Your amazing!!!!!!!!!!!

@saphrina (31552)
South Africa
December 4, 2010 3:45am CST
Hello everyone. When will you say someone are really amazing? We normally want to change this or that on a person even if we love them. Hair, mouth, nose or whatever. Fast to say if this or that looked different, we might feel more for someone or fall in love with that person or even like him or her. We are just human after all. For me, just that smile makes him amazing. I love him just as he is. Do you like and love your loved one just the way they are. Whether it is their looks, manners or personality? Thanx. TATA.
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@vandana7 (98938)
• India
4 Dec 10
Kind, caring, generous, responsible, and a whacky sense of humor!
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
4 Dec 10
Hey Hey !!! It's 17:00 here and i can see you guys turning on here....
@vandana7 (98938)
• India
4 Dec 10
Saphy sweetie - did you notice I just disqualified Superman, Spiderman, and Batman because they dont have whacky sense of humor?
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
So in my nature, Vannie. That is god qualities in any person. TATA.
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
4 Dec 10
As for me, i like the combination of three, looks, manner and personality.. Just can't say that someone is amazing because of being very intelligent, so the combination of three will produce an efficient result which is widespread in that person and has a lot more to show the Love..!!!
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
For once you actually said something i can understand. Feeling alright sweetie? TATA.
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
4 Dec 10
I am alright and i am back after a long break !!!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
Good.
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
How i appreciate the one i love and say she is amazing and stunning to me? I could not do that using my eyes nor my tongue. But my heart will do, regardless of how she looks, its my feeling towards her that would announce she is the most amazing creature i ever have in my life. No matter how she say, no matter what her principles in life, it is the strong bind between each other that would keep her the most valuable priceless treasure i would ever keep til the end of time.:-);-)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Thank you my B.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
Hello Prime. I know your heart better that you will know it. Thank you. You really are the most amazing person i have ever had the honor to meet in my life. TATA.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
My pleasure, Prime.
@shibham (16977)
• India
5 Dec 10
Hi saphie... need to love or be loved first. hehehe... Let me start my bridge.
@vandana7 (98938)
• India
5 Dec 10
MEL IS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Dec 10
Saphie.... frrrr... your idea. you are not still coming to share my tibet tour. No trouble. It's a nice feeling.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Ain't you suppose to be in Tibet still? I told you to stay away from women, Shiby. You tend to get into trouble. TATA.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Dec 10
I would straight away propose her if i come accross such an amazing girl
@vandana7 (98938)
• India
5 Dec 10
@mel - the girl got terrified of Sunny bunny's muscles... she imagined him strangling her...
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
7 Dec 10
@Mel --- i already did *No Regrets* @Saph --- you still remember me lol @Aunty --- hope you wouldn't be terrified when you see me
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hello Sunny. I am sure you will. Thanx. TATA.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
4 Dec 10
Hi saphrina, I have a different set of standards for different people for calling or telling them that they are amazing. For my wife only - she is amazing in nearly everything she does for us - be it the food or the work or the cleaning or managing finance. I have stopped telling her that she is amazing just because if I do so, it would soon seem that I am just flattering her all the time. Maybe out of my respect and deep love that I have for her or anything else. For others, they have to stand out of the rest of the lot to win my words - "You are Amazing". Tough I am not a strict person to follow any tough rule - it is quite simple - you have to do something different (for good) to win my appreciation. Cheers, theSids.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. Would a box of choccies do? Glad to hear you love your wife that much. Thanx. TATA.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
Oh my sweet.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
4 Dec 10
@fjaril: Sorry to know that. I never thought it this way and instead I always feel and wish I was the first to go. I appreciate your telling me this and I promise(I know I break promises quite often but would remember this one) I will do it more frequently - as you say - with meaning and intention. @saphrina, anything from a friend as dear as you is welcome - Always.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
5 Dec 10
[i][/i]Hi saphy! I think you have just described what "love" really is! Love is when you don't care what someone really looks like and you wouldn't want to change anything about them and you don't want them to change because you love them just the way they are! Don't get me wrong, if there is a teeny weeny thing that bothers you about them (my bf would like me to lose some weight and cut my hair) that is sort of ok, I guess. But, even if they don't change you still love them the way they are anyway! Believe me the bf has alot of annoying things I would like to change about him too, but that is just normal stuff. I wouldn't trade him for anyone~ I truly love him for who is (most of the time)
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
6 Dec 10
@meluan-nice to see you, as always! Miss you! @saphy, I just hope he makes you happy! Hugs and love to both of you, Opal
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. And that is exactly how i feel about him. I don't want to change anything on or about him. He is just fine as he is. Thanx. TATA.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
6 Dec 10
Thanx sweetie.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 10
i would say amazing for my partner for what he had done for me.all the sacrifice and beat his own ego. love him in manner. he treat me good and try to make me happy all the time
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
9 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. Long time no see. Sounds like a great guy. Hope you 2 will be happy forever. TATA.
