Ear Piercing

@Anne18 (11029)
September 27, 2011 9:10am CST
At what age do you think it is right to have your ears pierced? My youngest daughter had her ears done end of July so she had all the six weeks holiday to clean them etc and then to be able to change them and leave them out for PE at school. She will be 12 next week. When I took her to have her ears done the lady who done them said that they had been really busy in the last few days. I think everyone had the same idea as me. I waited until my daughter was 11 so that she could be responabily for them herself. I was the same age when I had my ears pierced. Can I just add I don't think there is a wrong or right age to have ears pierced it is all up to the parent and child, I was just wondering what other people think. I personally wouldn't have had my daughters done any earlier
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@celticeagle (159002)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Sep 11
I think it depends on the child. SOme are sort of tom boyish and not into such things while others what to wear make up when they are six. Have you watched that Mom and Tiaras thing on tv? Ugh! I got mine done at nineteen. Wasn't into it until then. I was pregnant with my daughter then.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Wow, you were a young mum. I had my first child at just 25. I was a tom boy as well
@Anne18 (11029)
28 Dec 11
My children think I am still a tom boy, I'm no lady
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@celticeagle (159002)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Dec 11
I still am a tom boy too. Just not as active.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
28 Sep 11
Hi Anne! I don't see anything wrong with your daughter getting her ears pierced at her age. If they can pierce a baby's ears (which I'm not really sure I agree with, then I think it's just fine. As you said, she's old enough to be responsible to take care of the "cleaning" etc. I didn't get my first piercings until I turned 21 (big scardy cat). My girlfriend who was a few years younger than me purposely bought me a pair of pierced earrings for my birthday and said "we're going after work"! And so we did! (She was way more mature than I was)lol She also drove us to Canada in her tiny sports car convertable-but, that's a whole other story! And then shortly after the first piercings I went for seconds! And about 8 years ago I decided to go for thirds!lol I wear rings on six fingers, 6 bracelets, 3 necklaces and I'm going to be 59 in 2 weeks! The only thing that I did want to do that I never did was get a tatoo! But, I think I'm a bit old for that~or am I?
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@Galena (9110)
28 Sep 11
my mum is 54, and just recently we bought her her first tattoo. she loves it.
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@Galena (9110)
28 Sep 11
if you want it, go for it. it's never too late. shoulders are a good area. it stays smooth. the back also stays fairly well in place. tattoos are great fun, and if you want one, I think you should go for it.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
28 Sep 11
Hi Galena! Thanks! I really want a butterfly on my shoulder and a cat somewhere else. I'm stil thinking about it. My Godson's friend owns a Tatoo Parlor so I know he could "hook me up"!
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• United States
27 Sep 11
My ears were pierced at one time, but I was allergic to the metal from the earrings, and I had to be hospitalize to get the earrings out of my ear. I can never wear earrings again because of my ears having been inflamed from the earrings that I was wearing.
• United States
28 Dec 11
It was about 12 years ago, but yes, it was pretty nasty, and one of my ears still looks like it's pierced, but the other one doesn't really look like it's pierced at all. It was the second time in my life that I had had my ears pierced. The first time that I had it done, I was just a baby, but my mother had to work so much that she couldn't continue to put them in my ears.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
That sounds so nasty, glad everything is cleared up now
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@Anne18 (11029)
28 Dec 11
So pleased that you are ok now, do you think you will ever dare try again? You know what they say third time lucky???!!!!
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@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
if i am an adult that do not have pierced ears and i want them pierced, i can do it any time. but talking about children, i think a parent can have their child's ears picked as early as they are just born. some hospitals can do that service for the infants. i do not think there is a problem having the ears pierced early?
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@Galena (9110)
28 Sep 11
shouldn't hospitals be providing healthcare, rather than purely cosmetic body modifications?
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@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Thanks so much for sharing with us all on mylot
• United States
27 Sep 11
I believe the girls getting there ears pierced should be a babies age maybe around 4 months when that is old enough to get them done. I feel doing this to a baby helps people to realize they are a girl baby or a boy baby. It would help that as well but doing it when there a baby also helps becasue when they are older its already done and the pain they dont have to live through becasue when there a baby there in pain from other things as well and dont mind that as much as when they might be teething too. I would prefer to do it at a babies age but nothing wrong with doing it when there older either.
@Galena (9110)
27 Sep 11
I really don't get this whole idea that it's better not to remember having it done. I remember having it done. it stings a bit. that's all. not remembering the pain isn't really reason enough to have it done when they're too young to ask for it. and why would it be so awful if people don't know a babies gender. they're fairly genderless little things, they won't mind if someone thinks they're the opposite gender. and if the parents would be offended by a mistake, the general clothing usually gives the game away.
