Do you like to leave a message to the answering machine?

@youless (112123)
Guangzhou, China
September 13, 2010 2:29am CST
Actually I don't like to leave a message to the answering machine because it seems it's silly to speak in the phone when there is nobody answering you So sometimes I will just hang up the phone if I hear the answering machine answers the phone. How about you?
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@soleya (1100)
• Latvia
13 Sep 10
I hate leaving a message to an answering machine. To tell you the truth I hate to call someone in the first place. It is always easy for me to come and talk in person than over the phone. And when I do call and hear an answering machine I always hung up, unless I have something really important and urgent.
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• United States
14 Sep 10
I hate using the phone, also. I rarely call anyone just to talk. I will make appointments, or call a family member if I need to. I leave my answering machine on all of the time, if someone doesn't leave a message, then I can never return the call. I never answer my phone without screening the call first. Nine times out of ten, if I answer the phone without letting the machine pick up first, it will be a telemarketer. No thanks! And I don't have caller ID because I think it is a waste of money when I can just use my answering machine.
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
I don't like speaking in the answering machine.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 10
Hi youless, I dislike to leave any speaking message in the voice or word leaving box of my cellphone as well. I don't mind to try many times to contact the person and talk directly. Most of the people here feel reluctant to check the voice mail on their phone as well. I did leaave voice mail several times before and my friends didn't answer any of them as well. As a result of knowing that actually not they didn't want to call me back after listening to the voice messaage left. The truth was they just ignored the voice message I left. It's really disappointing and insulting as well Since then I never like to leave any voice message even I couldn't contact with the person, unless I fail to contact the person many times due to important matter. Anyway for the purpose of safety I still would try to call him or her again untill I get the call back successfully. Happy posting
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 10
Yeah, to stop to be charged leaving the meaningless vioice message, I always try to stop the calling made before it shifts to the voive message I thim this is another way for the telecommunication company to make extra money
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
Yes, I also prefer to keep calling until the receiver is available. I don't understand why people have to use the answering machine because it charges the caller.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 10
Thanks for the BR Here I have some more to share with you. The call we make will go to voice message automatically if the calling made haven't answered for a fixed time. We are charged once it goes to the voice box. To prevent such extra charge I usually will stop the call after a short while. I don't mind to take the trouble to make another call for the purpose not to pay more. Yeah, it's safer to make another call
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 10
I hate answering machines too, mind you I don't like using the phone, I guess it's to do with my anxiety, I get confused and stutter and say silly things, that is why I prefer to talk face to face, email or text! It is very very rare for me to use the phone in the first place, I try to avoid it, the only reason I got a mobile phone is for emergencies and for texting! If in small cases I do have to phone up and I get an answering machine, I will ring back at another time until I hear someone's human response!
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
I remember that you just prefer to use simple cellphone.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Sep 10
hi youless I too dislike leaving messages to doctors and other people whom I really must talk to, as they seem seldom to ever call back and when I am waiting for a live person to talk to It is because the call is important to me. I do not love making those calls so I really do want to talk to a live person.u
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@GardenGerty (157563)
• United States
14 Sep 10
At some places you will never get a live person, you will always have to leave a message and be called back.
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Sep 10
Perhaps it will just make people much more impatient to wait for the return call.
@GemmaR (8517)
13 Sep 10
I prefer to talk to the person rather than to a machine. If I ever do leave a message, it will only be to say "call me", as you don't know who will be listening to the conversation when the message is eventually played back. Plus, if you're recording and you say something that you either didn't mean, or don't wish for them to hear, it's a little bit hard to then go back and delete everything.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
Actually here not many people use the answering machine.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
haha,yeah,i feel it funny to speak when you know there's no one there to answer.well if i don't have a choice and if the message i want to tell is really important,i will absolutely speak up,but then i would love to hear the voice of someone i really want to speak with.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
But today the phone can show you the calling number. And you can decide to pick up your phone or not.
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
14 Sep 10
yeah,that's the wonders of technology,we can always see who is calling us,but if it is an unknown number,we really are clueless on who is it calling us and it's hard to answer just as that,specially when you are avoiding something...
