Spying on your ex.

I wish I could stop communicating with my ex, but I cannot. Why? Because we have kids together and I need to know what's going on. But if I had no kids, I would not even remember her name.

I usually do look them up out of curiousity. Then I see they are in a relationship for a period of time and then no longer in one and morning it. Several times. Ghee I wonder why? Right after a break up I may not want to look them up but after awhile I might be curious.

I would rather not bother myself with their business if we broke up. It's much easier for me to move forward with life and not dwell or worry about things that I couldn't change anyway. Their business is just that if I were to break up and so will mine be.

I never spy after the breakup either, I can't hear about it, I don't want to know and get angry when people tell me. Now after a while I can check it out, some because I wish life is good to them, some to find out some information so I don't meet them in the places they go. Just to get information really.

I follow my ex in twitter, in a decoy account,she rejected in in face book for 10 times..no luck at all. eversince my break up with her it seemed like she never dated any other man, I think she still likes me. But the relationship just dont work cos her parents area bunch or racist peace of abomination. My current girlfriend lives with me, so I post this message to you in an incognito window and I use mylot when she sleeps or she is not around.... LOL Its been 5 years since my ex broke up with me,

I still spy on my ex we have not dated in 3 years lol. I'm not in love with him it is just kind of fun

hi lore2009! just a piece of advice. stop spying or visiting your ex's networking sites. instead find a way that will keep you busy. spying will make you feel bad. you can't even move on especially if you sees new picture about her new girlfriend. it will be so hard at first, but It will help.:) just go out with your friends, or maybe visit other sites like this one.:) I believe that time will come you'll find a better boyfriend than your ex. soon you'll be happy. just wait for it.:) smile! love, charly

hi lore I never went through that as I had just one love for a lifetime but I know I would not want anymore to do with someone if they had broke up with me. once over always done.exes are not like leftovers you cannot heat them up again. once done thats always done. sayonara, goodby , auf wieder zein, etc etc.

Im kind of guilty on this spying thing. A few months after the break-up its natural for me to really avoid but after a while i sometimes am curious of whats going on in their lives. Have they moved on already? or are they still in that dark place? Just simple curiousity i guess after all they are once part of my life.

I think when you want to spy on your ex through the net, it means you are still pining for him/her. And what good would it give you if will keep on spying him/her? I am just like you. If i have broken up with my boyfriend , then it's for real so i don't want anything that will remind me of him.