Do talking take your mind off your pain, well some of it anyway

@jugsjugs (12967)
July 28, 2011 9:11pm CST
I think by a way of being on here it sometimes help if i have pain, or i am stresses about something.I feel that if you keep your mind busy that can sometimes help, but not always.There are always things to talk about, so you would never get bored, that is for sure and this is a great site i have found to come and chat about any thing, as well as everything.
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@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
29 Jul 11
Over the years MyLot has helped me a lot to take my mind off of things that are bothering me, or that are causing me pain. I do not have a lot of physical pain, but some things really upset me, and it is better when I am somewhere that takes my mind somewhere else.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I will say, that i joined this site, knowing that it was a great site to come to that would help with stress.I was told to try to keep my mind busy, as that is a great way to escape from all the worries of the day as well as help with trying to ignore the pain.
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@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
25 Oct 11
I was thinking of you earlier today. Hope things are going okay.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
With the winter nearly here and the cold, things could be better,lol.I am still on the morphine, also all the pills, but have better days than others.Hope you are keeping well.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
29 Jul 11
Depends on what kind of pain you are talking about. Physical pain, it won't help much simply by talking or chatting with someone, you still would feel hurt, otherwise, you can find something to numb your wound. If emotional or mental pain, you can divert such pain by chatting with someone to venting your sadness. You might feel much better after talk about it.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
It takes my mind off looking at the clock, knowing that i still have another hour or so until i take my meds for the pain.I think that it is a great way to also have adult conversation, with people that have the same interests as i do.There are things that we can put down on here rather than telling a person as well.I do feel better as in less stressed when i come on here.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
29 Jul 11
yes I think as you are responding or posting here you think on that and dont pay attention much to any thing else
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
25 Oct 11
there sure is
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
This is a great site to take your mind off lots of things that are going on in your life.It is great that there are loads of people that still come on this site to chat.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
2 Aug 11
Worse than physical pain, I think the emotional kind is harder to deal with. Specially if you have no one to turn to, to at least help ease the pain. Second best to having a friend to spill your guts out is an avenue for it to be expressed. And I think myLot is just that. I too come here when I have some troubles.
@ksherrie (891)
• Singapore
2 Aug 11
Hi bounce, how are you? i agree that emotional kind of pain is harder to deal with than physical ones...But sometimes, talking do not necessary take away those emotional pain. Its just temporary makes you not to think about it. To me, expressing it will make it worse, it will re-light that pain in me. In my case, making myself busy or start a new interest/hobby helps me forget the pain, making it easier to talk about or even forgotten.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
2 Aug 11
Hi ksherrie. I guess people are really different. As talking about it 're-lights' the pain in you, I would rather have it written down somewhere as I can visualize the pain somewhere else, instead of being within me.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
29 Jul 11
Yes, I believe that talking will get our mind off something that is burdening us at the time. Especially when we talk of the problem that we have. Others may not have any solution to our problem, but once we talked it over, it eases our burden and usually lead us to several options of solutions to take.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I find that being on here no matter what time of the day or night it really can help to get rid of some stress and if we have a problem with things that are in our life, then this is the place that we can come to chat about things and get other peoples opinions.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 11
That is right. Often it is easier to talk to strangers because they would not judge us cause they do not know us in real. Although some of them would act so knowingly, still we can treat it as an amusement.
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
29 Jul 11
Hi jugs! I think it's good to talk and air out what you feel. But not so much as being attached to that pain. Let it out there and then move on. Life is filled with wonderful things. Bad things shouldn't weigh us down. They should make us stronger.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I agree that it is great that this site is here, as there are always people on here that we can chat to no matter what about.You are right that bad things should never weigh us down and here is a place that i come to, just to escape from the things that are really bothering me.Helps being able to discuss the things that are bothering us.
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
25 Oct 11
'Atta do it! Smile always and keep that positive outlook in life!! Stay happy!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
5 Aug 11
You said it here for sure. I know there are many times when I am really feeling Stressed and hurting, and many times feeling depressed, by being able to come in here and post as I can, it really helps to be able to take my mind off the pain and everything else going on around me. Right now there are many issues going on and being able to relate with others and their advice is a Great thing for sure. Personally, I cannot imagine being anywhere else.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Nov 16
I feel like when we all come on here it is a place that we can really relate to, plus take off things that are constantly on our minds. It also distance us for a while to always in the backs of our minds. Hope you are keeping well.
@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
29 Jul 11
I do find that coming here does help me set aside my pain by giving me something else to think about.
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Jul 11
Yes, everything and anything to be sure! I am the Queen of Stress. Panic attacks are fun. It is a great site isn't it. It is nice to be able to chat or post about anything and get all of that out. I have ranted afew times. LOL It really does help and it is great to have these online friends!
@celticeagle (159058)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Oct 11
It is nice and to get paid for it is even better, eh?
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I will say panic attacks are not a thing that i have, thankfully.I think this is a great way to get to chat to people and it helps to relieve the stress that i am feeling right now.I am so pleased that there is a site like this that i can come to, just to chat away to people.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
29 Jul 11
This may work for many people, but for me it doesn't. If I am in sever pain I am working so hard in my mind to overcome it that others who are talking to me are just a distraction unless they are helping my overcome the pain. I am never bored and am so centered on escape from the pain that I am not good company for sure.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I also suffer from severe pain, but it is the case of having to do something to stop clock watching until the next dose of meds for the pain.I get to the stage of scratching skin that is already bleeding if i do not keep my hands busy.I get grumpy when i am in pain and that is not fair to all the people that i live with, so i try to keep myself amused.
