Do not act quickly pitying others

@ravisivan (14082)
India
September 28, 2011 7:49am CST
I am from India. I am now in usa. I got an email as if sent by the purhoit (sastigal/guruji)who lives in usa. It was stated there that his relative is ill and he had to rush to Malaysia and for treatment $1000 was required for treatment....etc.. Honestly I believed it and was about to send a small amount. It was given in the email that the money may be sent through Western Union to Malaysia. His contact phone no. was not given. While we were discussing this suddently it struck my .... doubt and wanted to verify. If we send reply email seeking clarification we may get a wrong one. So I contacted his usa house phone number. We were told that the email id of the guruji has been hacked and is not operative for the last three days. (hotmail id) Immediately I told my people not to send money. This is a new type -- one email id being hacked and it being used for wrong purposes. ? I am posting this for information of others and to check up have you come across similar duping strategy.?
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14 responses
@umabharti (3972)
• India
28 Sep 11
Should be careful with the numbers we have should b e careful with the email ids ,should be careful with everything if not we shall fall in to trouble definetly.Money is such a thing which we shold be careful with.Should have some proofs and trusted things so that we can move forward and help.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 Sep 11
Yes. We should be careful in not sharing our ids and passwords to others. also password should be a tough one. Luckily I did not send money and thought it fit to contact his house and ascertain details. That saved being cheated.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
28 Sep 11
what might be the reason for fooling or cheating someone,do u know or can u guess,what makes a person to cheat other person.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
28 Sep 11
yes @lottery lover ,i do agree tour statement.,some people dont let the children or the kids worry due to money problems.Some kids hide the financial matters or any worring matters so that the elders do notget into tensions.
@mayka123 (17083)
• India
20 Nov 11
I know of another person who had a similar experience. But fortunately she had the other persons phone number and immediately contacted him on phone to ask him where and how to send the money. Then she realized that it was all a scam and someone was trying to cheat her.
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@mayka123 (17083)
• India
21 Nov 11
I believe in the saying BETTER LATE THAN NEVER.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Nov 11
I was in USA at that time. This email id is of a person from usa. I also did the same thing. contacted over phone and then I could know about the scam. have a good day. sorry for belated reply.
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@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
20 Oct 11
Personally this type of SCAM is becoming way too common and still too many people are falling for it, or their are places sending checks to people and telling them to cash them and then send them the remaining balance Western Union to only end up having no money. Good thing you did your homework and did not send them any money. People like this need to be Stopped and wished somehow they could.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Oct 11
Madam: How are you? Hope your wounds are healing fast. You keep yourself busy with work, physical exercises. Yes. I checked up before sending and the money was saved. have an excellent day.
@vandana7 (102698)
• India
20 Nov 11
I've been receiving a lot of mails that seem to be from individuals, some of whom are not known to me. Other mails are the type that I dont expect my friends to send. I presume their IDs are hacked. Likewise, I expect mine is also hacked. I dont give to people I dont know.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Nov 11
yes. if the mail is received from an email id we are not familiar with then there is no problem. This one was as if from a person known to me. That is why I got it clarified and I was saved of helping a wrong bad person.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
28 Sep 11
Oh dear, I'm so sorry you had lost money to this scam, this is awful! :-( I personally don't engage into financial relationships as money get through to people's heads, it's really sad.
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 Sep 11
Madam: I have not lost any money. I was about to send. I am sad even at this stage I could not realise that it was a bogus mail. Other people in my house only found it out and I am feeling sad that I did not have the extra curiosity to find out a bogus mail.
@garson (884)
• United States
21 Oct 11
Few questions: Is your friend currently in a country closed to Malaysia? Is he really poor or cannot afford it? What kind of illness?
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@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Nov 11
I am sorry for replying belatedly. The person in whose id the mail was received -- he is a guruji from India settled in USA. There is no connections for him in Malaysia. It is also not certain that the mail generated from Malaysia. Problem has since been sorted out. I did not lose money.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
30 Sep 11
Online scam come in so many different variety, asking for donation in order to rush his relative to far away land for treatment on diseases is not uncommon, it mainly prey on unsuspecting individual sense of compassion. These scammer usually use others hacked account for the financial transaction to prevent leaving any trail that can lead to them, even if you happen to find out the real owner of the email, it probably is belong to other people that account was stolen but haven't realize it. These scammers like to use Western Union or Money Gram for their wire transfer due to ease of cashing out in their country. Some of them can even make use of other hacked bank account to buy online and pay you in advance with their stolen online bank account, you receive certain amount pay from stolen account, while they receive the goods in their native country. You just have to be extremely careful for any online solicitation for help fund, or business proposal and purchases, they are really very slick in their fraudulent online activity, my friend!~
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Oct 11
That is another type of scam. I came across a report -- a group steals information about debit cards from the atms in chennai. prepares duplicate cards and sends them to western countries and there these cards are used for buying commodities etc. yes. we must be careful while using atm cards also nowadays.