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
6 Dec 10
Hi Saphy Well if i love a person i will never want him to change for me and i will love him the way he is withoust asking him to adapt himself as per my whims and fancies. What i really care for is nature and nothing else.He should be trustworthy and should have great sense of humor. My husband has never appreciated me and always sarcastically tell me change the way i look or dress up.I just feel it too much. Though he is conservative,introvert ,serious and man of few words,i never expected him to change.This is my way of expressing love.
• India
9 Dec 10
Ya i am still married to him and always will be.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
6 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. My point exactly. Why change someone as it is the person you fell in love with in the first place. Are you still married to that one? Thanx. TATA.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
9 Dec 10
Okay sweetie, as long as you are happy then.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 10
hi saph! sometimes it's for their looks, sometimes it goes to the manners adn also some because of their personality~it will be one of them.if it's the combination of the three i would say, 'YOU ARE REALLY GREAT!', 'AWESOME' and all that marvelous and bombastic words will come out~
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
10 Dec 10
Maybe i should sweetie.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
8 Dec 10
mmmmmm, now that i know it is marvelous and bombastic words i really need to try that out, sweetie. Thanx. TATA.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 10
you should try that out saph!
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
it's always been amazing when they are in love coz they will see the most beautiful things in each moment they will be together.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. It is, though. Such a nice feeling as well. Thanx. TATA.
@jer2911 (57)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
I believe that you should and must. Because that's what love is about. Accepting things from your other half in the sense that you also find his/her certain qualities attractive and amazing! Even their simple gestures are ought to look amazing. :)
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hello sweetie. Welcome to mylot. I agree, we have to accept our loved one's as they are. Why try and change something? Thanx. TATA.
@Valene82 (89)
• United States
5 Dec 10
I know with my bofyriend, I am usually wanting him to be different than he is and have more in common with me, but most of the time I can always think of some amazing quality he has and be grateful for it. I always try to let him know the things I appreciate most about him and this makes him feel very good about himself and feel very loved and appreciated. I think it is important to let people know the things you like and enjoy about them and only tell them the things you wish were different.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. Welcome to mylot. Seems you 2 have a strong and loving relationship. Keep it up. Every moment is precious. Thanx. TATA.
• United States
4 Dec 10
I am a type of person that loves them for their personality. Not their physical features. There are too many people in this world who are too judgemental on looks. To me personality is EVERYTHING.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
4 Dec 10
Me too, afterall as we get older our looks change, but usually our personality never does.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. Yip personality just seals the whole deal. A person without personality is like a cake without frosting. Thanx. TATA.
@raven66 (335)
• Canada
4 Dec 10
I have come to learn that if one is not to happy about their lifes or with themselves.. they will never LOOK at the other person with much care or in a loving way.. It seems you Saphrina do care about yourself enough to really reflect your love for the other. the MOST important thing in relationships is what the partners have inside their hearts that REALLY counts!.. everything else is secondary!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Thanx for sharing that important part with me. I forgot about it. TATA.
