About Getting along with mylotters

Hi Letran! You talkin' about me again? do you think you're getting along with other mylotters well? I could get on with one and all but I know that not all of them want to get on with me. Some misunderstand the way I express myself and I am considered harsh, strict and even a know-it-all by some. This doesn't alter the way I am though because if those people took a step back and a few more seconds to read again they just might get a different impression. There are also people who take things personally and very seriously and don't realise that they could loosen up a bit on here. This is a fun place and no point in coming here to vent our anger, bash or stab - unless of course they have so many offline frustrations that they have no other place to let go. In that case some of us will be their targets and c'est la vie. Best that they take it out on someone who can put up with it rather than another who might crumble I have always said that myLot is a slice of life therefore, just like offline, we have no choice but to take the good, which is the majority, with the bad.

Everybody can use and respect the word "diversification". With a diversified community, like what we have here in myLot, a lot of cultural, personal, belief and principle clashes may ensue. Of course, it is the responsibility of the people if they will get too caught up on a comment or criticism. Much like in the real world, "living" (or posting/commenting in the case of myLot) has responsibility always been tagged with it. You can be wrong or right at what you are trying to say but in additional you should be responsible enough of what you are doing. So with this post, I think it all boils down to the choice of an individual on how he will get along with others. Each individual have the options, it's just a matter of how they will use those options. You can choose to be the troll, the liar, the popular or the losers. Your choice. But the bottom line is just be responsible for that choice you made. I hope I made some points here to ponder.

dear LK, I always tried to be good with having relationship here in mylot. I always tried to be good with mylotters,even if they don't agree with my topic and respond with arguments i always stayed away from debate and respond/comment back nicely. Things changed just recently...and i do admit that i become mad..of not so mad,i just express my feelings freely when someone wrote something that i find "foul" (ok you know that) No matter how we tried to be good when some are there to annoy and made statements that is not good esp when it regards to a specific community...we cannot control ourselves. okay ...i still keep a good relationship with mylotters...i am keeping as possible as I can.. ..thu..we can not please everyone... have a great week days my dear brother

I've got to agree with this one. MyLot is like the real world with all the bad stuff included. I admit, I can be an @sshole but I only become one when the other is being an @sshole to me. I try to prove my point in an acceptable conduct but you really can't avoid miscommunication here. One phrase can mean the other to another user and that is a potential flame war. Some even get mad so easily once you tell them that you disagree with their point and these are the people I honestly don't get, and don't have the time "getting". The thing is, if you don't wanna accept my point that's fine, that will always be my point. You can't change how people think by getting angry at them, let alone starting a flame war because of it. If they don't want to accept it, that's their problem anymore, not mine. As for the trolls, I've been attacked by one and I didn't like it. That was when I still cared about my user rating. Now they can do pretty much what they want with it: rank me negatively or whatever, I'll still be able to post here and respond to discussions however I like. My point is, I have a life and obviously they don't that's why they think ruining other people's ratings can make a person mad. Backstabbers, I haven't encountered one before. I only have one friend here in real life and, so far he's staying away from my girlfriend. Beauties, hmmmm... there are a lot here, I just can't decide who. Brains, I've encountered a number of them and most of their discussions I just passed by simply because I couldn't understand what they're trying to say. Handsome, that's obviously me. :P (ran out of smileys) Populars, they're all over the place sprinkling their popularity to the myLot community. Losers, so far their numbers are decreasing but that's just my count. Liars, I may be one of these too but you won't even know if what I've put up here is a lie, right?LOL

Hello there, We all here have a choice to whom you along with the question is, are those people you want are happy along with you, so the feeling should be mutual inorder to have a common feelings to each other.. Do I make little bit romantic scene... nope my point is we are all aiming here that if you make a discussion "it should be" blockbuster or everybody puts a comments and become active discussion.. The question is how to do that - is there any technique required but one of mylotter revealed that not secret or technique here of having good discussion or good reputation among others. Speaking of reputation thats is the right word I'm looking for getting along with other mylotters... then enjoyment will be us....

Hello LK I think i get along well with all MYLOTTERS. there is difference of opinions sometimes but that is natural as every one has different ways of seeing things.Has there be not a clash in opinions we can't reach to solution of any problem. There have been instances in my life in MYLOT when i had some heated arguments with people but that doesn't mean i take it seriously i forgot that after logging out from that discussion.I don't take things very seriously as this is the part of life & you have to live with the people who may not think at the same wavelength as you do.

