Um... that was yesterday

United States
April 27, 2011 1:17pm CST
This morning Mother-in-law calls and asks if her Son (aka My Hubby)is home or awake? I said yeah he's up. She said she needed to call him and wish her only Son a Happy Birthday. I had to hold my tongue and politely say that was yesterday. She said well today is the 27th isn't it? I said yes it is. But his Birthday was on the 26th. I put my Hubby on the phone and he explained yet again how yesterday was his birthday. She even said FIL told her it was yesterday as she was talking to Hubby. Has someone who should know when your Birthday is ever forgotten?
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Apr 11
Nope, but I did once call my dad too early for his birthday. It's not that I forgot what his birthday was, it's that I got the actual date mixed up. In other words, I knew his birthday was the 24th, called on the 23rd thinking it was already the 24th.
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@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
28 Apr 11
That is something I would do as well. In fact, my dad has a birthday on the 24th, and I finally got it right.
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• United States
28 Apr 11
Now I would call a day early because of being busy so the person knows I did not forget them. BTW... Dawn... nice new pic of you!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 Apr 11
It's about 6 months old, but I don't think I've posted it here before...
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Hi. 3SnuggleBunnies. My mother-in-law forgets my Birthday too. She keeps on forgetting what day it is in the month. Well, that was nice of her to call her son and wish him a Happy Birthday. My mil once forgot her oldest daughter's birthday. She did not know that it was her birthday until her daughter told her mom that I gave her a birthday card. I guess that kind of made my mil feel as if it was a shame that she could not even remember her own daughter's birthday. But that is alright, hopefully your mil won't forget her son's Birthday next year.
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• United States
28 Apr 11
I hope not. Though she always teases "there's nothing special going on next month besides MY Birthday...." she does this on every important date... as my anniversary is next month & she's just being a smarty pants.
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• United States
30 Apr 11
Oh I just remembered that earlier this year my mother forgot my kid's birthday.. I can't remember which... it was either the twins (in November) or my youngest (in January). She posted the happy birthday on my Facebook a few days too early.. but early is better than late and at least she knew it was a birthday. It's not like she forgot it completely.
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• United States
3 May 11
Yeah she knew his Birthday was around then. But you know it's his Mom she was there when he was born she should surly know ;-)
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
28 Apr 11
My ex husband rarely remembered my birthday, I think there was only 1 time when he did but it was a doozy--he flew my mom and sister in and surprised me! It was my 40th and that made it really special. He never remembered anyone's birthday, though, so it wasn't really an insult. At least your MIL remembered even if she was late!
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@katsmeow1213 (28717)
• United States
27 Apr 11
That's pretty sad. You'd think the woman would know her own son's birthday. What's up with that.. is she losing it or something? Nothing like that has ever happened to me before. Though a few mmonths ago someone posted on my Facebook wall asking if it was my wedding anniversary. Now first off this person has known me my whole life and should remember when I got married.. second, my anniversary is posted on my Facebook information.. so that was kinda weird!
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• United States
28 Apr 11
I think she's been loosing it for some time. She tells the same stories over and over again. Like when it's time to sell GS cookies she's like "When I was a girl they were .25/box. Can you sell them to me at that price?" I know she's kidding but it's getting really old. And sometimes I wonder if it's something more? How strange on that friend asking you such a question. Perhaps it was someone elses anniversary and you were the first person that came to mind?
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• United States
30 Apr 11
My husband says I'm getting like his Mom with saying some stuff a few times. But you know sometimes I just forget who I mentioned what to and I who I didn't. I think I'm going senile some days myself. But I don't think I've said anything 20 times unless it's trying to ge tthe kids to do what they need to do. *LOL*
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• United States
29 Apr 11
LOL.. my foster mom got like that too. She wasn't losing it though.. she was just scatter brained and didn't pay much attention to what she was talking about. She'd ask me the same question 20 times.. then she'd go "Hey, did I ask you.." "Yes you did", "Did you answer me?", "Yes I did", "What was the answer?". LOL. She also told the same stories over and over. Of course she never forgot my birthday though!
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
27 Apr 11
I don't know how old this lady is but this might be a sign that she is in need of medical evaluation. It is very unusual for a Mother to forget the birthdate of her son.
• Canada
28 Apr 11
savypat....OWCH! I was just going to "fess" up here...and now you are having me think I should get in touch with the Dr's Office, first thing, this morning.....LOL! Guilty...as charged! I don't forget the DATE...I am just confused about what DATE it is today! WHY...because there are times in my job...like right now, I have been working 23 days straight, so I don't need to know the day or date..I just know I go to work tomorrow..so the date is NOT significant...only if I have an appointment! I lose track of days/times...my defense and I am sticking to it!
@Hucheng (163)
• China
28 Apr 11
They are becoming old when we dont realise that.Take good care of them .They give you birth.