• United States
27 Sep 11
1) I feel that clothing is enough to determine the gender of an infant/toddler. Pink, purple, flowers, hello kitty, lace, etc. on clothing generally says "It's a girl!". Blue, green, race cars, dinosaurs, etc. on clothing generally says "It's a boy!". 2) Getting your ears pierced really doesn't hurt that bad. I remember getting mine pierced at twelve years old. It stung a bit, but only for a few seconds. It wasn't like an unbearable pain that scarred me for life. 3) Babies and toddlers are not able to take care of a piercing. They are too young to understand and carry that much of a responsibility. Babies like to crawl around, roll around, put things over their head, etc. Having their ears pierced can cause pain and damage if they were to get hung up on something or even worse get ripped clear out! This is just my two cents. Not trying to put down your response lologirl2021, I just do not agree. Everyone has their own views and opinions on things.
@Galena (9110)
27 Sep 11
I wonder when Dinosaurs became a boy thing. I always LOVED dinosaurs. when I think how much of my childhood I spent up a tree, having piercings could have ended very painfully.
• Greece
28 Sep 11
any age is good for ear pearcing in my opinion. i have seen kids as low as 9 have earings and piercings. there is nothing wrong with this in my opinion.
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@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Thank you for sharing your opinion
• Canada
29 Sep 11
I would definitely wait till the person is in their teen years. I don't understand parents who pierce the ears of their small children. As for myself, I'm 29, almost 30, and I still don't have my ears pierced. I'm just not interested in putting a whole in my body, that I didn't have when I was born. Why should I change my body? I don't even wear makeup.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
I don't wear any make up either, haven't time ot put it on or even how ot put it on
@p1kef1sh (45681)
27 Sep 11
I feel very strongly that nobody should be permitted to have their ears piereced before the age of 16. Then they can make their own minds up. I see babies with piereced ears and just shriek. What gives anybody the right to molest another in that way. It is a disfigurement. Same with tattoos and cicumcision. Just call me an old fuddy duddy! LOL.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
No you are not a fuddy duddy, everyone has an opnion, thank you so much for sharing yours with us
@GemmaR (8517)
27 Sep 11
I always wished that my parents had got mine done for me when I was a young baby because then I wouldn't remember the pain and I wouldn't have been bothered about it. As it was, though, I was 18 when I finally got mine done because I was always so scared about the pain, and about looking after the piercing afterwards if they got infected or anything like that. I even had to take a friend with me to hold my hand because I was that scared of the pain. However I now know that it didn't hurt all that much, so I would do it again in the near future if I needed to for any reason at all.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
The pain is only there for a couple of seconds
@emptydb (80)
27 Sep 11
Yes i agree on you that there's no wrong or right age to have ears pierced cause yes it is all up to the parent and child but i had my ear pierced when i was about 5 yrs. old and i remember it was really painful cause it was an old fashion ear piercing using a big needle with a thread unlike the ear piercing now, it's just fast and so quick that before a child would cry, it's done. I think it all depends on a child cause my niece got her ears pierced at 1 yr. old and it was ok and my other niece had hers by 9 months old but her earrings was removed after a week because of allergy...so it all depends on the child...
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Thank you for so much for taking the time to share
• United States
28 Sep 11
Yes, Galena is correct. Piercings done with a needle are MUCH MORE hygienic and safe to the surrounding tissue.
@sunli123 (538)
• China
28 Sep 11
I got my ear pierced very early, at my 5 or 6 year old age. It was werid beacuse I was not willing to have the ear pierced, my parents insisted, they still don't agree me to get my hair curled.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Thank you ofr taking part in my discussion
@Angelee_27 (3460)
• United States
27 Sep 11
I agree with you. I don't think there is a right or wrong age for a child to get their ears pierced. It depends on the parents, and the child. Personally, I would like to wait until my child is mature enough to understand and be responsible for the cleaning and care that comes with getting their ears pierced. Since all children to not mature at the same rate, there is no specific 'right' age to have their ears pierced. I think a general good age would be between 9 and 13. It just depends on the child's level of maturity and responsibility. Some children are more mature and responsible than others.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Thank you for sharing with us all on mylot, good reading all of the comments
@mariahhh (1328)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Oct 11
I had my ears pierced when I was still a baby. For me, it is the best time to pierce your kid's ears. The main reason is that, I never felt the pain because I was too young. I can't imagine piercing my ears now. I might collapse lol. Everyone in my family pierced their ears at a very young age so it was okay for us.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Some very good answers here on my discussion, many thanks for sharing
• United States
19 Dec 11
There are many mixed views on the subject. My mother made me wait a very long time, and when I did do it, she still did not like it. I have seen mothers that get their baby's ears pierced also. Sometimes I think that may have been a good thing so early because they won't be able to notice pain as much. The babies look so cute though, but I cannot say that would be my decision.
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Dec 11
Yes there are msny mixed views on this subject and yes it has showed during reading this discussion. Many thanks for all who took part