@singuri (571)
• India
28 Sep 11
Yes i do have experienced few experiences like this even i got a letter stating that you are selected for the following post for that you have to send --- amount to following account no ....... after the interview is completed we will be sending your money back...... this is the main matter in that mail.As i was searching for the job i thought it might be true so i called up one of my friend who is already working i that company, then i came to know all the matter in the mail was fake.So my dear friends don't believe any messages related money and be safe.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
29 Sep 11
Yes. Sometimes people do get the addresses or email ids and send duplicate or fake letters and out of 100 people I am sure two or three of us get cheated. I escaped by 20% luck in this case.
@veronizm (907)
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
Oh I receive a lot of emails like this. Mostly ones that would say that he/she had a bank account with money amounting to gazilion dollars and that he is ill and has no other family members to give it to so he would just give it to me etc etc and then would ask for my personal details such as home address, phone number and bank account. I mean, who would fall for such an obvious plot? Good thing they all go to the Spam folder now so I don't have to worry about having to read it, I just delete it immediately. Good thing that you were able to verify the email and were not able to send money. Those bozos really have no other things to do in life but victimize people.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Oct 11
Emails informing about lotteries, prizes, disbursement of estate are quite common. This one was different in that it came from an email id that is there in my address book. luckily we verified.I was saved of embarrassment of having to help an undeserving person.
• Malaysia
29 Sep 11
King Mario - all hail King Mario...haahaa..
hiya ravisivan! yeah...there are so many scams going around on the internet now days...and i too have been the recipient of such emails before. most of the time, if any of them get pass my Spam filter, i'll just mark it as Spam and let it be. but once in a while i do like to check out my Spam box and read a couple of those emails....just to know what sort of low-handed strategy that those scammers could come up with. usually they are quite funny you know.. there was one where it told me that i've just inherited the Royal throne of some obscure African nation... now how awesome would that be if it were true? just imagine...King Mario!
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Oct 11
Great indeed -- You have got a kingdom through email. yes. such emails are so absurd to this extent and more than this also. Do not reply such emails.
• United States
28 Sep 11
That is a scam. So is getting a fully loaded atm card. Any email you get asking for your help or dear beneficiary is a scam. Delete them immeidiatly!
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
29 Sep 11
What is that "fully loaded atm card". is it that you get ready made atm card without asking from some institution or bank? I am not used to this. Now I have learnt a new dimension of frauds being committed on us.
@pahak627 (5347)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
I received several emails such as winning in a raffle draw, helping a sick child, etc. but I just ignored these. And thanks for your discussion the more that I will ignore this kind of email.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
21 Oct 11
yes. discussions like this remind us that we should not expect anything without actually working for it. We should ignore such emails. thanks for your response.
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Sep 11
Hi ravisivan at least your curiosity for confirmation saved you from falling to the trap of scammers.It has been happening all the time where people with evil motives are taking advantage of others to simply get money from unsuspecting individuals.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
28 Sep 11
Exactly. curiosity of my people prompted me to check and that made me stay away from being fooled. Lesson: We have to be cautious in respect of ids known to us also.
@kry893 (221)
• Canada
29 Sep 11
Thanks for sharing this with us, Ravi. This could have happened to any of us and I'm glad you didn't get scammed at all. Good thinking on your part or you'd been duped out of a $1000 out of your pocket. I haven't encountered this before but had an email or two in the past stating I had won lottery and in order for me to claim the money that I have 'won', I would need to send an amount of money for processing fees, which of course, I didn't. I just skipped the whole thing.
@ravisivan (14082)
• India
29 Sep 11
Yes. lottery emails, treasure emails, job emails are so common and I have shared such experience in mylot. But this one was from an email id that is there in my address book and the regard for the person is great. That is why I got confused. thanks.