I believe I have ability!

China
February 24, 2011 8:55am CST
Hi,my friends! Good evening,everyone! I will sleep soon,but I thinked a question 4 minutes ago.(lol)Do I have ability?I'm not sure how much abilities I have.But after I reviewed my discussions I sent this week.Then I'sure I have ability.It's a short thinking and reviewing,but I can get my confidence from them.I was satisfied with the things I did and I got.Thanks mylot a lot. Don't look down upon yourself.Everyone has ability to take their own life by themselves. Do u have any questions about yourself?Or even do u feel inferior? Do u doubt your own ability? Thanks your reading!!! Have a nice dream!!!
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14 responses
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
Cogito ergo Sum. I think therefore I am. At times I would doubt my ability, yet it is never the right option to compare yourself to anyone else. You are your own person. You are unique. I began to realize that the worst enemy anyone could ever have is themselves.
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend. What does your first sentence mean?I can't understand,it means that I have no ability?lol~~~ We are all ourselves!
@kindas (44)
• China
27 Feb 11
I think that with his first sentence he had the intention to point out the direct opposite. The sentence means, that if you are aware of your self, than your awareness leads to you existenve ( bad translation, i learned this interpretation in chinese). So what i would think is that if you believe that you have an ability, it could well be so or turn into one. Or he could mean that thinking is an ability too. And the worst enemy
@kindas (44)
• China
27 Feb 11
I think that with his first sentence he had the intention to point out the direct opposite. The sentence means, that if you are aware of your self, than your awareness leads to you existenve ( bad translation, i learned this interpretation in chinese). So what i would think is that if you believe that you have an ability, it could well be so or turn into one. Or he could mean that thinking is an ability too.
• United States
25 Feb 11
Wanting to find ways to feel good is the key to really staying happy and positive. Looking in your life for those things that make you feel fun, worthy, and excited is really the only way to truly realizing your potential for greatness. I really do believe anyone can do anything they want to do, depending upon how much they want it and how much they think about it. Sometimes I get down but I soon realize that the key to feeling better is thinking better feeling thoughts, like that I love sharing my opinion with other writers that enjoy expressing their beautiful selves.
• United States
27 Feb 11
Since you're so young and you're male, do you have any words of wisdom for a younger male? If you had a friend, mid-teens, that always "sees the glass" as not only half-empty but spilled, broken, and shattered, or full but only of poison - what would you say? (Ignoring the fact that you probably wouldn't choose to spend time with someone with that mindset.) Do you have any ideas on how to show someone like that a way out?
• China
10 Apr 11
Yeah,that's why I just do what I want,I can do thm better.If I'm interested in them,I will put myself on it,lol...I can find happiness and success from it. But sometimes I can't decide many things in my life,I must study something I really don't like,I must meet someone I hate everyday,what can I do? Sorry for my late response,coz I'm too busy to do many boring things in my daily life.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
24 Feb 11
You do have a lot of ability! Most people do and they don't even know it. I often remember complaining to people that I felt like I didn't do enough. That was mostly because I wanted to do more things that would help people. My average week, I was working a full time job in a mail room, working about 20 hours a week at a grocery store, attending college classes online, and volunteering for the Red Cross. The last was the one I wanted to do more of, but I didn't have time. I would tell people that I didn't feel like I did enough and they would ask me what more I could do with the time I had available. I always felt bad, but I was doing a lot more than most people did. I wasn't lazy, but I did feel inferior because I couldn't do the things I wanted to. Thanks for bringing this up! And have a good sleep!
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend! Thanks your sharing your experience. I think u have do enough to help others or for yourself.Just keep on. Have a good rest wen u feel tired,I think u r busy every day for so many work. I'm not lazy too,if I'm lazy,I won't discuss here ervery day,I would go to sleep and shop with my friends or do any other things,lol~~~I'm just a student now,I don't know what I can do and do well.(I'm finding) I feel someone poor when they don't know they have abilities.I hope they can find themselves. Don't be inferior,if u just think yourself as that,What am I then? Have a good time!
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@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Thanks for the words of encouragement! We are hard-working people if we come in here every day while doing other things. After next week, I may not be able to get in here as often because I am starting my next class. I am working on a Master of Education with an emphasis on English Language Learners. I still hope to know what I want to be when I grow up (an I am over 50!). Have a great day!
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 11
One must have confident to themselves, if you have confident towards yourself, you will have the ability to do anything, including those things that you think is not possible. So, train yourself to be confident and you will have the ability to do anything.
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 11
Nice to meet you too!
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend! That's I really want to say:to be confident.When we have confident,we get energy and power to do things,we can control the situations what will happen! Hope we can have a nicer talking next time!!! Have a good time!