I get along with other mylotters, well I think I do. I try and stay out of the heated discussions to avoid those types. Not everybody can get along with each other, just like in our everyday life outside of mylot. Somewhere down the line your bound to come across a few of those kind of people and usually they don't last long here anyway...I've been here for 5years and have seen plenty come and go... There is such a wide range of people here surly we're bound to clash with someone...

I try to get along with everyone here. I do not have the time to argue with other people online. I work on here every day and I respect everyone else's views. We do not always have to agree on everything but I will not argue with them about my thoughts either.

My long tenancy in mylot has taught me one thing, there is no permanent foes in mylot. We have to accept the fact that we are interacting with unknown people who might be in different seasons (moods) and not to take matters too personal. I have acquired many friends here who thrilled me with their colorful characters. Some are serious while some are witty. Some are super-sensitive while some are open minded. Regardless of their ages, I can fit in to everyone's whims and fancies without problem. That may explain the reason of my unfading passion in mylotting. I believe I am friends to all unless there are wolf in sheep's kind which I am not aware of.

I think I get along with the majority of mylotters, but I know there are a few I'd rather do without, but the only thing I can do is not have these people as a friend. That way it is harder for them to find any post I start, yet they can and do find me on my friends discussions.

I think I get along pretty well with everyone here. Most of the people I "know" are ones that I can disagree with but it doesn't get hostile and they are friendly--when the discussion/disagreement is over, it is over and forgotten. Most of my interactions are very pleasant.

I get along very well with the people I´m most interested in. But even though I accept a lot of friends, not all of them are my friends. And I cannot and will not answer a lot of posts by people who have asked me to be my friends but who are only wanting to earn a bit more. I only answer a few posts so I have to choose the ones I´m really interested in. Many are not made by a friend. If someone does not like what I do it is a pity because it is the only thing I can do and no more. As for the use of language, my native language is not English. So. I think that before getting mad at me because I did not word my thoughts in a good way, they can learn Spanish and have the same discussion in my language Take care!

Hi Letran, I enjoy being a member here which includes enjoying a great deal of members and I interactions. I am not aware if some do not get along with me, or at least I have never been directly told. I post with full honesty and only to anything I find of interest. I do not intentionally go looking for debates as I come here specifically to enjoy my time. I don't take likings to debates offline and or online so I would rather skip any debating situations. Like offline life, while online there are differences of opinions and while I respect everyone for theirs I would hope mine is respected as well. It is a wonderful community and would hope all that utilize it continue to do so in a healthy manner for all.

hi lk, Am I one of them? Oh well don't worry I still want you to be my friend even you are a snobbish one hahaha!besides we have moods like what you said I hope that I don't hurt any mylotters here except the one who always accusing me for stabbing his heart . happy mylotting

Well thankfully till date I have really faced no problems in getting along in mylot. Regarding getting response, even sometimes my discussions also finds no takers. I think may be what is of my interest, may not be interesting to others. So I do not mind. I feel most of my friends respond to my discussions and I am grateful to them for responding positively.

I don't think so. Do we get along Let? Am I okay to talk with? I have friends here in Mylot, virtual friends and that include you Let. I treat you as one. I have Neil, Annavi, hex before I do not know where he is. There are Lilyofthorns, secretbear,redamethyst, piya, sorry for those I forgotten. I think I get along because I am on the safe side. I do not battle with other views, I just accept some response which are offensive, I do not treat it negative as it may give me some difficulty about my condition now. And I choose topic now. I am not sure with this one, maybe I get along or not, but I am okay with everyone. If they do not comment on my response, that is fine, if they did and they do not agree I just let them be. Again, people are different and we have to respect them and hopefully they do the same to us.

I am not having any problems and that may be due to the fact that I haven’t had time to start any new discussions and upset anybody! I do my very best to be polite and diplomatic whenever I can but there have been some tense moments during the time I have been a member here. They happened a long time ago and thankfully everything has been peaceful since then but, as I said, I am not as active as I used to be….

Hi LK! Being with mylot, I felt being heard and get a chance to express myself. Aside from being attached with art, I also love to be with my best friend- my laptop all the time ... Because, here I can do a lot of things for school, for the office and everything. Anyway, I only get along with few here specially those whom I have interacted consistently. Sometimes I also encounter responses that are not that pleasant but I just ignore them, I used to focus on positive and pleasant topics only. Everybody is entitled to his own opinion, but I admire it most when that opinion gives beautiful thoughts to everyone. Well, I am not sure too if everything that I have said is pleasant to other peoples ear. :-l