I was RAPE and get PREGNANT,that's why I left my BABY

It was wrong for her to place her baby in the garbage, but I dont blame her fully for that though because people do crazy things when panic. So I couldn't really judge her. People may even jump off a building. If she is raped then i pity her, I may not know exactly how she felt but I know t has damaged her heart.

IMHO, there is no reason in the world to throw a child in the waste can. To me that meant that she intended to kill the baby. Whatever happened to her in the Middle East, there is no reason to kill an innocent baby. She could have reported the rape and give up the baby for adoption. She cannot just pretend that the baby never existed. I also do not believe that she had post-partum depression. The whole thing was just too cold for me.

"It's a desperate cry for help" - what we heard in the news as a mother who threw away new-borne on plane ... It seems to suggest the various types of violence that OFWs encounter to earn a living abroad ... some will have the nature to protest and quickly seek legal help immediately ... some for their own reasons will "leave it all to the One who makes all things possible" ... both of them can be right ... What do you think ?

An innocent baby should not be treated like a garbage even though it was a product of bad experience. The mother has been unfair to the baby. Though it was not her fault, she should have at least left the baby in a safe place where it wouldn't be harmed and somebody may take care of it. The government should really strengthen its policies and rules about the workers abroad since they suffered unfair treatment. Action speaks louder than word.

No reason is good enough to potentially harm a innocent infant. There are plenty of places she could have left the child safely such as a hospital a police dept. or anywhere with another person for that matter. You do not put your child in a garbage bag REGARDLESS of how scared you are!!!

ok a baby was thrown to garbage, then why didn't took those contraceptive pills to avoid hat baby and lodge a complaint against those culprits. it's the socity that making human as animals. and movies that show how to behave with women. maybe her dressing at ofice may also be a reason, she may have been betrayrd be her employer after satisfying that he will take care of him after that episode, or maybe make her rich. whatever be the reason this was wrong and she did not wanted to had one baby then she should have avoided it. I think she was out of her mind, while doing it as she was hiding something behind. she must have gone and had with him with her willingness, and was dismissed and made out of visa when it was over. HOW SAD!!!! This Socity, where are the old days?

Just because you were raped is no excuse to leave your child in a garbage bag. She could have given it up for adoption.

I have thought of that scenario too. I saw it over the news last night. The mother was being maltreated. I cannot blame her for doing such thing. If you are actually out of your mind, you can think stupid things. I pity her actually. I believe that she is not the only one who has been being maltreated overseas.

It seems employeers don't really care about there employees in different countries. They are just a complete source of cheap labor, working for so much less than they would in the US. If this is true, and DNA does match, then the employeer should be to blame, and should be sued for all he's worth. Something has to come of this!

So she couldn't just leave the baby in the airport somewhere? Someone would have found it and would have taken care of it somehow. I also have an interest in why this woman's family would disown her in a situation like this. It was not her fault that she was raped, and it would a pretty shallow person to blame the woman for what happened to her. It takes a pretty shallow-minded culture to advocate these types of beliefs. I could never blame my wife if something like this happened to her. I WOULD, however, want her to put the baby up for adoption. I don't want any kids of my own, and I would certainly not want to spend the next twenty years or more providing for a kid that wasn't mine.

I believe sending domestic helpers to the middle east is really a very risky thing. Arabs though not all have raped many Pinays. Many of them just kept quiet actually. I think the middle east is not the place of Pinays. There are other good market. Hongkong and Taiwan for example are treating the Pinays in their household well. Why go to Saudi Arabia when they only give meager salary.

She panicked maybe as she's not expecting to deliver her child on that moment. That's the thing that came to her mind thinking that she can be saved from humiliation to her family and other people. Sometimes a person can really do unforgivable act, she may not feel like doing as a result of the abuse done by others.

until i know the whole truth ill not believe anyone.

I guess the government should also have a bill to protect innocent babies from mother's like that!Whatever the woman had, its not the baby's fault that he or she was born. The baby did not asked to be born.Being raped does not give the mother a right to just throw away a baby like a chewed up gum that does not have any juice anymore in a piece of paper and throw it just like that. I hope the kid wont be given anymore to the mom. Other families should take her home.. A family who will really take good care of her.The mother should not get the baby anymore, and should not see the baby anymore.To h3ll with that mom! If she was raped, why didn't she report it? It took her 9 months till the time she gave birth? that's way too long!

This is so sad and it was an act of desperation. However, there is no excuse to stuff a baby into a garbage bag and leave it to die. Furthermore it is not the Philipine Government that must pass laws, that Government is powerless if Philipine nationals are treated like slaves and are exploited in certain countries. I think your Government should educate people as to what might await them in certain countries and not to take jobs in those countries. Here in Canada we have strict laws as to the treatment of foreign workers. That is not to say no abuse would ever happen but at least there is recourse for the foreign workers if they are abused. Someone close to me is in the process of hiring a Philipino nanny. There are many steps to it. Working conditions, hours of work, days off, room and board and salary have to be agreed upon and signed into a contract before she starts. If she then feels ill treated or the conditions are not met she has the right to complain and ask the agency that supplied the job to take her off this job and get her other employment. It really makes me sad that these ladies have to leave their own kids at home and go far away and look after other people's children. But at least they can send back money.

Oh, okay why the guilt when you were raped. i think the natural reaction would have been to broadcast that you were raped and to ask for assistance to help you prove that they have done you wrong. I';d say the response was that she was raped so she left the baby out of fear - was fear that his husband will not believe her himself- so something going on in here that is more than what we can know.

She's really in a tight spot, but I couldn't really blame her entirely. I mean, when you panic, you just sometimes throw your senses and morality out the window. Further, could her husband and family really accept that reason if they knew that she's carrying some other man's child? I don't think they would give her the chance to explain. Though, she could have just given the child for adoption before going back to her hometown, at least the innocent life would be respected enough to be given a good home if she doesn't want it. I mean, she carried it for several months. If she wanted it off she could have just aborted it easily. Well, we all have reasons and she has hers. It's just sad that there's an innocent baby at stake because of wrong decisions and actions. As for the government, we can't always give the government the responsibility of taking care of us all. We all know the risks of working outside the country. Particularly those types of countries.

Sad to heard that, when someone who are rich and with power to hurt the poor and weak. This always happen in certain country where the authority are not serious and did not carry our their duty. Where as the high bribery country will happen the similar thing that the actual culprit will escape but the poor will be punish. In this case, who will be punish? I believe at the end the woman will be punish due to she dump her baby in the garbage bag. So what will happen to her employer that tape her, I believe he will definitely save, just because he is rich...Money can settle a lot of thing...

Indonesia is one of the third countries that export maids overseas. Rape is the biggest issue with employers from Saudi Arabia and Middle East. Abuse is the biggest issue with Malaysian employer. I hope they realized that to work overseas they need to equip themselves with knowledge and skills, so they can earn respect from employers.

Its not a reason for her to decide to just throw her baby in the trash can.. The baby is innocent.. Although some of our fellows think that way, we can't blame them.. They have their own reasons. Reason that might be bad or good. But above all, she shouldn't left her baby in the trash can. Instead why not call for help? She is also in danger at that moment.. But ofcourse once you are in that situation, you don't know what to do.. I pity the mother.. Our government doesn't really care about our fellow Pinoys abroad.. maybe they do but not that deep.. and sometimes some of our OFW can also be blame.. both sides have flaws..