Have you ever waited for something that did not come?

@JenInTN (27514)
United States
September 4, 2010 8:23am CST
Ok...I've been waiting patiently for that stinking ice cream truck to come back and guess what! I don't think he's coming back. I'm a little disappointed about this but it made me think..hmm....there are a lot of things that we sometimes wait for that never comes. I am a go getter that hunts down the things that I want...but where the heck would I start with hunting down an icecream truck? Sometimes we can't hunt down the things that we would like....so tell me...have you ever waited for anything that didn't come? Were you disappointed and did you hunt it down or just accept the fact that it wasn't coming back?
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@hofferp (4734)
• United States
4 Sep 10
I've waited for the love of my life...I didn't hunt...I just accepted the fact he wasn't coming back and I moved on. But then we made an agreement when we were in our 20s we'd be together in our 80s. And I'm only in my 60s, so maybe????
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Sep 10
Still a bit longer to wait...I hope that you guys do finally end up together....and if ya do..I'll write a book about your lives..lol...take care and thanks for responding.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
6 Sep 10
I remember waiting for someone I loved to return because I could not believe that he had left me! It was such a painful experience that living in denial for a while was easier than accepting the fact that this person was not coming back to me. This was many years ago and thanks to this person not returning to me my life took a turn for the better and I am now in a very content state so, sometimes it’s worth accepting the end of things. The ice cream truck may or may not come back and you may as well stop waiting for it and treat yourself to a visit to the ice cream parlour!
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
6 Sep 10
LOL...yes...he may long gone and it might be for the best..the icecream truck that is. If I bought one ice cream from him, his bell may be haunting my neighborhood for the rest of my days..lol. I am glad that what you were waiting for didn't come to pass...isn't it funny how things work out? Thanks for the response Paula.
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@carolscash (9492)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I believe that we all wait for something that never happens. I am not sure that we truly search for it all the time. I think we all wait for us to be richer, happier, etc and yet, it may never happen. However, do we truly look for it to happen or hunt it down. I don't think so. did you find the ice cream truck?
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
6 Sep 10
Not yet my friend but I am patient. I am ready to pounce when I hear that bell...LOL...I think that sometimes waiting is the worse thing that can be done...it only makes us restless. I think that going after the things that we want..properly of course...is the only way to make some things real. Thanks for the input and take care.
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@gdesjardin (1918)
• United States
4 Sep 10
Well I guess I am waiting to win the lottery...LOL I guess that will never happen as I never play...LOL You and your poor ice cream truck, LOL, maybe go to a park. He may be there hoping to sell to the young ball players, or kids playing in the park. Good luck trying to track him down. I see the ice cream truck down in my neighborhood all the time...maybe come down to Chattanooga. LOL. Have a great weekend!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Sep 10
Your about about not winning if you don't play...lol...I'll have to cruise the parks..he might just be there...I'm actually a few hours away from Chattanooga but have thought about taking a trip there to see the aquarium. I'll remember to keep my eyes open for an icecream truck when I come. Thanks for the response.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
5 Sep 10
There are sure to be times when we have all waited for something that didn't come. I know i have. It can be disappointing to wait only to feel rejected when that moment comes and passes us by. The wait does not even have to be for something spectacular. it can be something small and trivial. For me, it can be that package in the mail that is promised to arrive by a certain date. Waiting puts you through so many emotions. Searching for the why is almost as difficult as the wait when something doesn't come that we expect.
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
more than the ice cream truck, i've waited for more important people and things, and got stood up... disappointment surely follows, but it's not something to gripe about... you know, there are reasons and there are alibis...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
8 Sep 10
There are always reasons and alibis aren't there? Such a shame. We do grow from our disappointments and hopefully learn a few lessons in the process. Thanks for the input.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
10 Sep 10
@bystander (2292)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
you're always correct, my dear. thanks for the learning lessons.
@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
14 Sep 10
THe only thing that I can think of that I was expecting to come and didn't was men!! I've had 2 fairly recent times when I was expecting a guy to show up and they didn't. I DID NOT let it go. They heard from me more than once and both were on my "forget they exist" list for a while. But I did end up forgiving both of them and have talked to them, but haven't given either the chance to make me wait. Not yet anyway!! As far as the ice cream truck.........check the phone book and see if they can have one reroute to your area KNOWING they will have a willing customer. YOU just made me think of a question to post, myself.....be looking for it!! lol Good luck with the ice cream truck........haven't seen ANY in my neighborhood all summer but there is road construction nearby.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Hi idowrite! I am glad to have been of some inspiration. I will keep my eyes open. Darn men...they can be the worst to wait on. I'm glad you haven't given them the chance to have you waiting on them. It is far better to be the one that they are waiting for. I hate the whole game thing and have never been one to play them but I do understand how it feels to wait on someone that you depend on and they never come through. I learned a hard lesson a long time ago and that has made me realize that I can't live if I'm waiting. Before the b/f, I just figured if it was meant to be then it would come but I wasn't going to stop living in the meantime. Thumb's up to you for living!
