what will you do if someone break up with u
• United States
9 Nov 11
Move on! That is what you must do. The person who broke your heart had a reason. No matter what that reason was, you will be better off with someone who truly cares about you enough to put up with your faults as well as love your good qualities. That is the person who will not break your heart. You will have some emotional damage because of the hurt. First, understand that it is OK to be hurt. You lost something, the trust of someone you cared about. So allow yourself to grieve the loss. Take some time to explore the reason they told you caused them to want to leave the relationship. Does your behavior need to change. Then make an action plan to make the changes you feel you need to make. Next, start meeting other people. Take up a new hobby, volunteer, join a book club. Don't look for someone to replace the person who left, just make friends. You will be surprized how quickly you will get through the pain and back into life.
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9 Nov 11
I totally agree! We should always take the best from our relationships, even if we are the ones that get hurt at the end. After a break up, I always think what I did wrong and try to improve, for myself. If someone leaves me then he doesn't deserve to be next to me. I keep a friendly relationship if it's possible and move on.
10 Nov 11
Of course any human being would feel sad. I can't recover from that for atleast 3 days. But immediately i used to think that, that person is not fit to be my friend because she is not capable of understanding us or they dont want to have friendship with us. I never miss someone who never misses me and if a person though fights with me , misses me I would proceed to ask sorry rather than waiting for her/his sorry.
29 Nov 11
That's not healthy. and life isn't about avoiding pain, its about experiencing pain. Learning to live through it and survive it. life goes on whether we want it to or not. The point is to take the lessons and hardships your given and use them to learn to be a better and more loving person.
12 Dec 11
We all know that if a boy is breaking up to a girl sounds very insulting but whether a boy or a girl who's asking for it then simple give her/him what she/he wants, because for me, love will find a way if you two are really meant to be and ... in short, its DESTINY. :)
29 May 12
For me, it is not insulting when a man broke up with a woman...its just simply says that, they are the one courting to the woman so its just practical if they are the one to break with a woman...and there is always a reason why things happen, that is why don't be sad or lonely..let it be..
9 Nov 11
If your heart is broken, keep your mind intact. If your mind gets broken that will be a real devastation. Mind has infinite power and potentialities. It can create, recreate, and materialize almost everything and the easiest thing for it is to mend the broken heart - yours and others'. No one can break up with you if you are whole and complete. That is the power of love. The sense of completion and fulfillment comes with the power of divine love and eventually every love is divine, but detachment from attachment is painful. Love actually transcends attachment. Unfortunately, humanity is not yet prepared to experience that level of love in normal discourse.
2 Feb 12
if she breakup my heart i don't even bother about it because when she is not bothering about my love then why should i bother about her. This is my sincere reply. There are very good guys how show there true love but if she don't realize it then why should i bother about her. i cant just stay with her as well as i cant allow other person in to my life.
16 Jun 12
know that if someone rejects our feelings, but unfortunately it is very boli.Jako young people become too absorbed in relationships with others, when something starts to go bad, vczujemy, significant, alone, we are angry at the whole these are the charms swiat.Niestety youth, this happens to everyone, we need to survive such a life.
22 May 12
It was really crazy. My first boyfriend broke up her girlfriend because of me and I let him go because I also love someone. But that someone broke up with me too because he loves someone also. And what makes it more crazy? that someone that he loved broke up with him because she loves someone also. Then he came back to me and ask for a second chance but I never gave him another chance because I know that he's not really sure about his feelings towards me.
• United States
5 Dec 11
I would of course be sad and cry for days on end. I would have to either move in with my parents or find a roommate as we live together. Since we have been together for a while, i would take time for myself and heal before I would enter into another relationship.
24 Dec 11
I have such experiences in my life. My life was very gloomy on that days with frequently occurring severe grief. On some occasions I tried journeys, which were with positive affects. Actually it took a lot of time to get back normal days and life adjusting to realities.
27 Nov 11
If so,begin to be very sad,as the elapse of time what will be forgotten.Believe that the wonderful life will come not because others hurt every unhappy.there must be a tolerant attitude towards the mistakes of others.Even if the heart was hurt to learn to tolerance,so they will be happy.
1 Dec 11
i think breaking up is part of any relationship until you find that perfect match. if someone would break up with me i would be definitely sad or maybe get confused. esp if i am aware that i did everything i could to make the relationship work or last. i would be asking so many questions about what went wrong or what just happened? has his feelings changed? or it's just it's not working at all? but despite such, acceptance would be the main concept about breaking up. then after some times when all wounds are healed and all questions have been answered then it's time to move on.