Stupid friends

@SomeCowgirl (32189)
United States
June 27, 2011 9:18am CST
I have a friend that is just sooo.. well there are a lot of things that she does that annoys me. One of these things is that me and her traded with things, which is fine I do owe her the stuff, but she is so impatient about it. I know I am impatient about it too but she is impatient in the sense that she feels she is entitled to the stuff. Truth be told she annoys me in other ways that I may just continue to ignore her and sell the stuff I need to get sold and buy a phone card for my phone like I really should. When you know you are entitled to something do you act obnoxious about it? are you impatient with it? Like I said being impatient with it is quite fine, I can understand that but I feel like you should not be obnoxious like you feel you are entitled to the stuff. In fact, the stuff I am giving her is probably of higher value then what she gave me. I'm seriously considering ignoring her and selling the stuff to someone else and getting the money and going to get myself a phone card so that I can better myself (find a job). What do you think?
3 responses
@celticeagle (189957)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Jun 11
What do I think? I think I just answered this! Why is she your friend? Time? History? Things in common? I wouldn't like her acting obnoxious but maybe there is a trust issue. I am a very impatient person. If you two had a pact that you were making a sort of exchange and she has done her part. Now she is waiting for hers. I think I would be impatient and probably act a bit obnoxious. Word between friends is to be honored. What would you do and how would you feel if the tables were turned and you were waiting for stuff you were promised by your good friend? How would you feel and how would you act? Think about it!
@AishaBR (345)
• United States
27 Jun 11
Wll I never had a friend like this. If you do owe her the stff and you are taking long to give it to her then I can understand her being so impatient. But as a friend she should be givin you some time as well and undertand your situation. But that is your friendship with her. I never had a friend like that and I am not like tha towards my friend so I really don't know what to tell you. Just do what you think you should do, a way that everyone can win.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
27 Jun 11
I know exactly what you mean. I am prompt on just about everything. When someone like that continues to drive me nuts about something I am going above and beyond to give them and they do stuff like that to me, I go ashead and give it and then I am done with the so-called friendship. People like that drive me insane.