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I was stood up for dates a lot. So I always had an alternative plan. But an ice cream truck, I think I'd ask around and figure out his route for the future. Men may come and men may go, but ice cream, that's forever!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
Hehe..yes..Icecream is forever...not just any kind ya buy in a store either...thanks writersedge!
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Sep 10
Stupid husband letting me go? Ha! Another "please reconsider" speech last night.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Sep 10
Annoyed, frustrated, convinced that I will get no cooperation from him...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Sep 10
Gotcha...waiting to be free is the worst thing I think there is to have to wait for.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
8 Sep 10
Seems he is hanging on to any thread he can find...how are you after that?
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@celticeagle (159845)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Sep 10
I have waiting for something that never came. I think you recall my situation with the motorcycle tourguide that lives there in your town. I have waited for so long to get something positive from him and never have. Yes, I have pretty much given up on him but there is still that flicker of hope that drives me on. You and that icecream truck.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I know...me and that icecream truck..lol...come friend. I will be your excuse..anyday anyhow...anything for a friend...love you and I hope that your dreams are all fulfilled.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
4 Sep 10
how cute. you sound like the little girl you look like, sweetie. yes there are times when i quit buying lotto tickets for a while cause im tired of waiting to win im also like others on your responses that are tired of waiting for a new love to come into my life. i really think its never going to happen again. guess im to old.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
Oh bunnybon...I wish I were the little girl...lol..that ice cream truck made me think of my childhood. Just remember you are never to old and you can't win if you don't play...love you
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
10 Sep 10
LOL..not sleeping...hidinng at the corner of of the house in my bathing suit wrapped in a towel...lol...I was being modest
@savypat (20216)
• United States
4 Sep 10
I have been known to get into the car and hunt the Ice Cream Truck, but not for many years. Now if I am waiting for something and is just doesn't come, I figure it was not meant to be and go on without it.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
That is a very good point savtpat! Sometimes even though we want and wait..it wasn't meant to be...awesome response! Thanks.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
4 Sep 10
I'm waiting for Publishers Clearing house to come, it got close. Someone from Vegas won but it wasn't me
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
Aww..so close but yet so far away..I know what you mean.
• Bulgaria
4 Sep 10
I've waited for a lot of stuff to happen,and they didn't,but the very last one is I'm waiting for 2012,for all of us to blow up.Oh wait,I just remembered-that's not going to happen! :D
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
LOL..maybe maybe not..I do take comfort in a particular verse from the bible that my uncle taught me where this is concerned..."I will come like a thief in the night"...that pretty much means that no one will know. Thanks for responding.
• United States
4 Sep 10
I waited for porygon3 but porygon3 never did show up. It was the greatest disappointment in my life. I guess I will have to do something about it otherwise it won't get done.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I'm not sure what that is..but I'm sure it must be important. What is it?
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
4 Sep 10
hI jen, I have waited on many things in my life that never happened. If i could make it happen i did but as i'm sure u know u can't do alot about things especially things that have to w/heartache. I hope u find that truck, lol. hugs. jo
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
Hi Jo...yes..we learn the hard way sometimes about things that are to or not to come. I hope you get all the things that you ever wanted..and I am mad at that icecream truck right now..so it soesn't even matter if he comes again..lol... have you heard anything fron Shirley?
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
4 Sep 10
Hey Jen! You're still waiting for that ice cream truck? lol You know that you can get just go to the grocery store and buy ice cream pops or cones and save your money, that's what I do. Or I can buy something for you because that annoying ice cream truck is here twice a day with that music blaring and kids screaming and those prices are insane! I don't know how the parents can afford it, especially if they have more than one child. They could get a full dinner instead! I'm still holding out for the "Carvel Ice Cream Trucks" to come back! Now that I would pay for!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
LOL...yes..I'm watching for him still. I actually keep ice cream in my freezer but I guess it's just the idea of the old memory that makes me wait...lol. Thanks for the response Opal.
• United States
4 Sep 10
One thing I am waiting for is a rebate I sent out a few months ago. I know it takes time but I have been looking forward to getting my 8$ check. I actually love doing rebates and always find most people never do them. Have you ever done any rebates before? If so did you get the money back like you were suppose too? Anyway nice post and I am back for today I hope to come in contact with you again on here:)
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I actally got shafted on a rebate offer once and it kinda did me in on them. It was a Christmas rebate on a camera and even though I did everything just as they said..it didn't pan out. I don't trust them much now...anyways..I hope you get your rebate and I also hope to see you around. Thanks for the response.
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
will for me I am waiting for my happy life,..i know in this world no one live as a easy life all of us live in a hard life but in my case i have unhappy life i am separated with my only one daughter every time i want to tell her a story but i cant coz she is very far from me....
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
I hope for you that with each moment your daughter becomes a bit closeer to you. It must be very hard. Thanks for responding.
• Brazil
4 Sep 10
Yes, my bus, everyday!!!
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Sep 10
Oh my..we need to get you a flag.