Success of a woman in life.
By DoctorDidi
@DoctorDidi (7018)
India
January 1, 2011 11:12am CST
We have so far heard of the role of a woman behind the success of a successful man in life. Similarly, I think there should also be a man behind the success of a successful woman in life. Am I right in coming to such a definite conclusion? If yes, what is that desired role to be played by a man for the success of a woman in life & how to play it properly? Have you any suggestion?
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@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
2 Jan 11
hello doctordidi!
i agree with you that most of the times, there's a man behind the success of a woman. A man's role should be that of a supporter to his partner's endeavor. He should be there to give all the support that she would need, lend an ear when she needs a sounding board, advise her if she ask for it, a shoulder to cry on if its too much for her, and most of all, giver her all the respect, love and attention which would inspire her to do better.
a happy, fulfilled woman who has someone who loves and understand her is often the one who spirals to success. A man who gives his woman the respect, the understanding and the love she needs would most certainly contribute a lot to the woman's success.
@magenn (78)
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1 Jan 11
I heard many times that man behind the successful woman and vice versa. Some circumstances true and some no that's my idea. If you think that man/woman is successful in any thing/way he/she did, then your role is to support: morally or financially if needed and time if you have cause if he/she is successful its not only for her/him its for you both (man and woman).There are some cases that the man or woman is very successful as we see it but the man/woman is not behind because of so many reasons: jealousy,silfish(self-centered)So man/woman become succesful with the help or motivation by others such as relatives and friends. So the role of the the man for the success of the woman is SUPPORT : Morally, Psychologically, Time, Effort or even Financially if needed and if you have. Thats vice verse..
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Jan 11
hi a man has to think equality if he is going to support his mate in endeavoring to be successful. they must get over the idea that a macho make does not do housework or help with his kids, or cook a meal
occasionally. otherwise the whole thing will not work but to me success is not a woman becoming head of a company or rakibng in millions ,its just at being good at what she has picked out. She will be also the mom so she has to know how to juggle things so she can work and still be mom and wife.It can be done of course as a million women have done it before.





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@celticeagle (189957)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Jan 11
i think that the position of the stay at home mother and wife has changed over the years and now what a woman would need is a supportive man to be there when she needs a person to talk to and to confide in. No longer do woman stay at home and the rules of house wives no longer exist. A woman in a relationship can have a louder voice and be of more support to a man than ever before. And a man should be the same.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Wow, that is a tough one. It is that I never heard of it. Most man just won't just stand behind a woman and look at her success. Man just easily get jealous, and he won't be that supportive under such a successful woman. If he is a real man at all. That is my personal opinion though.
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
2 Jan 11
I think it does not matter whether a man can stand or can not stand the success of his woman out of jealousy because he will have to stand if she is successful. And if he has any ego problem, both he and she along with the whole family will have to suffer.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
2 Jan 11
These days the woman behind the successful man is most of the time his mother. And with a woman , it is her mother Or father. Love Partners come later. I think it really doesn't matter the gender , all is need is support. they need one person to be there when things are tough or if they fail. And this support can come from a spouse , a child , a parent or a lover.
@eurekafemme (5874)
• Philippines
1 Jan 11
Hi there Doc.
For me, a woman can thrive better without a man.
.I she only wants success, career wise, she doesn't need a man to do that. Because men have the tendency of becoming insecure and intimidated when his woman is more successful than he is, thus, he'd compete with her ,that somehow will ruin the relationship eventually and her.
But being a wife and a mother, a vey good, responsible, loving and supporting husband is all it takes for us, women, to say that we are contented and fulfilled with our lives.
For me, a woman can thrive better without a man.
.I she only wants success, career wise, she doesn't need a man to do that. Because men have the tendency of becoming insecure and intimidated when his woman is more successful than he is, thus, he'd compete with her ,that somehow will ruin the relationship eventually and her.
