Have you ever observed friends behaviour

@jugsjugs (13038)
May 30, 2010 7:56pm CST
Well i have.Some people act alot different aswell as say things different infront of other people aswell as when they are with their children.A friend of mine seems alot different when there are the children around the same as when there are other people around.When you go into a bar and people do not know you it seems like it go quiet and then people start to get loud again.
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21 responses
31 May 10
no, i haven't personally but people act differently towards different people. i act completely different from when i'm with my friends to when i'm with my family and when you meet new people thats a completely different story.. people either act crazy and pretend to be someone they're not or go shy meeting someone for the first time.
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• India
31 May 10
I always usually observe the human behavior around me even from my childhood and i also believe that human behavior aways affects the people mentality surrounding him or the most important thing a child behavior as they are in process of learning some things in life
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@cloud31 (5810)
31 May 10
My friend is not an act anyway its a kind behavior I guess I used to hang out with this friend with another friend who doesn't know her and she talks another things which different from what she told me. I noticed that when a new person comes her way she invent different story.Annoying anyway, but that's her way i cannot changed her. Your friend is better than my friend at least no lies.between people to another.lol Good day jugs!
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• India
31 May 10
Yes I agree with you. I observed friends behaviour
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@celticeagle (125417)
• Boise, Idaho
31 May 10
You feel as if you are on display but that really isn't the case. People may even look at you but only because you are checking them out as well. It just seems to go quiet. It is because you feel ill at ease. It may help if you don't look at anyone and look straight ahead of fix your eyes on some material object. Or even yet, talk to one another as you enter and look at your companions.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
31 May 10
I do like observing ple's behaviour, regardless of strangers or my friends.. haha =D There are always two sides to human, and it all depends on whom we are facing, and thus explained different actions.. hehe ^_^ For we cant be expected to use words, meant for adults, on children right?? Young children are more vulernable, and more sensitive, as such, we have to appear much more friendly to them.. haha =D
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• Philippines
31 May 10
In order to easily get along with people, you must act according to their level, your action is really different if you are around with the children compare to situation if you are around with the people that is professionals or business people.
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@cerebellum (3869)
• United States
31 May 10
Yes a lot of people act different according to who is around. I can see being a little different when the children are around. You wouldn't want to talk about certain things or say certain things. I guess it makes sense too if they are talking to someone they don't know very well. They would try to make a good impression! Whereas with someone they know quite well, they wouldn't have to worry about an impression.
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• Canada
31 May 10
There are acouple of guys around here who act totally different when they are around their creepy friends, up on the porch drinking.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 10
i guess i've been doing it all the time..i'm a psychology graduate and i can't help but observe everyone else as well as my friends..i just can't help but analyze every step people make and why they are doing it..i tend to be doubtful sometimes..and whenever it happens i always seek to find the truth and get myself some answers..
@ifa225 (11092)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 10
i always been attracted with psychology. my dream is having lecture in that faculty, but unfortunately i didn't have that chance. i like observing people, you are so lucky that you get t his opportunity
@ifa225 (11092)
• Indonesia
27 Dec 10
i had too...wondering why seh did that and what are the reason behind her decision. i feel like i am guessing. maybe that is normal to do since we try to understand everything that we met
@doormouse (4619)
1 Jun 10
i think i'm the same no matter who i'm with,but i do know people who act different in certain situations,i never pretend to be someone i'm not,but i do know how to act when put in certain places
@coffeegurl (1467)
• United States
1 Jun 10
I guess it's because they are trying to be the role model or great parent and provide an example of their best behavior to their offspring.
@dorannmwin (36633)
• United States
1 Jun 10
I have observed people time and time again that behave differently around different people. The best example of this that I can think of is the leader of the original playgroup that I became a member of when Paul was a baby. She acts like she is everyone's best friend when she is around them. However, when she isn't around certain people she will talk about them like they are trash. She took it upon herself to bash one of my best friends in front of me and since that time I've had no interest at all in being around her, (the leader of the group, not my friend, we get together all the time.)
• China
31 May 10
Yes i have observed it. My 1 or 2 friends do like that. They behave in different in different time and situation. I don't like such a friend. If i found such a matter with any of my friend then before decide anything i ask them why they did this. If they did without reason or do it again and again then i say bye bye to them.
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
31 May 10
Yes, I have noticed people act different around children. I have noticed they also act different around other people. I strife to act the same at all times. I try to practice what I preach, and be the same at all times.
• Philippines
31 May 10
I believe that is natural with people. Like me, i am not so nice when I am at home. When it comes to my siblings I more authoritative even to my older sister. While when I am outside I am more on a follower and nice lady. I am not saying I am bad at home, but I believe I am more stricter when it comes to commanding my younger brother and he must follow my older. To different people or to stranger I am snob, but with my friends I am their clown and I always laugh. WE can be on our real self at home. AT work we seem to less complain,but at home we complain a lot. It is depend on the situation and to the people we are being with.
@thanks1961 (7036)
• India
31 May 10
All people are different in nature. Your multi-character is the example for it. Whenever you are with children, you will most likely to be a good frined with them. While you are in your office, with boss, you cannot be like that and more serios on duty. Also, you will you will not react much open with unkonw poeple where you are not familier with them or it is not the place to reveal your identity. So, as being with same nature, different behaviour is a pre requisite for a human being so as best to deal with different kind of people. Your subject is so nice. Thank-s
• Philippines
31 May 10
Hehe. Of course people have to set good examples for the young ones so that's why I think they act different on front of their children.
@kirthy (384)
• India
31 May 10
hi, this kind of person are not friends. they are live actors. better you just leave them.select good friends, good behaviors, live good life.