butterpecan

@butterpecan (688)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 20 years ago

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How old should a girl before she starts wearing make-up?

Freddy63 @Freddy63 (15) • Indonesia 9 Oct 09

i sister is 4 and is preschool. she came home yesterday and said one of the other kids called her ugly. i have always known she isn't the prettiest girl in the world. but i want to help her self-esteem. i was thinking she could...

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butterpecan I feel that she is to young to wear make up. Age 14 would be great but no sooner than that. Looking at magazines and television of all this camera lighting phony made up people is making normal reality a mess. I feel be yourself regardless. I am 28 years old...

11 Oct 09

Do you always get stuck being the designated driver?

maezee @maezee (41911) • United States 29 Mar 09

Do you always get stuck being the designated driver? When you go out (drinking) with friends, do you make sure that ONE of you will be the designated driver, or do you make sure to take a cab or walk? How do you plan these kinds...

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butterpecan I have amazing fun around drunk people that are so so crazy. Might I add i am old enough to drink, but I don't drink so yes I am always the driver, but I'm cool with that. I am always the one in the group that keeps my friends out of jail lol mostly every time...

30 Mar 09

Do you bite your nails?

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 30 Mar 09

Are you one of those people who have a bad habit of biting your nails? Do you ever try to quit biting your nails? I used to bite mine horribly, but then I started clipping them off whenever I had the urge to bite them, and a...

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butterpecan I love my nails and I get them done and all. I can't picture biting my nails, but i know a lot of people who bite there nails and there nails look like E.T. but that's fine if that's how they like them...........Great Day !!

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signs that your period is coming

oyenkai @oyenkai (4394) • Philippines 29 Mar 09

Do you have anything that tells you that your period is coming? When I was younger, I noticed that I suffered from diarrhea a day before I got my period. That stopped after a couple of years and now I know that I'd be getting my...

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butterpecan I know it is coming when my hooters begin to get a bit bigger and my head begins to hurt days before. I really don't get hungry and I don't have cramps, but my headaches and my hooters let's me know that the red cross is on it's way...........Great Day!!

30 Mar 09

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how many pen do have??

vanities @vanities (11395) • Davao, Philippines 29 Mar 09

Do you have a pen always with you when you're out? how many and what is your favorite color or brand of the pen...where do you usually put it? in the pocket of your trousers/polo or bag ? i always have a pen with me in my...

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favorite color

pens

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butterpecan I always have a pen with me. When I'm out I carry it in my hand bag and when I'm home they are everywhere from my living room and in my kitchen. It is amazing at how you can have so many pens and not be aware of it.........Great Day!

30 Mar 09

Oatmeal or Cereals for breakfast? what do you prefer?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 29 Mar 09

Since I grow up eating rice 3 times a day I don't like to eat cereals neither oatmeal for breakfast. But when I came here in US, I am trying my best to eat whatever is available in our pantry and that is cereals and oatmeal or...

breakfaxdt

cereal

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butterpecan I would prefer to eat a bowl of cereal but mostly what I eat is fruit or maybe toast and orange juice. I am aware of the fact that breakfast is suppose to be the biggest meal of the day but its usually my smallest.......Great Day!

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when is the right time to say i do?

aileen18 @aileen18 (170) • Philippines 29 Mar 09

for me, first..if you knew the person very well and you love each other and no matter how many obstacles that will come in your way, you'll still love each other. second is if your both financially stable. hehe..what's yours?

i do

love

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butterpecan I feel that when you both love each other for each other, know one another and yes yes yes have your money in order. No you don't have to be completely stable, but it is best to have money saved for a rainy day or even a sunny day in this economy, Never say I...

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do you take vitamins and how many do you take

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 29 Mar 09

some people seem to be getting upsessed. i saw one woman on tv who was taking 60 pills a day. i think if your eating right you don't need any or one multi vitimin is good.

vitamins

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butterpecan I try hard to eat right. I hate any type pills so taking vitamins for me would be a hazard cause even when I have a head ache most times I allow it to go away on it's own if I can handle the pain. I am a no pills taking type of person I hate them so to answer...

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Answers based on emotion or research

Anora_Eldorath @Anora_Eldorath (6028) • United States 28 Mar 09

I've noticed a trend on certain topic areas or interests in Mylot since becoming a member. It seems certain topics are definately hot buttons for people and answered from their emotional side rather then from the side of research...

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butterpecan Hi there! I would have to say both depending on what the topic is about like right now I am responding to your discussion and all this is based upon my emotions, what I'm thinking or feeling because there really is nothing about this topic to do any research...

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Negative Feedback: How lenient are you?

nekonyanta @nekonyanta (892) • Philippines 28 Mar 09

Hi there. I know of sellers who give negative feedback to e-bayers who don't pay within a specified time or who don't contact them within a specified period, tagging these people as joybidders. Most often than not, these people...

