The contradicting self.

I am pretty outspoken. I speak from the heart whether on here or in person. I have little reason to be anything but honest and forthright. Life is too short to lie or be someone you aren't. It is a waste of time. I may answer with what I wish would happen but I state it as such too.

I don't really know if I'm the kind who "practices what she preaches". In most of the discussions here, I answer from experience. Those that I answer theoretically, I have not come across them personally. But, I think that I will always give my self the benefit that I will not always do as I say.

hi lore thats why i am always irritated by p eople who tell me why I would not hesitate if my loved one was one a life support machine and they asked me when I wanted to pu ll the plug. How dare they say that as they do not at all know what they would feel if tghey were ever in this situation. I always said I did not know how I wo uld feel. so when facing this problem with mydying husband kept alive only by the machine, I could not say pull the plug. I said you are asking me to kill him while he is still alive and might fool you and pull through. I finally called his sister and she tole us to wait until the next day. thank God God decided to take hinm \ home three hours later as I could not tell them to pull that plug. you do not know how you would really react in that kind of situation until you face it yourself.No I do not give out pat answers as I do not know how I will react to a crisis until I am in one.

In my case sometimes I respond discussions with answers that I idealized but I haven't do because sometimes I am not strong mine sometimes, for example when I give advises about the diet and how to eat healthy tjose are things that I would like to do but I am trying to do without result.