buy and when i can't. I have my granddaughter with me now and we have to be frugle so any impulse buying has pretty much gone by the wayside for the time being. I am told I am pretty good at finances so I am not too worried. It can be a headache sometimes. Fun to impulse buy occasionally.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
I'm glad you've got a good grasp on your finances and know when you can or can't afford that something extra. It is fun to impulse buy occasionally, I love bringing home the impulse buy and making use of it, whatever it is... Especially if its' a yummy food we've not had in awhile.
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@celticeagle (189833)
• Boise, Idaho
12 May 10
Not always perfect in the finance department. Those yummy food bring homes are great aren't they?
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
12 May 10
No I am not an impulse buyer. Having said that when I was in the USA a year last February I bought as much as I could purchase. The prices were amazing as the recession had hit. I bought several US$80 dollar dresses for between US$10 and US$ 15 dollars. I also bought all my Christmas gifts for the following Christmas. It was amazing and we had such fun shopping. But that is the only time. I am a frugal person - if you are in farming out here, then it was either feast or famine - depending on the weather. A hurricane could and did wipe us out many times. so I was used to pinching.
Again, I love to travel and have been saving so hard from before Christmas togo to Rome in Italy. My sister bought me a ticket to go to the U.K. in June and then us three old ladies plus my daughter will be toddling off to Rome.
Funds permitting my daughter and I want to go to Paris, France for a day by the train that goes under the English Channel. She has never been so we can see some sights - her choice- whilst we are there. As she is getting married next year this kind of trip will not take place again. I love travelling with her as she is so funny and she doesn't gripe if things go wrong like a flight being delayed. So I am looking forward to this. I will not be shopping!! Blessings!
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
You have lived in different countries over the years haven't you? I don't think I could A) Move anywhere out of State or B) be able to adjust as well as it seems you have. Being a Penny Pincher isn't as bad as it seems, though I've never been one myself. I know someone who is and we constantly tease him but if the economy were to plummet any further then it already has, I think he'd definitely be in a better situation then us.
I don't think I could travel like that, only through the internet do I "travel" and meet such interesting people. I have seen video of Rome a few years ago. Back in school I had a teacher who went to Rome and the sights I saw were beautiful so I am sure you will enjoy the many different sights, and of course Paris the capital of love, or something like that. I couldn't imagine traveling under the English Channel that would frighten me, atleast until I got on the train and realized it wasn't as bad as it seemed. You will be taking lots of pictures for us all to see won't you?
I know you said you won't be shopping but I hope you can pick up a few trinquets atleast.
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
12 May 10
I was born and grew up in the U.K. but moved to this Island when I married my husband in my early twenties. I have been here for 40 years now so this is really my home. I love to go 'home' though and am close to my two elder sisters. Yes, I do love to travel and would prefer to not buy clothes and find the money to buy a ticket to somewhere. After my daughter's wedding then I will save like crazy to go to Jerusalem. That would cost a lot of money so if I am living then it would take some years for me to do. I would love to walk where Jesus walked.
MY husband went here before we married. He also liked to travel. I have been on the Eurostar before under the channel and it a wonderful experience. You end up in the middle of Paris. I do hope that we can do this last 'girl's trip' together. Well, any shopping that I may be tempted to use my credit card on would probably be gifts for Christmas! I would buy something to bring home to my grandchildren. The twins will be here shortly after IO return to J.A. so I will have them for the summer and this is wonderful. They will be 4 years old on June 3rd but they say that they want to have their birthday party in Jamaica at my house. I am so blessed.