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
24 Feb 11
Our ability to do things comes from learning how to do things and then doing them. As we practice we become efficient. When I was young i would probably have answered yes to all those questions. But not any more. I don't question myself much, dont feel inferior, and don't doubt my abilities. You won't either are you develop.
@ptower76 (1616)
• United States
25 Feb 11
You know, us older folks don't say we get older. We get better. lol
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my dear friend! U r really confident of yourself,but it's a good thing.I was the person just like u before,I think I have much abilities,but I feel I have no abilities when I get older and older.But now I feel good confident,lol~~~ I believe that I can get more abilities with my developing. Have a good time!
@tkonlinevn (6345)
• Vietnam
25 Feb 11
I often have this question when I want to look for a new job. I need to know clearly about my ability to choose suitable jobs. I sometimes doubt my abilities. At that time, I usually ask helps from my close friends or my boyfriends.
• Vietnam
25 Feb 11
As me, we should ask around people. Because we sometimes can't know about ourself such as them. They can say to us many useful things which we maybe never know before.
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend! I would doubt my ability when I fair in my exam or can't do somethign I really want.But I have never asked the question before.I'm afraid that the answer is NO,lol~~~I would be sad,really~~~ Have a nice talk with your friends or boyfriend when u feel sad! Take care!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
28 Mar 11
Yes, I have the ability to do what I have to do in life. I can feel many things that need to be felt. I never doubt my ability. I just hold onto it and grasp it.
• China
10 Apr 11
How confident u r...But it's a good thing,sometimes I doubt myself when I meet something problem.It's really upset,but so what?It's ok,I would find more good things to do...Agree?
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
24 Feb 11
Everyone should believe in ability. it is something we all have whether we realize it or not. Ability is what can sustain and motivate our lives.
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend, We must find them by ourselves before we die.lol~~~ And use them to do something we want to. Think about yourself,u may have some abilities u still can't find. Thanks your reading and replying!!! Have a good time!
@larrychen (165)
25 Feb 11
Yeah, sometimes I would doubt whether I have enough ability to fulfill what I am doing or what I am going to do or what I should do. That's because I am not condident with myself. Until now, I am still not so sure about what a future I will get, although I am working hard for a better and better one. But, I am learning to enjoy my present life. What's a happy life? How to get a happy life? What should we live for? Those are always the questions occurs to me. No matter how great or little ability I have, I will always do my best to create a life I really desire. Then, that's enough. Since I am living a happy life, I am confident enough with myself, then I believe that I have the ability!
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend! U must be sure that u have gotten enough ability,and u may know what a future u would get!Just touch it! What's happy life?It's that knowing how to enjoy your present life. U live for the better living...Agree? Have a good time!
@sy0712 (155)
• China
25 Feb 11
You are very capable,I think your ability is very strong.We must believe in ourselves are very capable,on many things are very talented.If your want to succeed,you must believe in yourself,believe you can do it,so,come on!
• China
25 Feb 11
Hi,my friend! Thanks your believe in my ability. I would believe that I have strong ability and can do many things talented.Thanks your encouragement.I will try my best to do better. Hope u also believe in yourself,not just believe others,be confident in yourself. Thanks your reading and replying. Have a sweet time!
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
10 Apr 11
It is always good to evaluate your abilities in various areas of your life. Everyone has abilities in their on measurement. It's rewarding to discover your own abilities. Especially when you can do something successfully.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
25 Feb 11
Well i like to think i have an ability. People around me and my friends say i act and sing good. I love singing and acting a lot actually. So i love these compliments :) And i think everyone has some ability.. No one is not gifted.
• China
10 Apr 11
The only one is that we can't find our ability,and can't use them to bring value.Thanks god,at least I know what ability I have,and use them adequately.And u?Cna u find more from yourself?
@sharic19 (67)
• United States
26 Feb 11
Yes. I know all of us has a certain or unique ability in life. We should just only need to developed our self-confidence to this to others. Showing your abilities to others are a good virtue too.
• China
10 Apr 11
yes,that's why we can own much ability,we must develop ourselves and do good to others,so what ability u have?A lot?
• China
24 Mar 11
All the same ,i believe i have the ability.we all have ability.the difference is how we use.sometimes i will feel a little upset when i compare with other people.as a matter of fact , totally no need.only you have confidence ,anything is possible.so trust yourself.
• China
10 Apr 11
Sometimes we can't decide anything just coz we have the different ability,so we have different work,lol~~~ U just got married?If yes,god bless u,u just have the ability to get marry,yeah?lol~~~