Heading back to the real world

@GreenMoo (11834)
March 4, 2011 1:58am CST
Those of you who have been following my postings for the past few weeks will know that I've been on a residential course. I've been away from home for nearly 7 weeks now. But today is the last day. Each group here presents around lunchtime then we wind down and the course officially finishes around 5pm. It was a dreadful job getting my sleeping bag back in my rucksack this morning, but it's all packed and sat by my bed ready to grab as I run out the door later. I've a couple of stops to see family and friends, then I'll be home early next week. On the one hand I'm excited to be about to see my family again and to be able to put all this knowledge to use, but on the other I'm sad to leave this place where I've learned so much and met so many diverse people who have become friends. Life at home has gone on without me, and although I've kept in touch with the aid of technology, it's hard to imagine all the little stuff that's gone on. I feel like I've been in a state of suspended animation! How would you feel about leaving your home and family for seven weeks? How would you be feeling right now?
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
4 Mar 11
I'm not sure I could be away from home for 7 weeks.. I doubt my family would survive without me, LOL. The longest I've been away is for a weekend, and that was hard enough. Seemed like the moment I left I started missing everyone. I'm sure you're really glad to be getting home! Does that mean we won't be seeing you around here anymore?
@GreenMoo (11834)
4 Mar 11
I think mine have been living on pancakes . I'm missing them dreadfully and really counting the hours now. Sadly it does mean I won't be around so much again. I've been taking advantage of having internet access fully whilst I've been here, but I'll be back to sporadic use once I'm home.
@GreenMoo (11834)
4 Mar 11
It's not for want of trying to get internet at home! I paid for it well over 2 years ago now and am still waiting ....
• United States
4 Mar 11
You'll be missed! I hope you're able to come back slightly more frequently than you could before. I couldn't imagine life without my internet!
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
6 Mar 11
I think I would feel really anxious and also some excitement at the same time. I would feel uneasy of the unknown and what's to come but also eager for what I'll be adding to my experiences also.
@GreenMoo (11834)
6 Mar 11
the time away has really broadened my experiences, so that's been a real plus and the whole trip has been very worthwhile. I'll be pleased to be home again, nonetheless.
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@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
7 Mar 11
That sounds like a great experience. What were some of the things you learned from all of it?
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@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Jun 11
Sorry it's taken me so long to respond! The course was called Sustainable Land Use and incorporated a Permaculture Design Course. Since I've been home i've been mentally busy trying to implement all my learning, and the course so inspired me that we are hosting our own Permaculture Design course here starting this week.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
5 Mar 11
I lived in Germany for thre years and had several jobs that took me away for varying degrees of time up to 3 months. I hated leaving but once my journey was underway I was fine. You adapt to your circumstance and sometimes it's nice to not be home. Not always though. Coming home was always great. I'd pack the night before and would urge the car, train, plain or boat to hurry up. I remember once in Herford in Germany having to go for a walk as I was ready an hur before the car came to take me to the airport. That's when I learned how to say "welcome" in several diferent languages as they were all posted in a school window. Curiously though "Welcome" in English translates as "F*ck Off"! I think that it was a comment on the British military who were there in large numbers then. Right now I'd be looking forward to home and family. Enjoy and safe journey.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
5 Mar 11
Depends where you are. Reading or Woking then there's the link bus which is very good. Anywhere else and you'd better start travelling tomorrow evening. Or perhaps a loving relation will drive you?
@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Mar 11
Being away has actually been a good opportunity to get some perspective on what we're doing back home. I'm sat at the moment trying to work out how on earth I'm going to make it to Heathrow first thing on Monday morning and wishing the whole thing were just over!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Mar 11
hi greenmoo sounds like you did have a great time but I bet you will be happy to be back home again. I know a little of what you are saying as I just got back to Gold Crest after having spent 20 days learning how to walk again on a twisted right knee from a bad fall right in front of the elevator here at Gold crest. broke my nose and blaced my eyes but the knee oh myG pain agony so now I am pretty well recovered still some pain but thankfully the pain pills stop that and at least I can walk again and care for myself again. odd you seem so isolated in a rehab hospital as its so much pills and physical therapy and thw outside world is going on just fine without you.so now I use a walker and walk slowly and carefully checking the floor in front of me as I go. lol odd how we think we are so important only to find that life goes on just fine without us at all. lol
@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Jun 11
I'm sorry Hatley that it's taken so long for me to respond to you. I do hope that you are fully recovered now.
@dong88 (795)
• China
5 Mar 11
Outside for a long time,miss most is his own family.Ha ha ,I also had more than a month on business in the field,when home of that day of,I feel how much joy and happiness ,because I will soon and family together.Bless you!
@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Mar 11
A month is also a long time. I bet your family were pleased to have you back home again.
@hibeth (28)
• China
5 Mar 11
I miss my family,I want to eat my mom's cook.but I can see them once a year. everytime I go home, I am so happy,everyone is so nice,and the food are so delicious.
@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Mar 11
I've visited my parents as part of this trip, and being cooked for has been really nice
@GardenGerty (157837)
• United States
5 Mar 11
I was away from my home for two weeks this last summer. I came home for a day or so, but the rest of the time i was a few hundred miles away, doing Federal census in a town I had only visited once before. I missed family and all that really was here to be missed was hubby and my adult son who lives with us. It felt really strange.
@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Mar 11
It's all the routines of home which we miss as much as the people. I find that I'm not very good at relaxing when I'm not at home.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
4 Mar 11
going off to college, and we didn't have electronic media to get in touch, only letters and the occasional phone call
@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Mar 11
My family haven't had internet at home for me to get in touch with them by, although I've had it at this end. We've been trying to make appointments to 'meet' online but the opening times of local internet facilities mean that I've hardly had any contact with my eldest child.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
4 Mar 11
I hope that you have really enjoyed your seven week residential course. It is always sad saying goodbye to the people known in the location and then a bit strange to be heading back home. You have made many friends and leaving them isn't easy. Understandably you have mixed feelings going off home. When I was a university student I went to live in the Netherlands for four months. I stayed in a house share with other students and went to courses three times a week. I loved seeing St Nicholas Day and having a Christmas party. Then it was back home and it was challenging catching up with all I had missed. The end of year exams were difficult to revise for and I had to borrow study notes. I stayed away just over one year on my trip around the world. I came home on crutches with a poorly leg after falling down a drain in Malaysia. It seemed cold weather when I got back home. Much had changed in the time that I had been away. I had a hard time when I got back because I was missing my travels and home seemed seem to be home anymore. It took me months to get used to being home again. Good luck with your homecoming.
@GreenMoo (11834)
4 Mar 11
thanks. I guess it will take me a while to settle back in but I hope it will be quicker than months!
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
4 Mar 11
I would be totally happy to return home....I don't like being away from my home and things too long..I am away from my family alot as my daughters both married military men and they live far away...my son however lives close and I miss the pieces out of my little granddaughter when I am gone!
@GreenMoo (11834)
4 Mar 11
I miss the routine things about home as well as my family. Being away is new and exciting, but after a while it just makes me tired!
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
4 Mar 11
Since I've gotten married, I haven't had to leave for very long. When I was young, I liked living with most other families better than my own, only my city cousins made me really, really want to go home and one other family. My city cousins were so distant from each other and the other family didn't eat real food, didn't even have milk in the house, just soda. So if the family was close and ate real food, I felt closer to them than my family for a little while. Take care
@GreenMoo (11834)
4 Mar 11
It's amazing how food is related to our sense of security. We were discussing yesterday how people in the aftermath of disaster have been known to turn down unfamiliar foods even in the face of starvation as it is so closely associated to our personal comfort.