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
12 May 10
First let me say this is a excellent thing to discuss. I persoanlly see me spending less when it comes to impluse buys. Now do I still do this? Yes I do but I really try to do this less often. I am on a tight budget when it comes to food and drinks and I realize that I can save a lot more money if I eat at home and eat less premade foods. This month I have not bought any freeze quick meals like I normally do and I must say I have a lot left at this point in the month than I noramlly do. Now if I was working outside the home, I feel my impluse buying would be higher. If you are running around and time is a problem picking something up that is quick to eat is a lot easier but not healthy choice either. Nice topic like I said thanks for starting it.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
I am interested to see what everyone has to say on this particular topic. I figured we could help each other out on it as well. We don't really purchase freezer style dinners here that much, only thing is is pizza bites, pot pies and frozen pizza. We still manage to run up a grocery bill with all the water, sometimes soda, and other things needed for the house. Luckily, my husband and I don't have to pay for any of this, we might pick up the occasional thing, but most often we're paid back for it.
We're in a kind of situation where we have more bills but his income his sufficient enough to pay for them. We don't do any extra or impulse shopping though either, so I guess you could say we're in the middle. We don't earn all that much but it's sufficient, but we also don't impulse buy either. I figure it's a good habit to stick to, so even when we do have enough, hopefully we won't be tempted to grab up every little thing we don't need.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
Sorry I realized I got off topic a little bit, We eat out a few times a week, or if it's not really eating out it's picking something up. Atleast once a week we pick up something from a small time diner.
Things are definitely healthier if it's homemade or atleast not fast food, and fast food can get you to especially if your dining in, sometimes we order more, something that we don't need monetarily or measured in health either.
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
13 May 10
I've never been much of an impulse buyer anyway. Probably my worse impulse habit is Dunkin Donuts iced coffees. I keep saying that I am going to just stop buying them and stick to making my coffee at home. It's not working. I make coffee at home and still buy dunkins. It really adds up.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
15 May 10
Restauraunts will catch you like that, they make something delicious and it becomes a habit hard to break.
@rajaiv0810 (1012)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I think money is really tight to almost each and every household that I know. I don't buy in an impulse now and I'm always reminding my husband as well. I still do reward myself of some nice and a "little bit extra" on the budget things but these were taken into account first before buying. We could not afford an immediate vacation or big purchases without having it saved on ahead of time.
It is very important now that we spend wisely and to be able to save more for emergency cases or for even more difficult situations.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
13 May 10
I think it is important for everyone to save as much as they can as early as they can in life. You never know with these tough economical times if you will have a job tomorrow, or if you'll be able to afford such simple things as bread and milk. It's always good to have a backup plan as well, but life would not be fun without a little bit of impulse shopping. I agree though, even with an impulse buy it's better to have a good grasp on your budget and finances before going for something not necessarily needed.
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
13 May 10
I never have been an impulsive buyer. Could never afford that luxury. Still can't. But I would say many are paying a litte more attention to this kind of thing and controling it. That dollar will only go so far, and just cause you still have checks in your checkbook, doesn't mean you have money in the account! I think many are thinking this way, now that they might not have credit cards to depend on anymore. I think many are watching how they spend..although there are just as many, like me, that have been living this way for our lives...so they aren't telling us anything we don't already know. I do get tired of hearing how great people are doing at tightening the purse strings so well lately, when that has beena way of life to so many...and no one said a word or gave a care.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
18 May 10
I actually thought about that at one point, I mean the fact that no one cared until the economy got like this. Though to be honest I can't say much myself, I was taught to be frugal, but can't say I ever really was until after the economy went downhill.
Now though, after the economy is back on track (if it ever is) I hope that everyone will begin to be more frugal, to tighten the purse strings like you said.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
13 May 10
Hey Cowgirl! I have a problem sometimes with impulse buying
to be honest! When I am upset or depressed or bored I do
sometimes go online and buy something that I really don't need!
But, I also have been doing better with paying my bills. I have
paid one credit card off in full this month leaving me with
only one credit card to use and keep track of! I am trying to
not let myself "impulse buy" anything right now so I can continue
to pay the other card down a bit more. And, I am also trying
to make some money online too as I am also home all day!
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
13 May 10
I know what you mean about buying things because of being upset or depressed or even bored, even stressed and tired too. I am so glad you've paid off one credit card and are working on paying down on another. I am home all day as well as I don't have a job so I am trying to earn a lot, especially here on mylot since my mylot folder for here is so full.
