Is it possible to love more than one?

I think you may love more than one, but you would always have only one guy you love most. Just sometimes we could not realise who is the one we love most. Just my opinion.

ahah a hippy?^^ well no what you feel is normal^^ me too i was undecided between two guys before^^ one was always making me laugh, we talked pretty much everyday,we sang together, we talked for hours and i fell for him^^ then was a guy that was always there for me waiting me to love him^^ but i couldnt love him really. even he was so sweet and so caring. so i loved the first time and he said he loves me first and i said i love him too and i was too happy^^ since that one day he said that he started to like other girl bcs i lived far from him and that girl was near and he started to have feelings for her. sure it hurt me much bcs he said he loved me and at same time loved that girl. even we were not lovers was still hurt bcs he asked me to wait him. anyway after few days he said that that girl was only a infatutation and loved me. so i decided to accept be his gf bcs loved him^^ but sure was still a bit hurt. that second guy i told you he was always comforting and being sweet^^ so then i started to have probs with guy i chose we broke up first day we started bcs he turnt his back to me and just after two days we have a good conversation. so then we were trying to solve things but he always turnt his back, said i loved many guys, and said i wasnt proud of him.. and just made me sad and cry. so i started to have feelings for my friend but still had feelings for the other one. so i didnt know what to do. if should be gf again of the other guy or accept my friend. i thought that the other guy would keep hurting me bcs always was doing that and i decided to choose my friend that i fell those days^^ and with whom i could be happy without be sad and cry. and that was so sweet^^

That's English for you, where you can love your mother, father, brother, sister, friend and best friend, and mashed potatoes with peas. And your dog. Or cat. Or horse. Not that you want to have physical relations with any of them - Being your typical unattached human male, I have no problem with physical relations with more than one, since I'm not attached to any of the religious dogma that specifies only one per person. Other persons are and there's nothing we can do about that except either change their minds, or find others whose minds are already changed.

It is very possible, I agree, since love comes in different forms.

Interesting, I have been in such situation and tried to weigh out the pros and cons between the two. Like you I walked away from both. As for living in a society if where we can love or be involved by three's it does happen and not accepted by many..

i agree base on my own experience in life, sometimes you feel you are so wrong but it feels so right,you want to be true to your self,but you have already obligations that need to look forward,it is normal to all of us in this generation i think?there are some reasons i think why this things happen, takecare see you here again in my lot friend

I do not think it is possible to love more than person at a time. We can have affection and attraction to lots of people, but we really love one person at a time. Most times we mistakes infatuation as real love. I think most people gets attracted lots of time, but the real love comes only once in a while.

I wonder how it really feels to be torn between two loves. I surely might feel so pretty! Anyway, well this is a hard one, zions, because sometimes, the number of relationships you can have at one time is also dictated by culture. Some people also are not bounded by religious beliefs so they feel free to be in more than one relationships. For me however, it is possible to have strong feelings for not just one person. But I don't think I could marry more than one guy. It's just too much responsibility.

I believe in love but I think it only happen once in our life. And it is not possible to love more than one person. I think love is a sacred feeling of hearts and always feel by hearts so true love only can happen once not again and again. Because I also feel this once. But now my love is not with me. But I love her always. So I think for me it is only once.

Hi hippy-zionsphere. There was a time when I asked myself that same question. About women, and not men of course. That was when I was young-er. To live in a society where that would be the norm. Because I thought that if that were the case, I would be one who would be emotionally capable of doing it, of loving more than one person. But nowadays I don't think so anymore. Just too much reality I guess.

I am a one woman man, i was married 45 years ago, it was an arranged marriage by my late parents, there was no premarial love affairs nor after marriage, we are a very very happy couple.. Well i know women/men those have multiple relationships, many are not happy, it is like putting legs on 2 boats at the same time, and you know the result lol.. Thank you so much for sharing. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead.