Another lonely upcoming Valentine's day for me what will yours be like?

@apples99 (6556)
United States
January 16, 2011 1:45am CST
My Valentine's will be boring the same as it was last year not that I'm into Valentine's that much, but it would be cool to finally be able to sort of enjoy Valentine's day with someone special I'd be lining if I said I didnt care even slightly. Well enough about my non existent romantic life lol, I'd love to read your valentine's plans maybe I can have some vicarious fun reading your plans and if that dosent work I still have y'all if you still dont mind being my Valentine's haha. So spill tell me what you and your Valentine's honey has planned?
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33 responses
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
It would be my first Valentine's day to celebrate it with someone special. I believe that February 14, 2011 will be a memorable day for me. I just hope that we will not have any love quarrels during that day. :) We do not have any specific plans yet for Valentine's. We are prsently enjoying the moments we spend each day. However, I am planning to surprise him with a present. I am going to give him a scrapbook showing our love story. ;) I hope he will like it. :)
@la_chique (1498)
16 Jan 11
Thats very sweet. I hope you have a lovely day.
• Jamaica
16 Jan 11
that'sso romantic. Enjoy your day!
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
16 Jan 11
That sounds nice as for lovers quarrels think only positive thoughts, and I think everything will be beautiful for you and your valitines.
@la_chique (1498)
16 Jan 11
Aww thats so sad. Hope u find someone really soon hun. I've been with my fiance for almost 8 years but we probably wont do anything special. Last year we went for a meal a couple of days before v-day. I'm quite low maintenance when it comes to v-day because I very much feel that it shouldnt require a specified day to express feelings towards a partner.
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Your sweet to say those kind words thank you And your right about not needing a special day to show you care about someone your feelings should always be known and expressed no matter what day it happens to be. Thanks agin for stopping in.
@celticeagle (151371)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jan 11
I hope to find something special to send mine. I know him online and he is a sweetheart. I will never meet him. Won't be happening. Why don't you write a story about how you wish your special someone might be. How he would treat you or something that would happen between you? I have written two short stories about mine. I am such a romantic!
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
18 Jan 11
Well, you don't be lonely this so called valentine's day. Because this is not a romantic day for everybody. I am single too and no one will be date on that day and I am not lonely... I don't plan in that occasion because I don't have girlfriend at the moment. Just be on home doing mylot and be happy all the time lol
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
You are not alone, i too don't have a Valentine date this year and i should say that it has been a like this for almost every year that i have lived. I have celebrated my valentines day with my family last year. I realized that it's not for lovers day only, we can celebrate it with friends and family members as well. I bought cake and my sister bought ice cream and we just talked and laughed. It's simple yet i know that my whole family loved celebrating Valentines with the entire family at home.
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
It will be arranging a concert for couples and the proceeds would be for the benefit of a foundation. I know a singer who could do the serenades with participation of local bands artists at the area we will have the venue and invite celebrities as well so it can be attended by many (couples)...And of course not forgetting to bring my date so I could also enjoy, earn and help. It sure would be a worth Valentine!
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Aww thats an amazing thing to do for Valentine's really nice I wish could see how it goes for you well thanks for sharing.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
17 Jan 11
My Valentines day might consist of a dinner and some dancing. The dancing for sure, as there is a special night at a local dance club that we like to go to. I might buy my hubby a gift. Maybe a card and some cologne. We dont make a big deal out of valentines day. I will most likely bake a cake or cookies for the kids.
17 Jan 11
Hi apples dont feel down you must hink positivley or you may still be alone this time next year a negative thought will stay as long as you let it hun,try and turn things around to make you feel better and im sure your love life will improve to.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
17 Jan 11
Mine will probably be the same as it has been for the last several years. I usually fix a special dinner and bake chocolate chip cookies for my husband, and then he will usually bring me some flowers or some candy, and he usually brings the kids candy, and we all have dinner together as a family. Nothing really romantic. Just a nice dinner and a couple of gifts. Of course my oldest is old enough to baby sit this year, but I still don't think we will do anything though.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
17 Jan 11
Sorry, can't be any inspiration to u. Mine will be just like yours. Maybe if i get lucky my grndson will give me a valentine.If he does i'm sure that will be the only one i get. I hope someone surprises u.
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I will be spending the vallinties days with my gf. it will be the second one we spent together. what we will do I am not for sure yet. be dinner and a movie just depends. but I understand how you feel, I had a non-existant love life for a long time and alwasy wondered if I would meet someone. there were one or two valitiens days when I was very lonely but I delt with it. but that was a long time ago.
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
17 Jan 11
I am not in a relationship either. It will be just like any other day for me. I might do something a little bit special. I might do something that only single people can do. I will be glad when it is over though. Even the years that I was in a relationship, Valentines Day didn't really work out well. I am not a big fan of the day. I think you should show how you feel and be appreciated all year, not just one day.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
17 Jan 11
Hi dear, For me, Valentine’s days have not much of importance. The reason is the same, I don’t have a hearty person to share the specialities of valentine’s day with anyone. So, it will be a normal day as usual. But I can see people enjoying around by sharing flowers and cards and even more attracted each other on the day. Regards, Thank-s
17 Jan 11
I have not really been into valentines day myself for a while. I guess in one way it is a good thing as it does save me money on not buying anyone anything, but on the other hand i miss out on having someone in my life that i both love and care about. Yet again i am sure that i will have yet another loely valentines day, well i mean lonely in that i will possibly not be in a relationship by then, but won't be lonely at home as i have my son here who lives with me, he is my priority really. I would hope that this year i could find the right woman for me, and also hope that she gets on well with my son and he gets on well with her. I normally am always in a relationship but lately as my son has just turned 3 last week he has took up most of my time and as i said he is my priority. Now that he is more independant and older i am able to do more now so maybe i will get the chance to meet new people, just joined a parenting group so you never know, anything could happen. I guess we still have a month to go so let us just see what happens in that time.
@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
i have never went out on a date during Valentine's day with a guy. never did i receive a gift from a boyfriend during those times that i'm still in a relationship. well, that's as far as i can recall. my sister and i together with her boyfriend went out one time couple of years ago on a valentines day and that was the last date i have ever experience in my whole life.. hahaha.. i don't know this year. though am going out with this guy but we're kind of making it a secret for a moment.
@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Mine will be the same as yours. In a way I like it because the few Valentines days I did have a boyfriend, it was not a good experience. Imagine being taken out to eat and being yelled at right at the table. Or they get angry because they 'had' to buy something. I dated a lot of jerks! In fact, I do not remember a Valentines day with someone special that was special and nice. Eh, well. No matter. The pride and I will have a nice day. I will give them nippy toys to play with (I have a box of catnip and dip new toys in it, so they go crazy when I give it)
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Don't make a big fuzz about valentine's Day. Think of it as an ordinary day. Now if the hang of it cannot escape you, then plan for yourself to be with a group of your friends and enjoy with them during that day. Now, if you have found someone to share it with, then talk to him about it and maybe offer to split the expenses of having a dinner with him during that day. That way, you will have a sure date on valentine. LOL My husband and i plan to eat in a restaurant when Valentine's Day comes. We always do that every Valentine's.
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hi apples, I don't have a love life too.......i used to celebrate this day with my Bestfriend but since she is not around i have a choices accept an invitation from someone, just stay home or go out with girl friends . Valentines day is not just for lovers because everyday we can celebrate love so cheer up just accept an invitation from one of your suitors . happy posting
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
haven't thought of what to do on valentine's day.maybe because it'll just be another ordinary day for me.i don't have love-life right now or someone special.maybe i'll just cook something special for the people close to me.
@androbot (89)
• India
16 Jan 11
My valentines is going to be kinda boring as well. I have my exams coming up in February and Valentines cannot be celebrated under exam pressure! So, yes... I am with you on this one. We both are going to have a boring Valentines!