I hope you'll be able to buy a few things on impulse very soon, as It is fun if done right. I at one time really messed up my credit by not paying my bill after getting mad at a bank branch because of the way a employee treated me.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 May 10
I have done some impulse buying before but for the most part my purchases are thought out. I haven't really bought more or less but I have become more thoughtful about the money I do spend. I often ask myself if it is something I really need.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
15 May 10
I actually think that asking that one simple question can go along way. You start to think twice about it and then with everytime you ask yourself that you start to think "wow, I really have been buying things not neccesarily needed at this time." My husband and I don't impulse buy but there are times I really wish I could buy on inpulse, as it does have it's relaxing benefits.
@candyfairy21 (2039)
• Philippines
13 May 10
Sadly I still impulse buy something I have never been able to do away with but trying to cut down. But I have made some progress though but not that remarkable. What I spend most about are pet care and makeup and clothes and shoes since I have no kids. These are things I can hardly not buy.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
13 May 10
Before I met my husband my impulse buy was food. Not that I was fat, I think I worked too much to really gain any considerable amount of weight. I would buy food out at a restauraunt instead of making any kind of thing to eat. That and clothes were an impulse buy for me. Now with my husband, our impulse buys are something for the video game systems we have.
@lifedoesntimitate (128)
• United States
12 May 10
I've always been very anxious about money, even when the economy was not in the state it's in now. Given that, I never really did a ton of impulse buying, so I guess it's still about the same.
The problem I'm having right now is that my wife's birthday is coming up, and the best thing I was able to think to get for her cost about a hundred dollars. Do we really have that hundred dollars to spend? Not really. But it's her birthday, and I want her to love the gift, so this is what happens. Things like that will often happen. Not so much impulse buys, but big purchases that we feel strongly about making. Like that plane ticket for her to see her family this summer. Or fixing the car, despite the fact that it'll cost a lot.
So, I guess, it's not really that different, all in all. We just feel worse about the decisions we feel we have to make.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
When I made this discussion I didn't actually consider decisions like that, but those re just as tough as an impulse buy. There's a lot to consider in gift giving. It's like this, I could buy a present for my husband that is cheaper, but will he use it? Would I have not wasted our money by buying it even though it was cheaper? Going with the more expensive thing might put you in a bind or make you cringe a little, but all in all I think your right, the more costly item is better then the cheaper one. It terms of it being used, and in terms of it being loved. Another thing thrown in is "What will he think if I buy this cheaper thing and he doesn't love it?"
@lifedoesntimitate (128)
• United States
14 May 10
It's possible that I misspoke a little bit. I don't think that a gift is nicer or less nice, more loved or less loved, based on the price. It's just that, in this case, the thing that I thought of to get her happens to cost quite a bit.
I don't say this just to be contrary. I completely understand that some people include monetary value when considering a gift's worth. My wife, for instance, doesn't feel right about not spending approximately the same amount on, say, both of her parents for Christmas. I, however, try to think about how much the person will enjoy the item, and base the purchase more on that. For instance, if I have two children, and one would love, say, a thirty dollar movie and the other would love just as much, say, a fifty dollar toy, then that's what I'll get if I can afford it. I'll do that, rather than search and search to make sure I get gifts that are the same price.
Sorry for the tangent; I just wanted to clarify. :)
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
13 May 10
I'm not the one doing the shopping at home, It's my mom. She's really keen on spending less..
I've learned from a lecture months ago that the Chinese are good businessmen because they have the traits of delayed compensation, it's somewhat called like that, I couldn't remember exactly how it was called. They don't do the things other businessmen do, like when non-Chinese have a small income, they start to spend lavishly. While Chinese businessmen tend to spend most on important things other than lavish things. I've seen Chinese here who have good business but they can be seen as like ordinary people wearing simple clothes... I think I explained it right,
@Combiflame (182)
• India
12 May 10
Well, what are you trying to say? I could not even understand a single word from your question?
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 May 10
I am asking if you spend more or less on impulse buys now that the world's economy has taken a plummet.