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Hello, Saphy.:) Are you so in love? If so, good for you, dear.:) Yes, even the simplest things and so ordinary can look so amazing.:) Well, I'm talking about my kids. Every single thing they do seems like an extra ordinary thing for me. They never cease to amaze me that I keep taking pictures and video of what they are doing. I just love watching them and it makes me feel like I am the luckiest woman in the world.:)
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. Actually i don't know lately. Glad you find your kids amazing. We need to feel that way about them. Thanx. TATA.
@hati3kuro (269)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 10
If you ask me, then I'd say looks have something to do with it definitely (that why people flock on accounts with pretty faces) but of course, so as people would say often, that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder... true enough, I do have something that I look forward for whenever choosing my mate... for me it'd be the smile and eyes :))) However what's more important is the manner of course, coz if I were to pick somebody who's gonna live with me for the rest of my life, then it's the attitude, personality and behavior that I'm gonna have to live with every single day of my life after the knot is tied.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. The only way to see that it's the right one, is on the eyes and that genuine smile. That makes the difference. Personality as well. Good points you have there. Thanx. TATA.
• United States
4 Dec 10
is it really love? only because of his smile? there is more to a person than their physical appearance. there are males and females who are pleasing to the eyes, but they are murderers, and rapists, and all kinds of foulnesses reside in their minds, or diseases in their bodies. you should look deeper than that! in my culture (i am hebrew, not jewish, for we are a brown skinned people for generations) we are taught by our fathers not to accept someone simply because of how they look according to physical appearance. as said..there is so much more to a person. true beauty is based on the creator of all things good...and true beauty is recognized by all creatures=except for mankind. so it is said...if that female they honor is so beautiful..why do birds fly away from her when she comes near them, or deer run away when she gets close? because there is more to a person than their appearance. what makes true beauty is honesty, respect for all creatures, even plants, and insects, animals and other creatures which most dont know about. true beauty is in actions...proper speech, kindness, strength, warriorship and honesty...love and wisdom and knowledge and understanding! this is what makes true beauty. even if someone appears attractive now...how will they appear 20-30 years from now? what if they get into an accident and have their body mutilated? this may seem harsh, but this is a reality of this world, and i have experienced these things with people who were in car crashes, or fights. if the physical appearance is all you see, then will you still be around if something as drastic like this happens? because these things happen everyday in the world..that is just a reality. i would not change anything about a person. but i look for true beauty in a woman...not physical beauty, nor do i look according to the standards of the general world population. each creature generally has its own standard of physical beauty. the chameleon surely sees beauty differently than the dog sees beauty for another dog. yet the true definition of beauty is in actions and not mere appearances
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Well, you made some good points here. And i know most have their own ways of knowing someone is amazing to them. I cannot describe the way i see him or feel about him. That will take forever and i am a bit pressed for time here. Thanx for sharing. TATA.
@Memnon (2170)
4 Dec 10
I love my lady the way she is. we have ups and downs, but I would not change her.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. I remember you mentioned her some time ago. As long as you love her. That is important. Thanx. TATA.
4 Dec 10
Hi saphrina, when you love a person you dont see his imperfections, You just simply love him the way he does, He might be super fat or thin, He might have a big nose, or he might not just please other people senses yet this particular person pleases you. Well we can say a person is amazing though we never loved them. So amazing doesn't have to do with love, they are completely different. However I wanna answer you. I think I usually find a person amazing with his attitude. When a person is sincere, honest for me that makes them amazing :D
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Dec 10
Hi sweetie. In my eyes, my love don't have any imperfections at all. I love him for what he is and the way he loves me and makes me happy. Hope he feel the same. Any way, looks don't impress me at all. It's the person that is important to me. This one is the most sincere and honest i have ever met. Thanx. TATA.