We Could Be Homeless!!!!

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I am VEEEERRRRRRY UPPPPPPSSSEEEETTTTT!!!! This is simply rediculous. Since the end of last month we have been getting notifications from Housing about every other day or so. FOr those of you that don't know-I live with my daughter and grandson in a HUD apartment complex. We have lived here for about ten years now. When my granddaughter lived with us we had afew problems because of her activities around the complex. She no longer is here. My grandson recently was off his medication for for a period of time and was being agression to some kids with a large stick and we were notified by housing that this was a violation of our lease. First I even heard of it. Then my grandson had a situation with a couple of young girls that he plays with and his mother reported it. She called my grandson a jerk. And then last week we got a notification that it had been brought to their attention that we had some man living here. That couldn't be further from the truth and where they got such an idea is beyond us. Usless it was my daughter's exboyfriend because she recently broke up with him and he was not happy. Besides him we have had the maintenance guys and my new grandson-in-law. So wtf? anyway?? There is a busy body lady that lives on the property(has her own house unattached to the apartments) and she cleans up around the place and keeps things in check. She was over here about a month ago telling my daughter she needed to keep her son in check. My daughter tried to explain some things to her and she left in sort of a huff and made some snide comment about her needing to keep control of her son. I didn't report her. I should have I think. I had just had a very nice conversation with one of the head ladies at Housing regarding the stick situation. She was very nice and actually took the time to set and chat afew minutes and I felt we really had a meeting of the minds. I had told her that my daughter is on medication for bi-polar disorder, my grandson is on medication for a mood(anger basically)disorder and I am on medication for severe depression and panic attacks.(What a crew,huh?)that I had come back to help my daughter after she and I had been on the outs for a period of time this last Summer when she was in her manic phase. She was very understanding and expressed her being glad I was there to help my daughter. We even laughed at how our kids could drive us crazy sometimes but always love them regardless. I didn't want to call or write her and tell her about this lady being rude. So I left it alone. Now this. In this last notification they stated that because this was an ongoing problem they had put us 'on notice'. So now I am scared to death that they are going to throw us out. We have no family here except my granddaughter and no where to go. I wrote a letter as they asked us to do in response and told them our side of things. I also requested a meeting and I also included in the letter that the on property lady had been rude and that the kid's mother had called my grandson names. I hate to start telling tales about others and wish that the other tenants felt the same way. We have't had these kind of problems with other families. Now I am wondering have any of you had a similar problem? What kind of legal recourse could I get?( No money for a lawyer)And god only knows what we would possibly do if we are, infact kicked out of here. Any ideas, suggestings, stories? I am a nervous wreck.