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@neenie (343)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Is she getting old? Maybe you can just add that up to old age and forgetting. If she does this all the time, something is wrong... you aren't supposed to forget your son's birthday!
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
29 Apr 11
Personally I think this is only natural sometimes that people tend to forget, and even if she was a day late, it should be the thought that counts. I know myself sometimes life gets so busy with everything going on, it is hard to make sure and find the time to call everyone, or do everything on the days I really need to get something done. So unless it would have been like maybe a week later I would tend to not let one day worry you too much.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
28 Apr 11
Thank goodness.....for the clock on my computer, it keeps me in touch with TIME...but to keep my life in check, I need a CALENDAR there, too! I get right OFF track sometimes...as there are times I have worked up to 63 days straight, without a day OFF (like now..23)and it seems to discombobulate one..and days/dates lose their importance. I hate to admit, to keep me on track...for special occasions, personal & otherwise, I belong to a site that has great reminders---else I would be in the same boat as your MIL! Tacky, eh...but it keeps me in good steed, with family and friends!
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• United States
3 May 11
Well yeah I think I've conversed with you about working so much. I felt similar when I was a SAHM 100% of the time... every day was the same day to me because I had no where of importance to be usually. But now that I have a job myself I need to know those things as well.
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@missybear (11391)
• United States
29 Apr 11
I hate to admit it but when I was younger {teenager} I always forgot my moms Birthday. When I told my mom I was getting married and told her the date she said "That's my Birthday". Now for the last 28 years I have never forgotten my moms Birthday
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@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
27 Apr 11
That's a little sad. She is forgetting things now. I have never forgotten a Birthday of my children but do have trouble remembering their wedding anniversaries
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• United States
3 May 11
Even smarter is if you copy down whatever is on the calendar from year to year... I forget to do that and pitch the old w/o doing that. Yes I agree Kat will certainly have her hands full but atlest it's really only 4 dates to remember since you do have a set of twins. @Cynthie - I"m not good at anniversaries either especially ones that I wasn't alive or around to witness the nuptuals of said couple.
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• United States
30 Apr 11
It's hard to keep so many dates in line. I can't imagine how much fun it will be for me when my kids marry off and have their own kids.. then I have 5 kids birthdays to remember, 5 wedding anniversaries.. and who knows how many grandkids birthdays... getting a headache already just thinking about it! I think keeping a calendar of these events is a smart idea!
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@zralte (4178)
• India
27 Apr 11
Sorry, I could not help it. It is good to know there are other people other than my in-laws who forget their children's birthday. Though the grandmother always remembers, my husband's mom never remembered. I don't really blame them, as my husband don't remember anyone's birthday (he sometimes forget his own birthday)
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• United States
28 Apr 11
I'd like to forget my own Birthday as well it's just another day and never anything special planned since I've been a SAHM. We recall immediate families birthdays but not the extended or the relatives out west we do not see or visit really.
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• United States
28 Apr 11
Hi there, I could understand if she thought it was the 26th when in fact it is the 27th but to not remember the exact date, hmm this is odd for a mother to do. Okay although not an excuse I can somewhat understand the dad not remembering as I know some like that but the mother is a new thing for me. Hopefully she is not getting Alzheimer or something like that, and hopefully it was just a one time event. It was only a day off, so I believe that is a good sign. Happy belated birthday to you hubby.
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• United States
30 Apr 11
I thought it was unusual for her to think it was a totally a different day. I agree if she thought that the day was the right day and indeed it wasn't is another.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
I guess your mother-in-law was already confused of the right dates. Maybe your hubby is not his only child, so i guess she gets the dates muddled up. In addition, maybe she's already older so she's like that already. What is important is that she remembered that it's your hubby's birthday.
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@tink91879 (742)
• United States
28 Apr 11
I have noticed lately my dad thinks my birthday is on the 19th, but its the 18th. The past cpl years I have thought he has forgotten, but than he calls on the 19th. Took me two years to figure out. Hes not that old, but i guess old enough to get a cpl dates mixed up. I dont think of it to much. he still calls to wish me a Happy birthday, just a day late. The only thing is it saddens me to know somewhere in his brain of only 57 years he has mixed my birthday up. I love my Dad though and know he means no harm so i always say ty and now I know the 19th he will call. At least he has the month right.
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@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
28 Apr 11
I had a hard time for many years getting my dad's birthday right, because Mom got it mixed up once and I confused it with a friend's birthday as well. So, his birthday is the 24th, mom made a very elaborate cake once on the 19th, and then we had a friend who had a birthday on the 21st. Now I remember, because hubby's birthday is the 4th, so his is obviously the 24th.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
27 Apr 11
lol. one year my then fiance (now hubby) forgot my birthday. needless to say that was the last one he forgot!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
1 Jul 11
I suppose he is used to it though, right? Yes that has happened to me but I got used to it. I have great aunts that always send me a belated birthday card, though last year they were right on mark when it came to sending it I do believe.