Zero Friends

Many of them just do not want to keep in touch any more and they just stop all communication completely It means they do not need us any more .It is better to be silent and take the situation as it is,Time does change,the past will never be repeated ,sometimes it can.Hope we could make new ones and be happy.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding what 'being a friend' entails; do friends treat each other as 'pets'---beings whose welfare you are to look out for (as they look out for yours)? I haven't been able to 'look out for anyone's welfare but my own' since my brain-injury in 1995 ... other than 'not harming them too much.' Oh, I'm "friendly" with nearly every I work-or-play with (friends at the Karaoke Bar, friends at church, friends in school (way back when), friends at the bank, friends in my apartment-complex, friends at the restaurants I eat in); but ONLY when I'm 'at the place where we interact' do any of us show any care for one another. But if I try to find any of them anywhere else, I come off as "a little bit stalker-y."

I think it's a coincidence my friend. They are not ignore in that particular ways. Do not be bother about it. They maybe busy when you called them or they may not be open their email that is why they can't message you back...

Well I can tell you that I never had lots of friends when I was young. But yes, they do dwindle away, they grow up and get lives. And they all loose touch. I do have one friend who was friends with me all my life, he is right now the only one I keep in touch with and thats because we still live near each other. Don't feel bad. Remember, in this life you are lucky to have at least one good friend. You do not need more then that. Any friends after that are just acquaintances.

hello. I was studying your situation. is it possible that friends dwindle because we don't make new ones? Anyway, friends we make progresses as we go on in life, friends we had before are still our friends but we just seem to part ways in this journey we call life simply because interests begin to branch out and differ as we go on, so we have boyhood friends, high school and college friends, friends at work etc... as we age friends pass away or die but it does not mean we cannot make new friends with younger people. No friend, I had never been in a situation where I have zero friends I think I would get spooked if that happened to me.

hi 2wicelot maybe your friend is too busy. just take it easy, you sill have friend in here. even we can't see you.

That is the same way with me. I never had any true friends anyway.

hi2wicelot when I retired several years back after23 years working in t ustin libray all my coworkers promised "oh we will keep in touch with you Patsie" but somehow out of sight out of mind as until UI went to the dedication servive for the new Tustin Library nobody had called me at all./but we did have a group hug for old times sakes. but now t wo years past no calls no emails old friends somehow its again out of sight out of mind.sad but true. so one makes new friends right here on mylot so in sight on my mind, what little is left he he. '

it happens to me sometimes. its like everyone fell off the planet. i start thinking im in a twilight zone. then, if you get into a movie or have to go some place, boom! everyone calls at once or drops over. then you are over whelmed with to much.

Has it occurred to u that they might be busy with work or family? If they are your long time friends, contacts should be regular between all of u. IF they are not that close to u, it's alright to let go since new friends are always nearby. U can try contacting them again after the next few days as they might forget to get back to u? That happens to me often and i'm used to it.

I think that as we get older, we tend to have less friends, as all our lives change.Some people tend to just see friends a few times a month, others see them a lot of the time.I tend to only to want to see a few of the friends that i use to hang around with, as these are really close friends.Sometimes i do not see friends for a few weeks, as we have family now, as well as some of them have to go to work.Some people do not text or call their friends back, as they have ran out of money or credit in their phones.

Everything is possible. World is strange place lately. Did you do something to upset your friends? If not so this is only coincidence. Friends come and go. This is normal past of life. We lose some but we gain new. Some people are just busy with their personal life and I'm sure they would contact with you as soon as possible. I wish you nice day.

That has happened to me already,but I didn't let the situation stay the same for a long time.I looked for new friends and let my ex friends know that they were not the only people I could befriend in the whole wide world.After some months those some of who left me returned,but many didn't.It didn't hurt me a lot because I know that's the human nature.They come and leave.