But being a wife and a mother, a vey good, responsible, loving and supporting husband is all it takes for us, women, to say that we are contented and fulfilled with our lives.@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
2 Jan 11
As we live in a male dominated society, it is the usual reaction of a man to become jealous if his woman is more successful than he is,but the attitude is changing now and there are many men who help and encourage their women as much as they can.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
4 Jan 11
I think that regardless of our gender, there is always a group of people that is behind the successes that we achieve in our lives. This does mean that I think that there are many people behind the success of a man and the same is true with the success of a woman in the world. I don't think that there is a person in the world that is able to have success without the assistance of other people that are important in their lives.
@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
4 Jan 11
I've always thought that I would be a perfect partner for a successful woman. I think I would have qualities that would compliment a good partnership.
But, unfortunately, my circumstances are not that I could participate in such partnership.
I wouldn't be able to describe it. On how to play this role properly, I just know that I would be.
@vicereine (451)
• United States
2 Jan 11
You are absolutely right behind everyone there is someone there to help them to be successful. It does not matter if it is a man or a woman but there is always someone there to help you up when you are down or to give you just that extra bit of confidence that you need. I think for the man it is the same as the woman just be there and help whenever you can and support them in what they are doing. That is actually all anyone wants is to be supported and have their choices and opinions heard and appreciated.
@tkonlinevn (6427)
• Vietnam
18 Jan 11
Success of a woman in life is a happy family. It's the first thing.
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
2 Jan 11
If what you say is correct they would have said.."Behind every successful man there should be a woman and behind every successful woman there should be a man"They did not say so.Perhaps there is some truth in what they have said.May be behind every successful the role of a man is nil or insignificant.The man behind a successful woman all he could do is not to hinder or cause obstacles in her progress.I am a male and I feel so..HAPPY NEW YEAR
@chayapathys (2111)
• India
2 Jan 11
If what you say is correct they would have said as"Behind every successful man there should be a woman and behind a successful woman there should be a man"But they did bot say so.Why? Perhaps there need not be man behind a successful woman or perhaps the role of a man behind a successful woman is nil or negligible which may also be true.As I see the best role that a man can play behind a suucessful woman is not to interfere or hinder her progree.Am I right.I am a male...
@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Jan 11
I don't beleive anyone can be a success by themselves. They must have the support of others. For a woman I can see why this support cannot come from a man.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Yes, of course this statement is interchangeable. I believe the man behind any successful woman would be the same as any woman behind a successful man and that trait would be to "support" the needs and wants of the man/woman in question.
@Catana (734)
• United States
1 Jan 11
Not everybody needs somebody behind them to succeed in life. That's just as true for women as for men. If you have a mate or friend who encourages you, that's great, but it isn't always necessary. I'm not sure what you mean by playing it properly. What's right for one couple may not be right for another one. In some couples, each of the people have their own interests and careers and those are separate from their private life together. In other couples, they share housework and other chores to give each other the time they need to work at their career. It's different for everyone.
@ivaylo2009 (973)
• Bulgaria
1 Jan 11
Hello its probaly true that the woman can raise the man in his life.I not a witness of that kind of ?vent in my modest life.But in my opinion the right man can raise the woman position for sure.To doing that he must already make his way in some aspect and push up his friendgirl or just fried.In most cases we are eyewitnesses of advancement of women that are not so clever and clean in their doings but probably that is the correct way.In my life i'm still searching for the person whom can direct me in right way.So probaly are needed some kind of feelings between people to build that kind of help each other.In my opinion its just a dose of luck which is given by God in definite perion of life.Its nice topic and i wish to have some more expierence to discussing about.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
1 Jan 11
I think there is no truth in these saying because i believe that every human being is responsible for their own deeds, success and failure. There are many success people in this world and many of them are either male or females. I think every person have caliber of doing what they want to do.
It is a matter of the will power and determination. I know my talk sounds like a inspirational talk but it is true. There are friends from whom one can take help and a friend can be male or a female it doesn't matter.















