My Thoughts in Life, What's Yours?

@neildc (17239)
Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
March 12, 2012 9:48pm CST
Hiya myLotters and friends! While on the Lot, I usually keep my music player on. I came across with the song that goes: "Why girls in the long run of the relationship seem much harder to understand? Just like a problem that in the beginning, so easy to handle, But becomes harder if it remains longer." Well, this is life and we need to bear with it. Whatever problem we may have, we have to look for its solution, never ignore or take it for granted, so it will not get worse. But when they come in bulk, take it one at a time. We cannot solve them all together at the same time. You share your thoughts? ~~ NEILâ„¢~~
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14 responses
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Hi there Neildc! I also enjoy listening to music while I am posting here in Mylot. They sometimes give inspiration about what I am going to post. You are right. We will never run out of problems while we are living so we should learn to handle them one problem at a time. I think you have a very good attitude about life and it would be a lot more meaningful when we are not constantly worrying and complaining about the problems that we have.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
some people would even tell you, you seem to have no problems as you look fresh as always. but deep inside, we have problems. though we look that way, we do not take problems so heavily and take it one at a time.
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
it will be so stressful if we would always take it way too serious.. its still nice that people look you positively well even if problems arises. a calm heart and mind... and to think things over and have some helping hands if needed... take it open minded outlook even if sometimes you want to give up. but that's life ... sometimes we are up while other time we are down.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
Hi Neild i have so many thoughts that i have when i face the problems in my life but there is one lyrics that i love it so much.. that is from Jason Mraz- I wont Give up the lyrics said : God knows I am tough, He knows guess these all problems came cause God knows that i have the ability to handle it
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
yes ifa, i also believe that God will not give us what we cannot handle.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
And so are men too... aren't that on the song too? Just kidding. Anyway, yhea your right all problems have solution but sometimes it is hard to carry out those solution and it comes up with another problem again. That was life so confusing . Sometimes I wished to disappear and run, but I know problems are still there, unless I will be mentally ill for sure It's not my problem anymore. One of my friend told me all problem will pass just try to ride on it and things will be better instead of thinking it over and over that can make us more depress and lonely. Hmmm in some point she's right we cannot control all that surrounds us.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Yhea that's why we better ride on it somehow it is easy to solve when your not too emotional about it.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
alright, we cannot run away from our problems. we have to face the problem. and if we don't, it will not only remain a problem but it may branch out and bigger and more heavier to handle later on. if we run away, we could escape from it but someone that you left with that problem will need to take it. and we don't want that to happen too, especially with our loved ones.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
13 Mar 12
It's been my experience that a lot of life's problems take care of themselves. If I have one that demands my attention I give it that attention and I also ask for help from others but mostly from my higher powers. Of course if you have a problem, like a horse standing on your foot, it's best to take immediate action. Blessings
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Mar 12
good thinking savy.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
We have to accept the truth that nothing is permanent in this world.We may encounter problems now and be able to resolve it but there will come a time that another test will come your way.This only shows that we can't be sure of everything while we are living., adjustments is the only solution in every life's mishaps. We should learn to adapt to things and situations so that we can overcome obstacles in our lives. :)
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Mar 12
that's right, we have to make adjustments with our lives when problems come.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
That's true neildc. When problems come in bulk, we should learn to prioritize which one should be dealt with first. Like when debts have piled up, deal with those that have deadlines and that would incur so much surcharge and penalty. That way, your debt will not pile up more.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
exactly.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
oh yes. and when they are so much, you could get another loan to pay the existing loans.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Correct! Just as long as its not from the loan sharks, neildc, or else you will be buried in debt. You can apply for a Pag-ibig loan and if it's not enough then get an SSS loan pa, for private employees. For government employees, get a GSIS loan. And when those 13th and bonuses arrive , you can pay some of them too.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
13 Mar 12
SOng pretty much says it all dont it?
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Mar 12
it really does.
@celticeagle (158876)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Mar 12
If we really care about the other person i bet they are much easier to understand. We do tend to take our loved ones for granted. We shouldn't but we sure do. I think a song like this hopefully will make people not do so.
@picjim (3002)
• India
14 Mar 12
Several problems tend to be more difficult than at first.In the beginning we probably have an open mind and can tackle problems well.But as we repeatedly face problems we tend to find them more difficult to handle.We shouldn't ignore problems but face them as they come and try and find solutions.I, do agree at times many problems confront us at the same time making finding solutions difficult.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Yep, girls are much harder to understand once you get to know them more. I've also experienced this with 4 of my exes. They all have one thing in common: they treated me like I'm a mind reader, like I understand them when they're acting out. I told them so many times that I'm not. I don't have Professor X's abilities. They should also figure out the more obvious thing -- talking is more normal than overreacting on certain situations, which is dumber if you think about it.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
sometimes they even treat us as insensitive.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Now this is deep and is something my brain couldn't handle at the moment. I'm dumb today. Yesterday my friend and i were discussing about how much we were earning 4 years ago and how much we earned now. We earned more than 80% than we previously did but we thought where did our money go? Life was more easier and comfortable when we earned less but now that we earned more we got more to spend and more complications. NOt sure if it was related to your discussion. Sorry Neil.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Problem is always there, it is how we handle things and each situation. I know it's easier said than done, but if we only look at things in a lighter way, it won't be as big as the whole world. Try to solve one by one, we cannot solve everything in a snap.Make it a step by step process, if you think it is easier to solve the easiest problem first, then go ahead, solve it first, and so on. Take time to sit and think every step and move to avoid more complications.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
14 Mar 12
very impressive advice. thanks.
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
hello neildc! it is really fun to listen to music and at the same time browse mylot. it is a way for my brain to be stimulated. by what i am reading and on what i am listening to. but then sometimes i am distracted by one that i can cannot concentrate anymore to the other. it also gives us ideas on what to start for discussion like what you did. right now my thoughts in life is that it is too short not to go out and see the world. i am looking for promos for airfare so that i can travel to places that i have not seen before. i hope i can soon
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Mar 12
that's a good idea kat, to escape from our problems, at least for a moment. i also think about unwinding through traveling and see how beautiful our world is.
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
music do eases stress away and its nice to have the music on while mylotting... done this always a long time before and never get tired of it... music is my life... without it. its like so empty inside and out... yes, life as we may call it complicated but if we know just how to handle it and not be taken back my the stress of what may become of it.. then we can handle it perfectly well. right! just take one at a time. relax take a deep breath. straightened out. compose yourself and then when you are ready to handle it once more don't hesitate to. life is always what we make it. all we have to do is be patient, pray... it everything will go smoothly. =))