I've sold the problem I faced in MyLot.

@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
September 30, 2011 9:24am CST
During this time, I make a discussion, about the problems I was facing. Do you think I use my own problems to earn an income? My neighbor said, I've sold the problem I faced in MyLot. It never occurred to me, that I am selling my problem. I'm just curious, what other people think, about my problem. No doubt, I did get the revenue, from discussions about the problems I am facing. Do you have the same opinion, with my neighbor?
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29 responses
• United States
30 Sep 11
No indahfth, I don't feel you "sold" your problem to earn. Reason why I don't feel this way is because you are sincere with your problems. You are not just posting for the sake of posting. You genuinely come here and express your issue and are very open to discuss the issue. If your problems were not real and or you were not interacting with the discussion than that would be different. Also if you can think back to your responses and if you find that they were helpful, then I certainly would not feel this way. You are human and there are times that we as people need to discuss our issues, so what better place if you are comfortable doing so, to do so here on myLot. Think about when you do post your problems here and you receive humble advice about how good it is for you to be able to be able to get things off your chest. Many do not have people offline willing to listen and or are judgmental when they are told about issues in our lives. Maybe your neighbor should come here and enjoy her time here, instead of perhaps making you feel bad for wanting to discuss certain issues in your life. She may just find that myLot is quite a unique place for all of us to be able to be open and expressive.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
It's fun to listen to your opinion. Very comforting. Before, I felt very bad, to hear the opinion of my neighbors.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 11
You didn't sell your problems but you shared your problems with the world audience. Problems shared is problem halved. And mylot with so many expertise in all kind of problems is the best place to get immediate answer to what ever problems one has.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Thank you. Your opinion also makes me relieved. I prefer to look for solutions in MyLot, than with the people around me. And even, a member of MyLot, more understanding, about the problems I had.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
30 Sep 11
no indahfth! I do not feel that way. It is not just the money that one gets when we air problems. It is a genuine sharing of opinion.On the other hand, we make some ordinary discussions and there is no solution sought here. We do get revenue for this but it is a case of mutuality.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
30 Sep 11
Moreover, when someone sells something and gets a revenue someone else is buying it [spending out of his/her pocket]. Ask your friend who bought the problem from you? THen it must be that the buyer she/he is minus some cash.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Yes. I also have a mind like you. I really, want to hear opinions from people of different cultures. And to get it, MyLot is a great place, and happened in MyLot, paid for every discussion.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Sep 11
hi indahfth oh phooey to your neighbor. we sell nothing here. she is so wrong. we come here to have fun, share our problems, and help each others.its not selling any thing. we are paid sure but we earn it with our quality posts. we do not sell anything and I think your neighbor is full of prunes.What a horrid concept. what an unfriendly neighbor. ugh
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hatley!
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Yes. I also say like that to my neighbors. But, my neighbor had a different opinion. Because, the result is money well earned.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 11
In a way, yes... that is my thought as well. But in a global view... hey everyone sell their own life... whether you are an employee, a doctor, a teacher... your life depends on someone else and that is how you earn money. When a person lives in a jungle without some money and only eat what the jungle offers then I guess that person never sell anything of himself...
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 11
Every person sells their own lives, a sentence that is very unique, and very impressive.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 11
Thank you, at least that is what I believe. So, don;t worry too much of what your neighbour said. I bet she/he is selling something too...
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• Indonesia
4 Oct 11
I've recently become a member of this site. I do not know if this site pays. The presumption as expressed by your neighbors, very reasonable. Because there is money you make, from the discussion that you created. Maybe, you can choose another topic, if you are not comfortable with the notion that appears.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 11
Welcome to MyLot. Hopefully you get what you want on MyLot. I do not know, why I'm very comfortable telling my problems in MyLot. Perhaps, because I can get the opinion, from many different countries and cultures. So, make me have a lot of insert. I do not know whether to look for another subject or not.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
Yes. There are many topics that I can make. I will try, to make the discussion to other topics.
• Indonesia
8 Oct 11
There are many topics that you can create a discussion. But, if you feel comfortable, and get a solution on this site, you can continue to do so, and unnecessary care, which is said by others.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
30 Sep 11
I agree with everyone else, you are only asking for advice to deal with life. Is your neighbor willing to lend an ear to help you? If not, then she doesn't know what she is talking about. I have seen many people, including myself, come here for advice from family issues to cooking. So what if I earn money for doing it, that is just a benefit to this wonderful community..:)
• United States
30 Sep 11
Oh, good point HWG, plus I totally agree with you about the gossip part.Before I had a computer, I had no one I could talk to because they would either talk about me behind my back, or would say I have a problem and I need to get over it..Here people are more understanding and though it has been slow, my outlook on life has improve greatly with the support of my friends..
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Yes. I strongly agree with you both. Despite finally getting the money, but in MyLot, we share, and help each other. Perhaps now my neighbors, I've talked with other people. Because, this morning, when I was shopping, I heard a rumor about me. But I do not care. I have been very happy, have great friends, in MyLot.
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• United States
30 Sep 11
It certainly beats sitting around and potentially sharing our issues with them to later find that they are gossiping with other neighbors, that surely will only add to the already issues we all have off line. Sad to say but maybe the neighbor is upset that our friend here has a great many friends who help her and that she is not going to the neighbor for advice. hmmm....
