can u trust baby sitters and nannies?

I work at home so I don't have that problem but i probably wouldn't trust them

no how can u trust your kid to a stranger.

I think i can trus baby sitters..

Check them out, all thier references. Or, stay at home and work.

This is exactly why i wanted to be a stay at home mom. Who CAN you trust? My daughter is in daycare part the day so thee is some comfort in knowing they are government regulated and inspected, etc. I have had on a rare occassion a friend's daughter watch my daughter for 2 hours or less - this was when she was an infant and she only slept the whole time. The one time I went out for a job interview that lasted forever I had a firend watching my daughter (maybe 15 months old) and when my husband went to pick her up my daughter was playing on her kitchen floor without any clothes on!!!! Her excuse - oh she just got away from me when I went to change her diaper! Yeah right - needless to say I have no social life becuase my daughter is mostly in my or my husbands care.

I dont trust any of them

It is very hard to trust baby sitters and nannies they could fake there references. The best option to me is if you can afford to stay at home with your child until they are school age. God Bless

i used to trust my babysitter but now i'm getting doubts! and i don't know what to do because unless my husband gets a really good paying job then i can stay at home..but other than that we need the money!

I think I could if it was a very close friend

you should never trust them, unless they are single and live with you and are above 40

dont take the risk with the little life

ask your mom the same question and u'll get the answers for urself

no, never , not in the world we live in . never trust anyone with the baby

I trust very few people with my kids. So I don't work I say home with my kids.

I wouldn't trust anyone I didn't know to look after my kids. I think, if you really HAVE to be away from your kids, a family memeber or very close friend if possible would be the best. Other than that, I would say check anyone out and be very careful. I know so many people who are supposedly caring for children but I have seen how bad they are despite convincing people to give them good references, etc. Of course, that's not the case with all of them but just be very wary.