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
13 Sep 10
youless, Well, here's the thing, I would if the person at the other end will bother to retrieve it and get back to me. But more often than not, these answering machines are already becoming museum relics which people just do not bother. I had a friend who would retrieve his messages when he feels like it where by then is really already too late for anything to be done. Since the emergence of mobile communications and its technological advances progressing by leaps and bounds, the answering service today is really less sort after or used. So, it is really not about me and me alone here. The other party just need to be able and know how to use it.
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
I think sometimes it is better not to use the answering machine because the caller will be charged.
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@eden_shii (506)
• Australia
15 Sep 10
No. I don't like to leave a message to the answering machine. Before, whenever I get that voice prompt, I just put down the phone. But sometimes, I just leave a message if I don't have a choice. But I just hated it because I feel like the recipient will not listen to it and I don't know how I sound like.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Sep 10
Sometimes I have to leave a message because I don't want to call one more time to waste money.
• Australia
15 Sep 10
Yeah. That is another reason. In most cases, some people are too busy and their phone will automatically delete our message so it is really useless. I have previously worked in a call center and some of our clients are too busy and all we have to do is to leave a message to their voicemail. Sadly, they don't return our calls.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
hi youless, i am also not comfortable leaving message to the answering machine, i will rather call back later than to leave my message there.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
Me, too.
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
14 Sep 10
yes, i never leave a message to answering machine.i don't like it.but i do leave some automatic answers to my friends' email sometimes.in order to tell them i have received their email.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Sep 10
Try to imagine if your friends also will send automatically reply emails, then both of you will be full of emails
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
15 Sep 10
yes, i received many email sent to me automatically by my friends.among them aslo there was an email it said please close your automatic function.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 10
I too do not like it to leave message in the answering machine, when ever I hear the recorded voices, I will put down my phone. I just don't like it, I only like to talk directly to the person that I want to contact.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
I feel the same.
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@qianyun6 (2067)
• China
13 Sep 10
Actually I haven't called any persons who use answering machine. But I dislike it too. I personally think why not send a short message instead if we can not talk directly?
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
I don't think the answering machine is very useful. After all, you are not at home at that time and it means nothing that the answering machine will reply for you.
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@gjax57 (897)
• United States
14 Sep 10
I love to talk so 'll talk on any answering machine, sometimes i'd even rather an answering machine lol
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Sep 10
What an interesting answer
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
15 Sep 10
why thank you hehe
• Canada
13 Sep 10
I hate leaving messages because I don't like how my voice sounds when it is recorded. I usually just call them back until I get a response, or wait for them to call me back (a lot of people nowadays have call display).
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
13 Sep 10
I will think my recorded voice is strange
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
18 Jan 11
Same here..lol. I don't like to speak to a machine and as soon as I hear it come on, I disconnect. I would try later to see if the person is there. The easiest way for me to send a message when I don't know if a person is unable to attend a call is to sms.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Jan 11
Thanks for your response.
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
Me too, i really don't like to leave a message on the telephone. But actually i did it once, that's the time that i really really need to talk for the person because in need to follow up them about our office transaction as instructed by my previous boss, but even i leave a message, I'm still try to call him again and again until finally he answered the phone.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Sep 10
Yes, I have the same feeling. I am afraid even if the people heard the message, but they might not call back.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 10
I also do not like, because I could not hear the answers directly. But if the information I will present an important, and should I have to say. I'll leave a message.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Oct 10
Thanks for your response.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
I never do that with entire of my life, my friend. If I call and say "leave a message" but I can't leave any message. Have a great day!
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Sep 10
Thanks for your response.
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
If i have no choice and it's important, i'll leave a message on the machine.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Sep 10
Thanks for your reply.
• Canada
13 Sep 10
No, I hate leaving messages on answering machines. I always feel like I sound silly, or something. I am always backward like that though.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Sep 10
I feel the same like you.
@Miner49r (568)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Ditto on that Cookie...lol
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