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@Humbug25 (12540)
4 Aug 11
Hi there jugsjugs Yes mylot is certainly a good way of taking your mind off things or even getting things off your chest. Sometimes coming on here and talking about what is bothering you can be a great help. Sometimes if I am feeling stressed or anxious I don't feel like coming on mylot as I like to keep my discussions and responses upbeat and feel that my mood would reflect what I have to say.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Nov 16
Feeling stressed helps me come on here and have a bit of human conversation. I feel it is a lot better trying to get things off your chest to people that you may not know in real life. At the moment I am stressing about christmas. Stressing about all my childrens bed rooms they wont tidy and im to unwell to sort it.
• Canada
29 Jul 11
If you are in pain, then Im sorry and will send good energy your way to help you get rid of the pain. I usually can forget my pain when Im reading or watching a good movie. Those two always work for me. Good luck !!
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
The pain is awful, no matter what i do i can not get rid of it and i can not get rid of the itching that i get when i am stressed out about the pain.It is like a waiting game, trying to hold out and wait for the next dose of morphine.I feel that there are times when i have just sat in tears in pain, not knowing what to do, so i now come on here to try to pass the time and have a chat with people that are great for discussions in taking my mind off the time.
@sreesai (215)
• India
29 Jul 11
Hi jugsjugs, I feel the stress will flow out from the body if we talk bout the internal pain we have with a good friend. yes, this is a good site where we can share our thoughts, take advise on anything. Actually I was in depression in past, when I started using this mylot I am out of it by either reading different topics or answering different topics or starting new discussion. Having mylot account is like having so many good friends.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I get stressed a lot, as there are things that i want to do and can not do anymore, due to my health.There are people that i want to go and see, but i can not, as i am home bound now and can not get out to see people.This is a great site to come on and chat about all issues that are going on in our lives, also at the same time chatting to friends that we have made on here.
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• Philippines
1 Aug 11
You are so right. Talking and sharing ideas like here in mylot would take mind off the pain. It really helps to forget the pain. Also taking and sharing your problems is an effective way to decrease the pain somehow.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Nov 16
I feel that it is a lot easier to talk to people on here rather than to talk to some friends, that way your friends do not know all that is going on in your life.
• United States
29 Jul 11
Yes, sometimes talking actually does help with any pain you might have, but that depends on the severity of the pain. Sometimes it can help and sometimes it can't. If you are in severe pain, it will not help.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
It helps to pass the time away before i get more meds.I think that by being on here in pain, it helps to try to also take my mind of scratching my skin where it is split and bleeding.I think that there are times that i need an escape and this is the site to come to for that.
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@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
29 Jul 11
Yes I think keeping the mind busy is an asset to daily living when battling ill health or personal issues. I believe the mind is the strongest thing we have or will ever own. I don't spend as much time here as I would like to but on good days as today I do my best. Take Care and please know you are on my prayer list, I know you have tough issues according to your posts and I want to be part of a cure. Take care dear friend!!!
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
Thank you.I have come to terms knowing that there is no cure to the things that i have got, so it is the case of making the most of the good things that i do have in my life and the people on here to talk to.I think that there are people that are woirse off than myself in the world, so i should be thankful in some ways.
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
29 Jul 11
I find talking to someone with the same problem I have, helps me deal with mine. I am in pain all over at times, and it is hard for people to see it. Unless they have felt the same thing. I try to keep busy,and keep my mine off it.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I find that topping up on morphine helps with some of the pain, but that can also cause constipation.By being on here it helps to pass the time until the next dose of morphine.I do like to get on here and have a chat with people, as there are always people on here chatting about a lot of things that are an interest to me.
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
29 Jul 11
I find that it definitely helps to talk away a pain. Sometimes I have a really bad day and spend an hour or so strictly on myLot answering some discussions and reading others. Anything that takes the mind off pain is a good thing and if I'm not talking or thinking about myself I can often forget the pain. It's good for us to distract ourselves as long as it's a positive distraction.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I think that this site can distract us from some of the pain.I get to the point of looking at the clock to count down when i can have more meds to get rid of the pain.It is nice that we can come on here no matter what time of the day or night and there will always be people on here that will chat to us.
@GreenMoo (11834)
29 Jul 11
Keeping busy is a good way to deal with stress and low level pain. If your mind is occupied it is less likely to dwell on problems.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
I also find that there are loads of things that tend to come on here to get rid of stress and take their mind off their problems.I feel that it is a place where there are lots of people that are on here day and night, which is great for when we have sleepless nights.
@Shankerj (241)
• India
29 Jul 11
Yes it helps in some kinds of pain; talking and any other activity which we enjoy some time distracts us from pain and stress. But if you start talking about the pain itself, then probably you will feel more pain.
@jugsjugs (12967)
25 Oct 11
By being on here i am not causing myself to scratch my broken skin that is really itching.I find that by being on here it is speeding the time up to the time i can take more morphine for the pain that i am in.I think that it is great that when i come to this site there are always things that we can find to chat about and chat to people that are more like our friends that we have in our every day lives.