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butterpecan I have sold a few items on ebay and I only gave negative feedback once, but I had to the item that I purchase was horrible the seller did not tell me all the flaws that it had. I was so so so upset and I patiently waited for my items to arrived cause she said...

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Have you cancelled your charged cable TV to reduce cost?

Zhu Huifen @zhuhuifen46 (3483) • China 28 Mar 09

People are creative in saving utility cost, including electricity, water, gas, etc. The charged cable TV is something taking into consideration. Have you cancelled it, or do you think worthwhile doing it?

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butterpecan I have reserved energy in my home to cut cost. I run less lights and television and more..... but I still have my cable and will keep it for the sake of my children they love television and so do I and I don't like just the basic channels so my cable is very...

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What do you think of guys who say: "Reading is for sissies..."

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 28 Mar 09

I find it really demeaning to hear that from other guys. I am a reader and I am proud of it. Reading gives me the edge over my colleagues because I can join in many conversations that most guys wouldn't be able to join. I also am...

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butterpecan Who ever say that reading is for sissies is a dummy. Reading is great and you are right you can join in on more conversations and you can also learn a lot and know a ton just by reading things constantly so if you like to read go ahead and keep reading I would...

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I need to be more careful!

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 28 Mar 09

Last night I laid on the Couch, slept there all night and forgot to lock my Kitchen door,anyone could of walked in, I have did that a few times luckily no one never tried to open my door, I just thought that was kind of scarey....

lock your door

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butterpecan I have done this sadly to say a plenty of times. I live in a very very good area and the people that are around me I know very well. I have left my door unlocked more then I can count. This is a very bad habit for me but I have done this to many times can God...

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have you ever used a product to whiten your teeth?

bookreadermom08 @bookreadermom08 (5614) • United States 23 Mar 09

If so what was the best one that you used... I use whitening tooth paste, I have used the gels... and I am considering the crest strips...but I havent had the best of luck with the stuff I have already used...not that my teeth are...

products to whiten teeth

whiten teeth

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butterpecan I have never used a product for my teeth because I don't have to. Not to brag but I have pearly whites naturally I don't drink coffee and I don't smoke. I have always loved to brush my teeth since I was a tiny tot and now I don't have a problem with my teeth...

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Can you sleep without a pillow?

lusirafa @lusirafa (944) 23 Mar 09

I'm staying at my moms house a few days ago, we have to share bedroom and pillow as my relatives also stays there. We give pillow to children so adults are sleeping without pillow. I was able to sleep that night, but the next...

pillow

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butterpecan I don't know the health risk of what it might be during to my body or the amount of rest that I get, but I do know there is no way I can sleep without a pillow. A pillow makes my sleep complete without a pillow I don't feel as comfy. I love my pillow can't...

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What kind of friend is that?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 23 Mar 09

If you have a friend, who always ask for your help, I meant help in financially. Everytime she borrowed money, she only returns half of it, or never return it. Although I understand that she has financial difficulties sometimes,...

friendship

money

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butterpecan Okay this is your best bet don't loan your friend money that you can't afford to give to her. If loaning your friend money makes you late on your own bills then you didn't have that money to loan in the first place. Since you know that she don't pay borrowed...

24 Mar 09

Do you always wake up in the middle of the night?

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 23 Mar 09

I do. I always sleep early and wake up in the middle of the night or in the wee hours. Whenever it happens, I can't get back to sleep. I use the time to read or sometimes to clean the house - mop the floor, fold and iron the...

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butterpecan I use to wake a lot in the middle of the night but now I don't I think it was because my children where younger and I was very protected of them but now at night I sleep like a baby.......Great Day!

24 Mar 09

Do you ever look back and wonder?

Margajoe @Margajoe (4751) • Germany 23 Mar 09

How did it come to this? All of a sudden I am looking after my partner. I am washing his cloths, doing the dishes, cleaning the house. And last time he was complaining that his shirt was not ironed. That is when I woke...

chores

neglection

role play in a relationship

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butterpecan I look back any time and wonder how did I get where I am, but not in a bad way I look in a good way. My husband was a dream come true to me I must admit. Yes we have our disagreements but overall he is truly been the man of my dreams and I still look at him...

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Stupid Commercials

onedaysoon @onedaysoon (651) • United States 14 Mar 09

Are there are stupid commercials that annoy you? There are these really dumb commercials by a company called Boost Mobile. One has a girl and a guy riding a 2 seater bike and the girl has armpit hair that is so long it is flying...

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butterpecan I love that commercial (boost mobile) I love to see crazy commercial when I would watch television I use to get up during a commercial but over the years commercials have become very entertaining for laughs........Great Day!

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Would you play golf naked?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 14 Mar 09

I don't play golf but I do have a glance over the sports pages in the papers. It was the first tee Friday at the World Golf Championships-CA Championship and this guy, Henrik Stenson, apparently managed to get his clothes...

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butterpecan Yes I would play golf, Basketball, football and any other sport or event in the nude if I had to.......Great Day

15 Mar 09

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