Fair Wearher Friends

Thanks for responding. I have heard that expression all my life. We have alot of expressions in Tennessee, lol. I would say u have had some fair weather friends from your response. Hope u are having a nice weekend.

Thank u. It's been nice & quiet , just what i needed.

Thanks for responding. I think u need to be there through thick & thin for your friends & they need to do the same for u.Hope u are having a nice weekend.

I hope you are enjoying your weekend as well. These are hard times for all of us and all of us need all the loyal friends and family we can get.

Thank you for asking. He is doing okay I'm proud of him for just how much he has stayed respectful even being that he is 15 years old now. He has grown up so much. I hope all is going well with your grandson and you. I don't know if you know it but I had surgery and am recovering from both of them. I hope you have a good week. hugs...

NO, I didn't know u had surgery. I hope u are recovering quickly & will soon be back to normal. Glad your grandson is doing so well. I'm picking mine up every day from school & am really enjoying seeing him every day.hOPE YOUR WEEKEND IS GOING TO SUIT U. tAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. hUGS TO U, BIG ONES.

GOOD MORNING, Thanks for responding. I have been surprised at some people on mylot that i thought were friends. I hate it when u just quit hearing from them w/out any explanation to why. hOPE YOUR GRANDSON IS DOING WELL & u are to.

Hi Ambie, thanks for responding. It is sad for people to be this way.

hi dearest Ambie I am sad to hear your sister is one of these people as well instead of listening to you and helping you as you are the one shouldering the load together with your daddy. Hope you get enough strength just for the day as you need it.

Thanks for responding. I am not fond of people who think nothing but themselves.

U are sooooooooo right.

No one fond of these type of peoples. Indeed peoples of this type not deserve status of friend.

Thanks for your respond. I'm sooo glad that ur life is back to where u want it to be.U surely deserve the best after all u went through.

I'm cheering for u.. U can't keep a good woman down for long.

hi dear Antiquelady thanks for your caring loving words. They mean a lot to me.

I am doing okay, it is a little cooler here and will be all next week. I am writing for a freelancing site, it does not replace my income yet, but as I told my daughter, where can I work but not spend gas money and sit here with hair coloring in my hair while I do it. I get to pick which things I want to write as well. It is going to be good, but it does keep me off of MyLot sometimes.

Glad u are doing o.k. thankful u have the writing job. Jobs are scarce around here. It's always been who u know instead of what u know when it comes to getting a job.

HI GG, Thanks for responding. I'm sorry u are even bothered w/someone like that. I hate selfish people that think of noone but themselves. Hopr your weekemd is going good.

Thanks for your response.I'm sorry u had a rough time after your twins were born but surely everyone understood that. People are just too busy to take the time for friends anymore it seems.I think a good friend is when they are there for the good, bad & the ugly & vice versa.

Thanks for responding. Self-centered people can get boring very quickly to me.

i TRY TO BE a good friend to everyone.

wongchoiyee I think it is to your credit you are doing something nice even though she might not appreciate it. Sometimes we just have to do 'what's right' and it sounds as if you are that kind of caring person. Kudos

Thanks for responding. I'm soo glad your friends are being good to use as u go through this rough patch in your life. I think that's really when u find out who your friends are when u go through what u are going through.U take good care of yourself & get well soon.

Thanks Jo. I have always felt I´ve been blessed for the people that have surrounded me all my life. I have a wonderful, caring family, had a wonderful husband and many friends who are there when you need them. It is true that I´m there for them too, but that´s how it should be.

tHANKS FOR RESPONDING. tHESE ARE mYLOT FRIENDS THT I'M SURE I WILL NEVER GET TO MEET BUT DID FEEL VERY CLOSE TO THEM.It is hard to have friends anymore i think.Everybody [but mt, lol] seems to be too busy for friendships----- very sad.

Thanks for responding & welcome to Mylot. Hope u enjoy it as much as i do. Sorry this so called friend even contacted u. That was tacky that she did really just to use u. I can't stand people like that. She is a true fair weather friend.

Thanks for responding. I'm sure u have bunches of friends on mylot. I just think if a so called friend can go for months w/out saying a word to u they can't think too much of your friendship.

I'm sure not fond of one sided realationships. Being friends work both way for both people or should anyway. When i am your friend i'm your friend all the time not just when it's convenient.

I kind of feel the same way, but then I guess it just depends on the lives of the people involved. I have a (used to be) best friend. We went to nursing school together. We were bound at the hip. Things happened, she moved to North GA and I am without a car... I have her phone number and she has mine. Every time we talked it was me who called her. Any time I emailed her or contacted her on facebook I would hardly ever hear a word from her. I know she still loves me, but our lives have taken different paths. I don't call her, because I feel she can pick up the phone as easily as I can. She can email me for a change. I'll always love her as a friend, and I miss her... but I know that our lives have taken different directions. Why must I always be the one who makes the effort? When I do, I am usually not answered. She did give me a poke from Facebook the other week.. that was the first time I realized she even thought of me. I only have a few friends, but my friends are for life.. whether we make contact or not. With the exception of a few people, my friends on Mylot are seen here mostly. The other couple of people make it a part of their lives to write to me... it's like I am a part of their lives and they are a part of mine. They are like sisters to me.

Thanks for your response. I hope your friends will always stick by u like u do them.

Thanks for responding. U are a good friend to stick by her. I hope she appreciates what u do.

Thanks for responding. It's hard for to accept the fact that i have been duped by people i thought were my friends. I don't understand how they can change so quick.

Thanks for responding. It's good u have found out who ur real friends are.

tHANKS FOR RESPONDING. nO, I HAVE NEVER HEARD YOUR EXPRESSION BUT ALWAYS LIKE TO HEAR NEW THINGS,Welcome to mylot, hope u enjoy it as much as i do.

Thanks for responding. The people i was referring to live a long way away from me so they have never used me in any way or even tried to. That would be the icing on the cake, lol.

Thanks for responding & welcome to mylot. Hope u enjoy it as much as i do. Self centered people leave me colder than a cucumber.