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 11
not really you try to solve the problem this is the place for us to help in solving our daily problems that is okay for me
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 11
maybe your neighbor is jealous that you can make your problems as a bi earning for you. heyy you should invite her/him so he/she can earn too
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 11
Yes. My goal, to find solutions, and to hear the opinion, from MyLot members, who come from several countries.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Oh well, not bad. You are sharing your problem and you earning, isn't good enough? You can always talk with your friends or family members about your problem but they will not pay for that. Unlike here in myloy, you can share and vent out your feelings, you can also receive good advises from other mylotters and at the same time you are earning. Now,the more problem..the more earnings aint?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
I am pleased with your response, I felt so bad before, heard the response from my neighbors.
@ifandri82 (144)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 11
Everyone is free to express an opinion. because, each person has a right to their opinion. Negative opinion, or positive, acceptable and highly desirable. We just need to wise, in receiving negative feedback.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 11
Yes. Every person, has the right, to express opinions.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
For me there is nothing wrong with that being, selling youre issues in life as long as it helps others because of your perspective and others suggestions on how to solve problems, for me it's a win win situation you earn you get suggestions how to solve it , other people are able to show there concern and other people also solves there problem by relating to you and the answers that you receive, so I think you are doing a good job and kudos to you.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
5 Oct 11
Yes. Adhyz. We share the problem here. Hopefully, we get the best solution, through MyLot. Not just to earn money.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Thank you for giving a positive response. I would like to hear opinions like this, from my neighbor.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
4 Oct 11
indah,and it happens to me, when iam sharing my problems (hacked of my email) here...is it selling the problems?? i only share my problems
• Indonesia
30 Sep 11
yah, perhaps your neighbord just jealous on you... you have the problem solver here, you have friends too herem and get earning too here...sometimes people who just like--us wanna be-- but if didnt worked it...they try to stop us...just dont listen to bad comments... you not just found for your solve...but you had shared it to us--that we will never know if u didnt...you tell us hows feel get the problems..and we try to looking the solutions togethers...some of them could be learning too...evryone get the great reward...win win solutions...it a really good things right... so, keep on it, dont ever quit to share with us...
• Indonesia
30 Sep 11
eeehhhh, sorry. i'm to indonesian. but can we talk use anglish here? cause it one from others rule. nice to meet you.
• Indonesia
30 Sep 11
waaahh finnaly i found my native people..i really gratefull.. halo ibu indah...salam hangat dari Jakarta :D
• Indonesia
30 Sep 11
ahahahaa pardon henki... im just trying to give a bit greeting with bahasa... you dnt have to worrying, i will always using english here...since others friends cant understand bahasa ;) nice to know you too
@parjono (39)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 11
Your neighbors, quite critical. And gives a negative view, of what you do. True or not, the opinion of your neighbors, you just know. Because, you just know, your real goal, making the discussion of the problems you are facing.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 11
The response is very good. You are right, only I know, the reason I make a discussion about my problem on MyLot.
@cintara (137)
19 Oct 11
Every person has a different opinion, with what we do. Negative responses, the responses are more frequent in the can. But, there are a lot of people, who will also give a positive response. Negative responses, we made to correct ourselves. Positive response, we make the spirit.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
Yes. You are right. I like your response.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
30 Sep 11
I think you just wanted to release the problem within you. You didnt have anyone there you could talk to so you released it here on mylot. Yes, you get paid for it but it is so little money you earn here that it could hardly be called a sell out. People feel better when they talk about their problems. It helps to not hold it all within you. Honestly when you shared it here were you thinking of the earnings or of telling someone of your problem?
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
2 Oct 11
Right. Kind of like talking with a friend.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
I think, I want to know the opinion of members of MyLot, about the problems I was facing. I was not alone facing my problems. The solution that I got, more precious than the money I get.
@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Oct 11
If you did you aren't the lone ranger! Alot of us write about our problems on here and earn from them. So what if you are earning from your problems. So do alot of other people. It is just what Mylot lets us do. It is a form of psycho-analysis, counselor and sharing online.
@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
2 Oct 11
Yes, sharing our experiences.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Yes. There are many members of MyLot, which also makes the discussion of the problems they face. And we help each other in MyLot, giving advice. It's like we share the experience.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
1 Oct 11
I think it is silly to say you have sold your problems! We are friends here and that is the primary reason for this site. The fact that we are paid is a bonus and I look at it as a thank you from My Lot for contributing to the site. Please don’t look at it as nothing more than friends helping each other. Speaking for myself I like to respond to your discussions and give whatever advice I may have because I care and not because I earn
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
I like your opinion. The money we get, is a bonus.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
so your neighbours is mylot members too?? what is her or his nickname??
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
My neighbor is not a member of MyLot. At that time, I intend to invite my neighbors to join in MyLot. I show my discussion, to my neighbor. I also show my income on myLot. And then, my neighbors think, I have sold my problem, to make money. Even if, my neighbor is also a member of myLot, I will not tell a user name of my neighbors, to you. Because, would lead to things that are not desirable.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 11
so don`t hear him....why you must hear him and influence your activities?? if you think,you come here for getting solution from your problems,ignore his said...don`t hear
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• Indonesia
30 Sep 11
oh god. maybe your neighbor doesn't really know what is mylot. if just about earning, i will do forex trader. but, mylot is place here we can share about our life, help other to solve problem. you can tell your neighbor: if they doesn't know about social network, just quiet. oh god, i feel angry read this.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
Initially, I was also very angry, and I became very bad. But, my anger would not help. To make money, I also forex trading, and opened an online store. It was very short my neighbor thought, I really understand it. Because, my neighbor not knowing myLot very well.
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
maybe your neighbor just know facebook and twitter, like much people in my city.
@neliasni (76)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 11
Negative responses, and positive feedback, very reasonable. We always have a different opinion. Negative according to us, not necessarily a negative for others. We must understand, all the difference.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 11
Differences are always there, but it is sometimes difficult to understand.